49-year-old Zhang Yimou suddenly received a call. 19-year-old Chen Ting said she was pregnant. What happened?

Zhang Yimou, a great director, became famous at home and abroad after cooperating with Gong Li. The two did not get married, but got together with the young Chen Ting. Chen Ting, who was less than 20 years old at the time, called him and said she seemed to be pregnant. What was the situation like at that time?

Chen Ting called to complain, and Zhang Yimou called to offer advice

After Chen Ting and Zhang Yimou met, they lived together under Zhang Yimou's pursuit. They were sweet and secretive, but one day, Chen Ting called Zhang Yimou and the doctor told her that she might be pregnant.

For Chen Ting, this was a bolt from the blue. She was a college student at the time. At that time, many people would look down upon her if she had a child out of wedlock. When she called Zhang Yimou, her tone was full of anxiety.

After Zhang Yimou heard the news, he was not nervous. Instead, he thought about it and told Chen Ting that there were two options. One was to drop out of school, give birth to the child, and live together. together. The second way is to abort the child and continue to go to school. He will be responsible for it.

After hearing this, Chen Ting was also thinking, which way is better? Or maybe she chose to drop out of school after asking her friends or family around her.

After dropping out of school, she basically disappeared from everyone’s sight. No one saw her, and she was only mentioned among friends and family, but she was the supporter behind Zhang Yimou.

Zhang Yimou arranged Chen Ting in the villa, and he still worked hard to shoot good films. Films such as "House of Flying Daggers" and "Hawthorn Tree Love" took Zhang Yimou's career to a higher level.

Not only has there been progress in career, but also in life. He and Chen Ting have three children, born in 2001, 2004 and 2006 respectively. Zhang Yimou once said that he is a relatively traditional man. If his mother wants to have a grandson, he will try his best to fulfill her wish.

As the woman behind Zhang Yimou, Chen Ting has never shown up because she has no status. Maybe it’s because you love it so deeply that you don’t need to care about it. She didn't care, but the children did. They always asked who their father was, but she didn't dare to tell them.

Because I know that the children have no scruples in childhood, if they tell it, it will not be good for Zhang Yimou, so I would rather wrong myself. This is quite similar to Chen Kun, he just won't say the name of the child's mother.

It was not until later that someone reported that Zhang Yimou had multiple children, and his studio responded and was willing to accept investigation. Zhang Yimou's child was exposed, and then the two received their marriage certificate.

Some people say that Chen Ting is holding on until the clouds open and the moon shines. She said that since she decided to live with him, she was destined to give up a lot. He is working hard for his career outside and being a full-time wife is the support for him.

A very happy family

Chen Ting has registered on social networks since she got married. She usually posts about her life, not to show off. Things a normal housewife does.

She said that as a parent with a high school student, a junior high school student and an elementary school student at home, every parent meeting is stressful. Needless to say, it goes without saying that Song Dandan, a celebrity mother, is very stressed when she holds parent-teacher conferences.

She was often left alone to talk. Her level of collapse at that time should not be weaker than that of Chen Ting. Thinking about it, it was not easy for Chen Ting. She gave birth to three children and took care of their lives by herself. Zhang Yimou was busy with his career and had no time to take care of them.

But even so, Chen Ting had no complaints. This may also be what Zhang Yimou likes about Chen Ting. When you reach a certain age, you don't like your partner to make trouble. Is this the reason why Zhang Jizhong married Du Xinglin? The family is also very happy.

After Zhang Yimou returned home, he cooked the food himself. Chen Ting's joy was beyond words. At this time, I would be sorry for myself if I didn’t post an update.

Not only show off her husband, but also show off her son. The eldest son has been able to work as an intern on Zhang Yimou's crew. Chen Ting wrote that the hug between two people is worth a thousand words.

However, she also revealed: In the crew, Zhang Yimou did not give his son special treatment and lived like everyone else. This should be an experience for him. Under the camera, the young man is taking pictures with a camera. Is he taking behind-the-scenes footage?

It is not easy for her to handle the relationship between the family and maintain the friendship of the family. She can actually have a good relationship with Zhang Mo (the daughter of Zhang Yimou and his ex-wife), which is also amazing.

Some people say that it is difficult to be a stepmother. What's more, she and Zhang Mo are not much different in age, so it's good for the two of them to have something to talk about. Zhang Mo is also in the entertainment industry. She also directed a film. Although the response was mediocre, it was still a well-written film.

The relationship between Chen Ting and Zhang Mo is like best friends. She once told Zhang Mo that there were some things that Zhang Yimou couldn't say to Zhang Yimou, but he could talk to her. Zhang Mo was very moved by his words.

She knows that Chen Ting has devoted a lot to this family and is also a kind-hearted woman. When she is with her father, she often hears her father talking about Chen Ting, and her words are full of love.

Zhang Mo was not jealous, but felt that this woman gave his father a lot of comfort and gave him more comfort when he was busy. The happiness of the family is the contribution of two people. Rather than one person's persistence.

Some people say that because there is such a big gap between Chen Ting and Zhang Yimou, she must have fallen in love with Zhang Yimou. Otherwise, how can someone with a father-like age cross the age boundary?

A husband and a young wife can be happy till old age

In the entertainment industry, many people have a big age gap. The gap between Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi is very big. They are more than ten years apart. . After they got married, Liu Shishi was favored by Wu Qilong and became a princess.

During Liu Shishi’s pregnancy, Wu Qilong was the one who carried the bags, accompanying Liu Shishi during pregnancy check-ups and taking care of her when traveling. It can be seen how much Wu Qilong cares about Liu Shishi.

The age gap between Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning is even greater. They are both very happy. In front of everyone, Weng Fan is the elegant woman, and Professor Yang Zhenning is gentle and elegant. The two are a perfect match.

Old couples and young couples can live a happy life. When Ling Feng married He Shunshun, He's mother said that it would be okay for men to be older because older men know how to love women.

Every woman hopes that her husband will pamper her as a princess, so that she can live in a fairy tale, with happiness and contentment as the ending.

There is such a big gap between Chen Ting and Zhang Yimou, but they both work hard on their marriage. In their current life, their children have a promising future, their husbands have a career, and they have goals. Such a life, in the words of Venus: perfect.

Zhang Yimou's evaluation of Chen Ting is that she is low-key, reserved, gentle and virtuous. This evaluation can be described as high, and it is also a very important reason why Zhang Yimou chose her as his partner.

The fact that Chen Ting has been behind Zhang Yimou for so many years, but has been holding back, shows that her character is really low-key and generous. She has the gentleness of a woman from the south of the Yangtze River and the perseverance of a woman from the north.

She insists on improving herself for the sake of her family. She also went to graduate school. This promotion was to have some common language with Zhang Yimou. Many people said that it is enough to be the wife of a rich family, so why go out and work hard on your own?

Yu Mingjia once said on the show that her husband asked her to take care of her husband and raise children at home, but she disagreed, thinking that if this was true, her circle would be very narrow. When her husband likes her enough, There will be problems.

Chen Ting may also feel this way, so she keeps improving herself. Of course, Zhang Yimou also supports this decision to study. It seems that spiritual communication between two people is essential.

There is no age gap between husband and wife. The age gap is mainly at the level of thinking, in other words, the three views are in harmony. If you can do this, then age is not a problem.

If the three views are not consistent, even if they are of the same age, they will not be able to agree. An old husband and a young wife, if they are spiritually consistent, they will have a happy life.

There may be some differences between Chen Ting and Zhang Yimou, but both of them have paid a lot for their families, which makes their lives so happy and happy. Some people say that Chen Ting is coveting Zhang Yimou's money. It is better to say that Chen Ting is doing it to better herself.

Let your thinking be consistent with Zhang Yimou's, so that you can be ideologically successful. Only in this kind of life can the piano and the piano sing in harmony. Many people find this difficult, but Chen Ting did it.

Written at the end:

Chen Ting listened to Zhang Yimou’s advice and chose a path that suited her. On this path, it was very difficult, but she was happy with it. . This is also a kind of happiness.

The happy life of Chen Ting and Zhang Yimou continues, but there are always people gossiping. For such people, just ignore them. No matter what others say, follow your own path and you are better than gods and demons.

What do you think of the path Chen Ting has chosen?