Is women's economic independence the reason for the increase of singles and divorce rate?

Women's economic independence is not the root cause of singles and rising divorce rate. The reason for this view is that women are becoming more and more independent now. Even if you are wronged in marriage, you will no longer make do with it. They will no longer be afraid of helplessness after divorce. So what is the root cause of the increase in singles and divorce rates?

1, the difference of life concept.

For life, everyone has different requirements and habits. Every couple will try their best to conceal their defects, including some bad habits in life, before they get married. In order to win each other's favor in the process of love, they always show each other the kindest, best and most sincere side of human nature.

But after marriage, we will know each other's shortcomings and find unacceptable habits. For example, the woman is a clean and tidy person, but the man is very casual at home and puts things casually. This situation can be tolerated for two days. After a long time, complaints will inevitably appear, leading to emotional alienation. Although this is only a small matter, life is made up of many such small things. If there are many small things that are not satisfied, they will become irreversible events.

2. Poor economic conditions.

There is a saying that I believe many people have heard: money is not everything, but it is absolutely impossible without money. Money is everywhere in life. When we are not married, we just need to take care of our own lives. But after we get married, we have to take care of a family. Tea, rice, oil and salt are all free, especially with children at home, and the cost of food and clothing is worrying.

If the economic conditions are not rich, there may not be any differences for a while, and it is not a problem to encourage each other to understand, but after a long time, contradictions will inevitably arise. Coupled with people's inevitable comparison psychology, the contradiction will intensify day by day, and eventually the two people will never change back to their original appearance.

3. Improper handling of life contradictions.

Everyone in this world, it should be said, will live. However, everyone lives in contradiction. It is more appropriate to say that we are solving contradictions in life rather than living in this world. The relationship between spear and shield is the relationship between men and women.

If the contradiction between husband and wife is not handled well in life, even a small and insignificant thing, such as an inappropriate remark or a dismissive remark, will trigger a marriage war without smoke. These small things that are not contradictory, if not handled properly, are likely to lead to the breakdown of marriage.

Therefore, women's economic independence is not the fundamental reason for the increase of singles and divorce rate, but the fundamental reason lies in life, economy and feelings.