How much pressure does the wedding gift culture have on young people?

Recently, a very novel card appeared on the Internet. On the card, we can see several small characters next to the three big characters of mutual exemption card. Friendship is priceless. The heart is here, no gifts. It is understood that during the National Day, a couple held a wedding, and many friends came to the wedding scene. The red envelopes they received were plain but happy. Because there was no money in this red envelope, they put a card called a gift card.

According to the number of times, this gift card was designed by the young couple themselves. Their gift card is completely out of the circle on the Internet, and it also breaks the shackles of human feelings. Because the present gift-giving culture is under great pressure on young people, not only money is lost, but also social rules that have existed for a long time. In our life, whether it is a wedding, a birthday or a child's full moon, we will hold a banquet to invite relatives and friends. As relatives and friends, we are too embarrassed to come empty-handed, so we will hang a gift in our personal notebook.

But in fact, everyone understands a truth in their hearts. As the saying goes, talking about money hurts feelings. In interpersonal relationships, money can also become embarrassing and heavy. For example, sometimes it is complicated to answer how much you want. If you are not careful, the boat of friendship may capsize. Nowadays, especially young people, their life pressure is very great. When you get married and have children in your mid-twenties, you will find that not only all your friends are married and have children. At this time, you will face a lot of money. For young people who have just got married, their life pressure is very great, so young people are tired of this complicated interpersonal relationship and can be said to want to get rid of the human shackles of money.

I have to say, the design of your gold card is very thoughtful for the young couple. The gift card was sent with the invitation. When friends arrive at the scene, the oppression of debt of gratitude is also eliminated, which will make the wedding more meaningful. In fact, many families have put forward this tacit understanding of not giving gifts to each other, especially during the Chinese New Year. Let relatives come home for a reunion dinner and be happy. There is no need to give gifts to each other. This kind of festival can be said to be very relaxed and happy, and we will not think about it because the two sides give gifts to each other.