How can we take control of life when there is no way out?

We have all reached the age of hard work. If we don’t work hard, we will get old. Many people chew on their elderly parents without feeling sorry for their parents at all. When you want to work hard but don’t know what to do? So they complained and blamed their parents for not reminding them earlier. At the end of the day, these people are old losers. There is no sense of guilt or affection at all, just enjoyment.

We are not this kind of people, so just go ahead and do whatever you want! Life is just this one. When many people get old, what they regret most is that they didn’t do what they wanted to do when they were young. Don't look forward to anything in the next life, it's all an excuse and an imaginary comfort for yourself. Don’t always feel that time is still very long, and there are still many days in the future. Remember, time goes by and never comes back, and the past seems like yesterday.

Life is not a arena, and you don’t need to compete in everything. We don’t have to do things that are not good for ourselves just to get a breath. Life is about enjoying life, and enjoying life is not about drinking tea and chatting leisurely. It is about living your life to the best of your ability and living your life without regrets.

Other people’s lives belong to others after all, and you can never replace them. Likewise, the same goes for your own. Therefore, instead of focusing on others, it is better to always focus on yourself. Only by spending enough time to get to know yourself can you understand your strengths and weaknesses and know what you really need.