A Zong Hua family with a big mouth, a happy family of three.

Zong Hua, the captain of the popular hip-hop group "Big Mouth" and a well-known DJ, got married and had children on 20 13, and was quickly promoted to be a husband and father. Today, he and his wife Chen Meiji don't talk about music, but share their parents' experiences easily. Dazui, a sweet and well-known pop hip-hop group, won the Golden Melody Award for Best Singing Group twice. As a team leader with a big mouth and a well-known DJ, Zong Hua married his girlfriend Chen Meiji of two years on 20 13, and had a son at the end of the year, which was quickly promoted to husband and father. Today, he doesn't talk about music, and shares with you the most relaxing and interesting lessons of novice dad. I don't want to miss my son's growth, but I insist on talking about my wife's pregnancy. "I'm happy and excited, but I really hope it's a boy," Zong Hua said. He explained that he didn't prefer boys to girls, but felt that he was a big boy. If he has a son, he can play musical instruments and remote control cars with his father and son when the child grows up. He also honestly said: "I love to buy toys. I can't stand the sight of cute cars and helicopters. I really want to take all these toys home. I am often read by my wife why I buy this and that. In fact, before their son was born, they had discussed the care of children. Maggie said, "Zong Hua wants to accompany his son to grow up and spend every stage of his life. He doesn't want his son's childhood memories to be nannies. He wants to participate in the details of the child's growth. " When the couple had this knowledge, after their son Hao Ming was born, Zong Hua had no second words and shouldered the responsibility of being a father. My son likes music. Since prenatal education, Zong Hua has been in charge of teaching DJ (music program host) in addition to giving notice during the day. And his wife Maggie works the night shift, so at present, the son is taken care of by two people in turn. Zong Hua pointed out: "When I went to teach, I also took my nickname with me. Interestingly, I found that my son would be excited when he heard hip-hop music, and his body would shake with him. "When he discharges the sound, the baby will jump and beat with the rhythm; Play lyric songs and you will sleep. It turns out that music has such a great influence on children under the invisible influence. For a son who likes music, it may also be related to prenatal education. Before getting pregnant, my wife told Zong Hua that she wanted to learn DJ. It didn't take her long to get pregnant, but she practiced for 10 months until she gave birth, and worked as a DJ in a nightclub after giving birth. Zong Hua proudly said, "My wife is my successful teaching case. I often tell students that as long as they study hard, they can learn it in one year. As his wife works at night, Zong Hua is almost taking care of his son, helping him take a bath and urinate. He said, for example, at 7: 00 or 8: 00 in the morning, it is time for his son to drink milk. After feeding milk, let him take a nap. When he wakes up, take him to exercise to help him bathe, and go out to class with his son on his back in the afternoon. Because Zong Hua's working hours are flexible, Maggie said, "He will take care of the baby's life, whether it is bathing, nursing, changing diapers and so on. In principle everything he wants to do will be done first. Thoughtful, he also understands that his wife can't go to bed until three or four in the morning because of work. The next morning, she will let Maggie sleep for a while and take care of her son. In fact, at first, Maggie felt dizzy and at a loss. She didn't expect to have a baby so soon. Even though she respects her family and loves her children, she has plans to get married and have children. But when she did have a baby, she began to hesitate. She said, "I don't know if I can be a mother. "After all, take care of your own children first; It's not that simple after having children. Just like now, whether I go out to work or steal time to have dinner and afternoon tea with my friends, my whole heart is still hanging on my son. Will I worry about his son today? Did you eat well and sleep well? Wherever she goes, her heart seems to be tightly bound by an invisible line. Politeness, punctuality and the important principle of parenting Zong Hua, who is deeply influenced by Japanese culture, said, "My son will be very polite and punctual. "In fact, when I was a child, Zong Hua liked to be naughty. After going to Japan with his mother, after a period of adaptation and study, I learned that the Japanese are very particular about the inherent rules. This atmosphere gradually influenced Zong Hua, making him feel that politeness and punctuality are very important. For example, he explained that when greeting people in the morning, you must say "good morning" instead of "hello". Zong Hua explained that "Hello" is an informal greeting. In addition, due to the Japanese's precise concept of time, influenced by this culture for a long time, Zong Hua was never late for work in Taiwan Province. He pointed out that if he was late for work, something important must have happened. Suddenly, Zong Hua paused for a moment and said, "I think I will be a strict father when raising my son. In addition to asking children to be polite, Maggie believes: "The most important thing is to hope that children will grow up safely and happily. A son doesn't have to study hard and be a model student, but he will be required to have a good character and be kind, and support him in whatever work he does in the future. Besides, she will never spoil her son. She said, "It is very important to teach children to distinguish between right and wrong, and let their sons know whether they should do it or not. After getting married and having children, he developed a good temper and talked about his biggest change. Zong Zhonghua confidently replied: "My temper has become very good and gentle. Before marriage, Zong Hua had a bad temper. He said: "As long as my hand is on the steering wheel of the car, I will always be talked about driving on the road without obeying traffic rules. He also admitted: "Other big mouth members often advised me to change my temper. However, after having a child, especially in the baby stage, no matter whether you are hungry, tired or want to hug, you will cry. It's no use being angry with children. At this time, the only thing you can do is to wait patiently. Although my son is now 10 months old, it may not be understandable to communicate with him. Zong Hua, for example, said that his son likes to play with pens, but he was worried that he would stab himself, so Zong Hua would gently take the pens away from him and explain to him, "Pens are very dangerous. It hurts when it hurts. You can't take them. However, when Zong Hua was not paying attention, the clever son got up and picked up other pens to play with. When Zong Hua saw this scene, he quickly took the pen from his son. After repeated several times, Zong Hua simply gave his son a whole ballpoint pen. At this time, my son didn't want to play and felt bored. In addition, sometimes the son will cry inexplicably, even if he is held, he will always cry. Various methods have been tried, but they are still ineffective. Helpless Zong Hua simply put his son in his exclusive seat. My son cried for a while and found that no one cared about him, so he was curious to start doing something else. Then Zong Hua will pick him up and play with him. Zong Hua pointed out: "If you lose your temper with your baby when he is crying, it will only make him cry more seriously, so you have to find some ways to interact with your child from time to time. "After marriage, Zong Hua really became more gentle and considerate," Maggie also said. In the previous stage of boyfriend and girlfriend, maybe two people didn't live together, didn't know each other's work and rest rules and living habits so well, and were busy with work and grumpy, so they would start from their own viewpoints and cause communication difficulties. But after marriage, Zong Hua changed a lot and became more gentle. When the couple communicate, he will consider it from Maggie's point of view. Parents love each other and give their children the best gifts. After their son was born, Zong Hua's father's love broke out, and he was willing to urinate and nurse his son. In the process of raising children, he also deeply realized the hardships of being a parent. He said, "Sometimes I feel ashamed. When I was a child, I felt that my mother was very annoyed and often spoke to her in a fierce tone. Like 10-month-old son who is afraid of heat, the air conditioner at home is on 24 hours a day. He was shocked to receive a high electricity bill. One day he mentioned this to his mother, and her mother replied, "You know now!" " You used to turn on the air conditioner at home every day. As a father, I am no longer self-centered, and the ripples that occasionally fall on my heart deepen and widen. As for the interaction and getting along with his wife, Zong Hua said, "Maggie's opinion will be the main one. Even if there is some friction between the two, most of them will let her, and there will be no premarital disputes with her. He said with emotion that even if he won the other side, he had nothing to say, which made the two people feel high and the family atmosphere was malodorous. Did he really win? Will you be happy? " Parents should try not to quarrel, especially in front of their children, "Maggie said. In fact, children can feel their parents' love or complain about each other. Maybe he can't express it yet, but children can feel that their parents' atmosphere is wrong and there is no temperature in interaction, which may jointly affect their growth and future personality. In this era, parents have few children. After having children, they want to give them to the whole world. However, Maggie, who loves children deeply, believes that the best gift for children is actually a pair of loving parents and a harmonious and warm family. The best gift for children is an interview with a pair of loving parents/Wei Jiechan's makeup hairstyle /Serena's styling/Youci clothing brand/adult: Nobleza, yiwo, star Baohao, SCRATCH, baby: Little MARC JACOBS, BOSS Photography/Pandora's professional children photography * Please refer to: Mommy Baby 2065438+65438 2004. 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