Everyone has to go through the process of starting from scratch

We came to this city full of enthusiasm.

We are talented and eager to make a splash.

However, every city has its own choices and rules.

It means sticking to the rules for the rest of your life; it means breaking through yourself and reaching the sky.

The choice is yours.

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Xiaoyi is a girl born in 1998. She came to Shanghai from Nanjing alone 2 years ago. She lives with relatives and works as a model. She usually communicates through social media The software does some catwalk shooting activities. Over time, through some colleagues and photographers I met at the activities, the number of activities has increased.

However, in a chat, Xiaoyi said that she was not satisfied with the current situation because her relative's sister was pregnant, and she left early and came back late at work. She did not want to disturb her sister's normal rest and she wanted to move out alone. She has to live there, and her sister doesn't like her doing this job, but her current income doesn't allow her to move out. Half of her monthly income has to be given to her father in her hometown. Moreover, I also encountered some unsatisfactory things at work, such as clients requesting extra sessions at short notice, unscrupulous brokers maliciously deducting money when the prices are not high, etc. When I get home every night, I will occasionally be ridiculed by my sister.

Xiaoyi cried when she said this.

No matter how many setbacks we receive outside, what we hope to receive when we get home is the encouragement and support of our family, rather than criticism and blame.

When I met Xiaoyi again a year later, I felt like a completely different person, full of vigor and confidence. Xiaoyi said that she has moved out now and went to another school in order to improve herself. I enrolled in a hosting class to learn hosting, and now I can work as a model and a host. I am also studying for myself and taking exams. I live a fulfilling life every day. Since you can't understand, then use facts to prove that you are right. Everything now is achieved through your own efforts.

We think that the model industry earns a lot of money, but we don’t know that it is common for them to have worn soles of their feet and sunburned skin. They spend half of their income on dressing themselves up and taking care of themselves, and they are deeply afraid of being eliminated; we see For those wonderful performances, no one knows how many times they have practiced behind the scenes. They were even rehearsing in the early hours of the morning. They may have been injured accidentally and will have to eat dirt this month.

We will always only see the beauty on the surface of others, but we don’t know the bitterness behind the glamor.

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Xiao Hong worked as a designer in an advertising company in 1992. He had no promotion or salary increase in two years. Needless to say, he worked overtime until early morning every day, which was rare. There was an opportunity for promotion, but the company gave another employee who was promoted a year later than him and who was younger than him. Xiao Hong was dissatisfied and went to the company to argue. It was clear that he had longer working experience than him, and working overtime every day was always the last step. Just leave alone, why?

"We are also working overtime. They can produce three versions of the design in one night, but you can only produce one version and have to revise it repeatedly. Each version of the design can explain the design principles and fit the customer. Need, what do you have?"

After hearing this, Xiao Hong was unable to refute. He was obviously doing a job he liked, and he had worked so hard. Why was he not recognized? After three days, Xiao Hong could only resign silently.

The efforts we think we make may sometimes be just the starting point for others. We think we already know a lot, but others are still learning.

Later I met Xiaohong again. He was already the design director of a wedding company, managing a small team of three people. Xiao Hong said that after coming to this company, he found that he had a strong interest in wedding design, because every design is different and every one is a challenge. In his spare time, he visited the websites of other well-known wedding companies and studied on his own. New design software. Seeing each version of the design recognized by pairs of newcomers fills my heart with a sense of accomplishment.

Tagore said that I cannot choose the best, but the best chooses me.

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We came to this city full of passion.

We are talented and full of possibilities.