Interpretation of photographic 16-character formula

The road of life, like a ship sailing in the sea, always has stormy waves and ups and downs. People can't always be smooth sailing, even those who have the ability will inevitably encounter a trough. But many difficulties in life are actually caused by people, all of them are life. If you want to get rid of the countercurrent in life, ride the wind and waves, and change things, you must know how to take advantage of the trend and avoid disadvantages. It is the wisest thing to resolve or avoid all unfavorable factors and absorb all useful help for me.

The mirror of life, an ancient wonderful book, has four main points, and learning it will benefit a lot. When life is down and out, memorize the 16-character formula and be a blessed person!

First, forgive without complaint.

As the saying goes, forgiveness is also a virtue. Be open and accommodating. There are no truly perfect people in the world, even ancient saints sometimes make mistakes. Everyone has advantages and specialties, as well as shortcomings and deficiencies. Different positions and angles will lead to different ways to deal with the same thing. People can't expect everyone to behave like themselves, but should learn to seek common ground while reserving differences and learn to be tolerant. If you can forgive yourself everything, there will be no gap between human feelings.

Secondly, peacemakers are not hostile.

As the ancients said, there must be happiness if there is kindness. If a person is gentle and kind to others, he can live in harmony with others, and naturally he will have a happy and comfortable mood every day, with few disputes and troubles. In one's life, it is very important to live in peace. People are mutual. If you give others sincerity and kindness, others will repay you with kindness and courtesy. Today, you turned an enemy into a friend, reconciled the contradictions between the two sides, and may become a partner in the future.

However, many people do not understand this truth. They are usually aggressive and aggressive, and don't care about other people's feelings at all. Sometimes they go their own way knowing that they have offended others and don't know how to restrain themselves. Such consequences will only bring more hatred and enemies to oneself, increase obstacles to one's life and career, and the loss outweighs the gain.

Third, ninjas have no shame.

A person's real ability is not to see how beautiful he is when he is proud, but to see how forbearing he is when he is humiliated. Life is very long, you don't need to fight for the victory or defeat because of the passion. You should see further. Temporary forbearance and retreat are not incompetent abandonment, and bravado regardless of the strength of the situation is pathetic and stupid.

Gou Jian, the king of Yue in the Spring and Autumn Period, was defeated by Fu Cha, the king of Wu, who arranged to feed the horses, which was a great shame for the king of a country. However, Gou Jian fought back all the humiliations, fought hard for more than ten years, and finally defeated Fu Cha, the king of Wu. He not only got revenge, but also achieved his reputation as the overlord in the Spring and Autumn Period.

Fourth, the benevolent is invincible.

A benevolent person refers to a person with virtue, benevolence and kindness. No matter how the times change, the power of morality will never be weakened. Those corrupt officials, unscrupulous profiteers, vicious hooligans and despicable villains who have fallen off the horse lack the kindness and integrity that a benevolent person should have, and all the benefits they have obtained are obtained through improper means. Even if they had a great time, they will eventually be punished and pay for the bad things they have done.

Mencius said that those who are convinced by virtue are happy and convinced. People with lofty virtues can gather people's hearts and gain the trust and follow of others whenever and wherever they are. Just like Liu Bei in the Three Kingdoms, he was just straw sandals when he first debuted. He has no money or power, nor can he compete with forces like Cao Cao and Sun Quan. But with the heart of benevolence and righteousness, he appealed to the people all over the world and attracted talents from all walks of life to defect. With this popular support, the great cause of Shu was established. If everyone is willing to stand on their side, help themselves and provide strength, what else can't be done?