The lost photographer "Lu Daosen" confirmed his death. Why did he die?

He committed suicide, but the reason behind it was the bullying and pressure he suffered.

What caused his suicide? Judging from his suicide note, the straw that overwhelmed him included but was not limited to school bullying, pressure from parents and so on.

He clearly wrote in his suicide note that he was labeled because he was quiet and didn't swear like other boys? Mom? ,? Fake girl? This insulting nickname. For the bully, this may be just a little joke. But for the bullied, this is the shadow of childhood, which needs a lifetime to heal.

Besides school bullying, family factors are also important reasons for his suicide. He was raised by his relatives. Although his relatives are very kind to him, he is always worried and insecure. When he grew up and his parents came back, he thought he would end this wandering life, but he didn't expect to be hurt more. Parents quarrel all the year round and have no time to take care of him, let alone give him a lot of love. Love can cure everything, but Ludolson's parents didn't give him enough love to heal his wounds elsewhere.

As parents, how to give their children enough love, the first thing is not to quarrel in front of their children. Adults always think that children know nothing, but in fact, children know everything. Even if their parents are divorced, these children can feel the change of family atmosphere and the emotional alienation between their parents. What's more, both parents blame each other in front of their children. This will make children feel insecure, afraid to express their emotions at home, and live carefully all day.

Second, don't overcharge. Although it is not easy for parents to raise their children, children also have the obligation to support their parents, but everything must be measured. Parents should not call their children for all kinds of money. First of all, they should care about him, give him enough love and motivation, and don't put too much pressure on the child.

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