Lu, a 26-year-old photographer who lost contact in Hangzhou, died. What should we learn from this incident?

Lu, a 26-year-old photographer who lost contact in Hangzhou, died. What should we learn from this incident?

Unfortunately, Lu, a 26-year-old photographer who lost contact in Hangzhou, gave up his life at such a beautiful age. Lu was so determined that he didn't give anyone a chance. We can imagine the great injury and deep pain he suffered. From his last words, we can get a glimpse of his inner world and to some extent understand why he chose to do so. It can be seen that the failure of family education and the dereliction of duty of parents have also caused us these.

Correctly expressing love for children Because of the hidden cultural characteristics of China, many parents will not correctly express their love for their children, and even some parents mistakenly only care about their children's physical health and ignore their spiritual world. What they don't know is that mental health is sometimes more important than physical health. Just like Lu Dawson wrote a letter to his parents because he missed them, but his parents didn't read it, which not only discouraged them, but also made them feel unimportant.

Cultivating children cannot be utilitarian. Nowadays, many parents are very utilitarian in educating their children, and anything will do if they learn well. If you can't learn well, you will punch and kick. What needs to be known is that every child is unique and has its own characteristics, just like flowers, some of which bloom slowly, but this does not hinder the beauty of flowers. Ludolson's father hit the children because he couldn't do the problem, and the result has been stuck in their hearts like a thorn.

Apart from the pain of childhood, we can see that the last straw that led to the death of Lu Daosen was that his parents still commanded remotely after they became adults, completely disrespecting their children and not giving them their own independent space. Parents should know that the child is not your personal property, he is a real person with an independent personality, so you should respect the child and set him free.

Don't give yourself too much pressure. Good health can only ensure that we can live, but if there is something wrong with the spirit, the whole person may be "life is worse than death", because the spirit is destroyed and the whole person is equivalent to a walking corpse. Therefore, in today's increasingly stressful and fast-paced society, each of us should always pay attention to our mental state and mental health. Remember not to put too much pressure on yourself. You must find a reasonable way to release negative emotions in daily life and consult a psychologist if necessary. Only in this way can we help ensure that we can always feel the beauty and motivation of life.