Princess Pingyang: Losing yourself equals falling in love with loneliness.

Princess Pingyang: The younger sister of Liu Che, the Emperor of the Han Dynasty, first married Hou Caoshou of Pingyang, and was widowed at the age of 40, and married the general Wei Qing. Wei Zifu, the singer of the family, was recommended to Emperor Wu, and Wei Zifu later became the queen. Later, the singer Li Furen was recommended to Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty, and Li Furen was particularly favored. Strong and influential in the political situation. Ban Jieyu, gentle and virtuous, has outstanding talent and amazing beauty. Emperor Han Chengdi once loved her very much. In order to stay with her at all times, he specially made a bigger chariot so that he could travel with her. Ban Jieyu, however, was ungrateful. She just wanted to help her husband become a wise master of the world, saying, "Sages and sages are surrounded by famous officials. Only Xia Jie, Shang and Zhou Dynasties and Zhou Youwang have lucky concubines here. If I go in and out with you, I will be like them. " Emperor Han Chengdi had to tear it down. Ban Jieyu moved all the loyal ministers to the boudoir, but Emperor Han neglected Ban Jieyu and began to love Zhao's sisters. She demanded all this. The mistake made by this beautiful woman is: leaving a promising concubine and taking reforming men as her ultimate job. Who told you to * * *? Mind your own business. The Zhao sisters are much more eye-catching. They carefully combined and entered the palace one after another. Zhao likes power, so she became a queen; Zhao Hede wanted to be pampered, so she became the darling, and they worked together safely and happily. Fortunately, Ban Jieyu is knowledgeable. Finally, she invited herself to serve the Queen Mother in the Palace of Xin, and spent the rest of her life with an old woman to be her pure talented woman. Since no one can count on it, people become smart. Karen Mok sang sadly in Me, "If I don't love you, I won't lose myself." Calm and sad, but it's true. It doesn't matter if someone else is sad and changes his mind. Anyway, love always loses to time, and the pain passes as soon as the wind blows. I am afraid that I will always be a loser-both a lovelorn and a loser. Without myself, I can't climb back. At this point, Ban Jieyu should learn from Princess Pingyang decades earlier than her. Princess Pingyang is the sister of Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty. There are only two historical records about her, but this princess royal is inextricably linked with the consolidation of Han Jiangshan. When she was twelve years old, she helped her mother become a queen, and her brother Liu Che (Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty) became an heir. But when she was in power, she didn't want to be too obsessed with fame and fortune, and chose a quiet life and retired; Once needed, she quickly stood on the front line and regained power. Wei Zifu, dedicated to her younger brother, became a queen and remained in the harem for 38 years. Her domestic slave and her second husband, Wei Qing, made great contributions to the Han Empire's fight against the Huns, and even Wei Qing's nephew Huo Qubing helped conquer the country. This is a calculating and skillful woman; However, it is not annoying. Princess Pingyang's amazing precocity is reflected in her keen observation and clear understanding of the confrontation between politics and love. Chen Junqing, a Taiwan Province novelist, made up a conversation with her mother Wang Hao in Princess Pingyang and Wei Qing: "Mom! I just want to ask you one thing. Would you like to be Han's queen or your father's favorite concubine? " This is not a simple question of whether you can have your cake and eat it, nor is it just a multiple-choice question of power and love. In fact, it is the same in any era: either devote yourself to the vigorous pursuit of great sorrow and joy, or simply choose mediocre happiness. Choosing a has the pleasure of choosing a, and choosing b has the comfort of choosing b. As long as you plunge into it, what is there to complain about? I'm afraid it's not done thoroughly on both sides, so it's not good to be an archway again. Princess Pingyang is smarter than her mother, Mrs. Wang, the queen of Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty and Wei Zifu. She is not greedy. All women who are acceptable to history are restrained, but Princess Pingyang has not wronged herself, and lives happily, singing and dancing in the house every day, enjoying herself; After the death of Princess Pingyang's husband Cao Shou, she also discussed with her attendants who could be her husband in Chang 'an. The result of the discussion is that Wei Qing is the most suitable. She happily married this former bodyguard and domestic slave. At that time, Wei Qing had worshipped the general as an official, his sister was the queen, and his third son was named Hou. -Legend has it that Princess Pingyang fell in love with Wei Qing. It was for her that Wei Qing laid down his life for the war, defeated the Huns seven times, and made great achievements for Han. But this kind of shadow capture is also very interesting. It is a very extravagant aristocratic spirit for an inferior person to have such arrogant ambitions. Aside from the external things such as fame and fortune, such a man's inner world should also be comparable to Princess Pingyang. Such a princess is really a treasure: she has no loss in big festivals, no informality in small sections, a clear head, and dares to love and hate. I'm afraid of that kind of person: take someone else's road and let yourself speak. Unfortunately, such women have always been in the majority.