An example of a successful person.

-read "My family is stupid enough to go to Cambridge"

■ Feng Wei

As early as 100 years ago, Danish writer Andersen wrote a fairy tale about an ugly duckling turning into a white swan. This is a story about striving to realize the value of life. In The Ugly Duckling, we see the sacred glory of life after the baptism of suffering. After reading this fairy tale, our hearts will be full of hope to change our destiny, and we will have vision and confidence in the future. The growth process of Zhang Chi, the youngest doctoral student from China in Cambridge University, can be said to be the story of the ugly duckling turning into a white swan in the contemporary version. However, Zhang Chi's rapid development does not depend on fate. In addition to his own efforts, it is his amiable and respectable parents and many teachers who know how to educate and care, giving him the strength to fly high and create wings to fight the sky.

Zhang Chi's parents are one of the tens of millions of ordinary working-class people in Qian Qian. After being admitted to Queen's College, Cambridge University, Zhang Chi, to pursue a doctorate in computer science, many relatives and friends and even some parents who have never met often come to learn from their teachers. Zhang Mingshan had the idea of writing a book, not to brag about "parenting experience", but to record his mental journey of growing up with his children. In the book My Family is Stupid enough to Go to Cambridge, the omnipresent warmth and human feelings surround us. The book is full of sincere love between parents and children. Perhaps this is the true portrayal of greatness in the ordinary. Zhang Chi's story is true and full of the breath of real life: Zhang Chi's story is ordinary, somewhat similar to the "living space" in "Oriental Time and Space", "telling the stories of ordinary people themselves"; Zhang Chi's story is intriguing, which makes us rethink how we should be qualified parents now.

My family was stupid enough to go to Cambridge and tell a story about the growth of a child with average intelligence from the perspective of a parent. Zhang Chi is not clever. "When I was a child, my son was really a child with average intelligence. Children in kindergarten classes can basically count to 100, but it is difficult for him to count to 20. " Zhang Chi's parents have a very clear understanding of Zhang Chi. They are not disappointed by this, but firmly believe that no matter whether Zhang Chi is a worker, a farmer or a professor when he grows up, he will succeed through hard work. They think that although Zhang Chi's intelligence is inferior to others, he will not be inferior in life. They hope that Zhang Chi will grow into a healthy person, a man with capital and an indomitable person. This also confirms the saying that "EQ is higher than IQ". After the children enter the kindergarten, the school, family and society together constitute the children's growth space. In order to keep an eye on Zhang Chi's thoughts and behaviors, they have established close contact with their teachers. The communication between them is recorded in the contact book, which shows Zhang Chi's parents' dribs and drabs love for Zhang Chi and their good expectations. These contact books filled with love symbols were carefully preserved and photocopied in this book. In order to make Zhang Chi feel the joy of learning, they started from themselves, so there were anecdotes about "a family of three went to school", "Dad went to college hungry" and "Mom went to graduate school at the age of 50". It is these seemingly trivial things that melt into the child's mind invisibly, deeply affecting Zhang Chi's character and sentiment, making him face learning and embrace life with a positive and happy attitude.

Zhang Chi's parents are ordinary people. When they raise their children, they have only one basic and kindest wish, that is, to cultivate their children into a person with sound personality and useful to society. We may not really appreciate their hardships as parents over the years, but we will certainly appreciate the loving heart and the deep affection of the calf; At the same time, we also shared their reading experience. The true stories and vivid examples in My Stupid Family Going to Cambridge provide reference for present parents and future parents on how to raise their children. My stupid family on the bridge has also increased the confidence and strength of many ordinary children, making them believe that as long as they make unremitting efforts, they will always realize their life ideals and fly in the successful sky like a white swan. A child's growth is inseparable from the influence of family, school and society. Among the three, school and society are a melting pot, all-encompassing, with mixed good and bad. A successful family is like a filter, gently brushing away the dust that falls on children's hearts, so that children's young hearts have a pure and clear environment to relax. Zhang Chi's parents cultivate their children's humanity beauty from their own humanity beauty.

Maybe our material life is not rich, maybe our children are not perfect, maybe we and our children will encounter cold current and wind and rain in real life, but as long as we build a warm harbor and a soaring base with love, we and our children will certainly play the wonderful music of life. None of this is a fairy tale. Zhang Chi's story is a true footnote that breeds perfection in the ordinary.