How hard is it to like a person who doesn't like himself?

What kind of experience is it to like someone who doesn't like yourself?

That kind of feeling, there is heartache, sadness, helplessness, and more emotion.

For example, we all agree that we are as beautiful as flowers. We are ashamed of flowers when we close our eyes. Everyone loves us and flowers bloom and fall. Thousands of young men and women in Qian Qian don't want to die, but why can't we capture the sincerity and love of the people we love?

( 1)

I once liked a boy whose junior high school classmate was my college roommate.

College roommates agree that I am gentle and kind, and she has never figured out why her ordinary junior high school boys just don't like me.

Everyone's explanation is that carrots and vegetables, each with his own love, can not be forced.

In fact, many times, that's it. Obviously, some people are so good, but they are not cherished.

At that time, I thought I was "my heart will shine on the bright moon, and the bright moon will shine on the ditch."

Later, after the baptism of time, I discovered that I was actually "I reflected my heart in the ditch, and his ditch reflected my heart in other stars."

At that time, the star reflected in his ditch was a girl with a boyfriend in the class.

Of course, it was many years before I learned about it through his brother.

In Emotion, I played a woman who was disliked by him.

In another relationship, he is also playing a man who is not liked by others.

He silently loves the stars, silently bears the feelings that he can't love, and silently looks at the stars and other men, which is as deep as the ocean.

He is over there, secretly sad for the woman who doesn't like him.

On my side, I am also secretly sighing that he doesn't like me.

We are all enduring the feeling that the people we love don't like ourselves.

I wonder if it's hot in Leng Xia in winter here, and he's thinking about that one over there. Do you want a cup of Youlemei?

Like a person who doesn't like himself, this feeling is that he is in your heart, but you are out of his sight.

(2)

There used to be a colleague chasing his goddess.

He paid more attention to the goddess. The goddess wants to eat some kind of ice cream. He can buy a box and send it directly to the door of the goddess.

His purpose is simple. If you like to eat, I'll let you eat enough.

The goddess is as beautiful as a flower, with delicate mind and many suitors. My colleagues can only act as spare tires silently.

In such a relationship, he fell in love with someone who didn't like himself.

He once described his emotional state in one sentence. "My goddess is clearly occupying the toilet. I don't like me, but I still want to take up all my love and reconciliation for her. "

It is very painful for him to like someone who doesn't like himself, because the other person is at arm's length from himself, and he doesn't explicitly refuse, let alone directly accept, just wants to occupy all your tenderness, love and attention.

Like such a person who doesn't like himself, it is typical to feel guilty. If you don't love me, you still have to confuse me.

He wanted to give up his goddess and make friends with other girls, but his goddess stood up and dated frequently. When he wanted to clarify the relationship between men and women, his goddess said, "It's good for us to be friends."

In fact, colleagues also clearly understand that the goddess is beautiful and noble, and it is difficult for her to spread her wings everywhere.

He also clearly knows that the goddess doesn't like him, but he still wants to possess him, but it is difficult to get rid of him.

My friend likes a very selfish person who doesn't like himself. He likes to enjoy being loved, but he doesn't like to hand over his heart and give a clear relationship. He likes to enjoy all the love and care in this ambiguous relationship.

(3)

However, for some affectionate people, it feels different to like someone who doesn't like themselves.

Like a person who doesn't like himself, the feeling may be that you are heartbroken for him when you can't sleep well at night, but he is making love in another woman's bed, trying to please him.

Like a person who doesn't like himself, the feeling may be the same, obviously you cry over and over again in your memory, because he is deeply grieved, but he is holding another woman on the sofa reading and drinking tea.

Like a person who doesn't like himself, the feeling may still be that you are crying hysterically about his feelings, but he suddenly gives you a sentence, "We are not suitable, you will meet better people."

Just like a person who doesn't like himself, we are clowns in love, playing ridiculous roles, but laughing and performing the farce of love.

However, when we like someone who doesn't like ourselves, the best way is to become a better person.

Because once we become better people, our vision and thinking will change greatly.

Since then, those who don't like themselves have become insignificant clouds in their own eyes.

In fact, if you want to give up someone who doesn't like you, besides time and new love, you have a broad vision and vision.

Once you broaden your horizons, you will find more and better people, and then you will lose the feelings that made you lose your self-esteem in the past.