May you live up to your youthful years - "Thank you for appearing in my youth"

When we are young, our lack of hesitation is sometimes more like a willfulness

Showing our unwavering devotion to love

This kind of bravery may only come once in a lifetime.

——? "Thank you for appearing in my youth"

Youth has always been something people talk about after dinner, because youth carries the best things in everyone's heart. period of time. And youth will always shine because of one person. People come and go, but fortunately, I met you.

The publication of this book is the best testimony to the friendship between the authors Wenzi and Jin Haosen. A Leo and a Scorpio. Why did you choose to start a business with Jin Haosen?

Wenzi said: Jin Haosen is very talented and talented in photography, but he doesn’t like to use his brain, is lazy, and is content with the status quo. I like to mess around and try things out, so they complement each other.

Jin Haosen said: Over the years, people have come and gone, but luckily I met you

Regarding friendship, this is the best way to get along. I have a friend. Usually we are almost We don’t keep in touch much, but we make an appointment every holiday to talk about what happened this semester and then make fun of each other. Not contacting us often does not distance us. On the contrary, we both know that she has her own things to be busy with and I have my own things to do. Occasionally if you are unhappy, just talk about it on WeChat. It doesn’t matter if you don’t reply immediately. It’s just that we both understand that there is someone you can use as a “trash can” when you are sad

She and I are just like Wenzi and Jin Haosen, our personalities should complement each other. I like to be quiet and introverted, while she likes to be lively and extroverted. But we also agree on some things. For example, we both like to toss about the future rather than be stable. We both like to have independent personal space, and we both like to drink Coca-Cola rather than Pepsi.

Yes, just like what is said in the book: Everyone should have one or two friends who are not too busy or slow. There is no necessary greeting or goodbye, but thank you for showing up in my life. In youth.

In the years when I grew up

my father always looked silent and majestic

He did not explain why, but only used his own way to deal with us. Educated and Loved

Because we are born connected to our mother’s umbilical cord, we have an innate closeness with our mother. Fathers can only establish relationships with us through nurture, so we always see fathers as serious.

My grandparents’ generation still had the concept of favoring boys over girls, so when I was born, they didn’t take care of me, so they didn’t have more love for them. But my father is different. Every time he comes home from school, even if he only stays at home for a day, he always buys various fruits. Afraid that I would not be able to take good care of myself in order to save money at school, he always gave me red envelopes so that I could eat something good by myself. On Children’s Day this year, my father also sent me a red envelope and said that I would always be a child in their eyes.

My father often told me that after I graduate, I will stay near the city where my home is. I know he doesn’t want me to be too far away from him. A few days ago, I ate cold noodles in the cafeteria for eight yuan a bowl. , suddenly remembered that a few years ago, my father’s business failed and he lost more than 100,000 yuan. The family suddenly became short of money. At that time, I liked to eat cold noodles the most. The normal one was three yuan a bowl, and the one with eggs was five yuan. My father bought it for me. I paid five yuan for it. Only when I grew up did I realize how much pressure my father was under at that time. I was talking about these things with my father some time ago, and he also talked to me for the first time about how much he regretted giving up the store before starting business, but life still has to go on, and fortunately we have survived in the past few years. .

The first time I listened to the song "Father" by Chopstick Brothers, I cried: Time should slow down and don't let him grow old.

3. About love: I will always wait for you who come too late

We wear masks and can’t see each other

But I can feel it His heartbeat, the temperature of his palms

Even with my eyes closed, I knew that this person was him

The book mainly contains five love stories, one of which is "Love someone. There are Ye Qian and Lu Zhan who are not afraid of giving their lives", there are Lin Li and Dabei who "the two people who came here finally let go of their hands", there are Lulu and Xiaoxi who "still run forward even after being bruised and bruised", There are Xiaofei and Jiaming who "will never meet again". Their love gradually wears away the power of love with the passage of time. However, what I yearn for more is Xiaoran and the rock man who really married love.

Everyone has a standard for their partner, whether they are tall, rich and handsome, or white and beautiful, well-informed, or full of poetry, humorous, or cold and domineering, but as in the book What he said: Love is the most indescribable thing in the world. Even though he doesn't look like what you like, you feel like you have found the person you have always wanted. Obviously you think you have become the best person in his heart, but he likes another person.

Many people like to tell others the reason why they are single by not giving in, but in exchange for words such as "hypocritical", these people are not wrong. They are getting better and stronger. Then meet him who is better and stronger. It seems that the social evaluation of women is to get married, have children, and be husbands and raise children. Once you pass a certain age and are not married, you will be bombarded by seven aunts and eight aunts. For this reason, many people tend to be realistic, compromise with reality, and marry their blind date. But that is a marriage without love and will not last long.

I hope all girls will not give in and finally marry love. You have to believe that in the sea of ??people, you will definitely wait for him.

You have to stand at the center of your own life

Decide the direction you want to go, and then prove to the world

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I envy Wenzi and Haosen who never forgot the life they wanted. They liked photography and then became photographers. They had a dream of opening a cafe, and then "Bie Zhi" was born, which means choose one. Stay in other courtyards and rest. Ever since I can remember, I have listened to my teachers when I was studying, and listened to my leaders when I was working. Most people have been pushed forward by life throughout their lives, and they have lost their true self and the purest things in life.

I hope everyone will always remember what life you want. After all, life is like drinking water and knowing whether it is warm or cold. All your joys, anger, sorrows and joys are only yours. Most clearly. My parents are just like Guan Guan's parents in "Ode to Joy". They only hope that I can live a stable life, but there are always restless thoughts in my mind. I know better about the life I want. , so when I sent the following passage from the book to my parents, they didn’t get back to me, but I thought they would understand.

Yes, the life we ??want is just to live for ourselves, nothing more.

It took me an afternoon to read this book and a day to conceive this article.

I am in my youth, and reading this book has strengthened my idea of ??working hard for the life I want. I hope that whether ten years from now or twenty years from now, I can face every difficulty in life with the best innocence of youth.