I found that the more I respect others now, the less they will respect you.

I found that the more I respect others now, the less they will respect you. In fact, "others" don't mean everyone, and what you said is not a secret.

I don't respect others more and more, because I have no expectations of others. Only when others respect me first will I respect others. Then you are a little selfish. You have to respect others, and others will respect you. People should respect each other!

How can I respect others and how can others respect me? Many young people don't quite understand this problem in their hearts. It's actually quite simple. For example, when you sit and talk with your close classmates or colleagues and objects in a very quiet environment, and the other person has good taste, you also listen to him carefully, and as a result, you respect each other very much. On the other hand, when others are talking, you suddenly and rudely interrupt each other, and it becomes very impolite.

The richer you are, the more you should respect others. Some people say that respecting others means respecting yourself.

Some people say that people who respect themselves will respect others;

Some people say that people who respect others respect others.

Please take "respect" as the topic, and choose your own style (except poetry), no less than words.

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respect

Respect is a sincere smile on your face; Respect is listening when others express different opinions; Respect is applauding the efforts of others. Respect seems to be dedicated to the people around you.

We have all been educated by "Let pears in Kong Rong" since childhood, and we all know that we should give our seats to the elderly on the bus, and we should not laugh at and satirize the disabled. At first glance, this theory sometimes seems unreasonable. Why do you have to eat small pears when you are old? Why do I have to give up my seat when I am already very tired? Why can't you say what you think?

In fact, the real truth is here: respecting others means respecting yourself.

There is a saying called "Give me a peach and repay it with Qiong Yao", which means that if someone gives me a peach, I will repay it with Qiong Yao. The so-called reciprocity, in human society, you will get a reward for paying one point, no more, no less, and it will come true one day. This is the rule. Rules are equal to most people most of the time, so your respect and courtesy to others will leave a good impression on others, and then others will treat you like you.

There is no such counterexample, is there? How can a cynical and arrogant crazy boy win the heartfelt respect of others? At most, it is to attract the curious eyes of the public with its own "rebellion" and "uniqueness".

Respect is a great wisdom, because you know it, so you are compassionate. It is not difficult to respect the similarities between others and yourself. The excitement of meeting a bosom friend is enough to cover up the light of "respect" It's hard to respect the differences between others and yourself. You think smoking is harmful to health and pollutes the environment, but he regards it as an adjustment. He said that life should be positive, enterprising, fresh and strong, and you just want to be plain, plain and comfortable all your life. Everyone is different, and there are thousands of differences. Respect is to look at each other objectively with appreciation, not asking for the same, but facing up to differences.

Therefore, people who know how to respect others have realized the great wisdom of life. Therefore, elegant posture and calm behavior are because you have enough self-confidence to support yourself and enough tolerance to treat others. So it will be respected by others, because its noble and peaceful atmosphere is really attractive.

Respect can make people feel happy and breathe smoothly. Respect can change strange or sharp relationships. If there is enough respect for each other, war is not inevitable.

The ancients said that those who love others will always love others, and those who value others will always value others.

Respect is not just for others.

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Know how to respect

No one doesn't want to be respected by others, but not everyone knows to respect others. As we all know, only by knowing how to respect others can we win their respect.

A successful woman who became a manager told her story like this: A few years ago, she was only a temporary worker in an enterprise with a low salary, but her son asked to play football with her friends for one of her footballs. The mother took great pains to explain to her son the difficulty of her lack of money. Soon her boss knew about it, gave her mother a brand-new football and said to her, "Although we can't give you a higher salary, you should understand that your position in our mind is very important." The woman was moved by this respectful remark. Since then, she has devoted all her intelligence to this enterprise and finally became a manager.

Yes, any successful entrepreneur, from Kōnosuke Matsushita to Zhang Ruimin, always regards respecting employees and subordinates as the foundation of his career. They know very well that the subordinates will give the boss as much respect as the boss gives the subordinates. The same principle applies not only to running a business, but also to everything that everyone interacts with. If you show respect to others, others will think that he has a place in your heart and he is very important to you. In this case, except for a few despicable people, who is not grateful for this and does not regard him as a trustworthy friend? Parents respect their children's choices, and children can understand their parents' pains; Students respect the teacher's work, and the teacher will sincerely teach all the knowledge to the students; Merchants respect consumers' picky, and consumers have real trust in merchants. Respect others, and gain a lot.

Some people don't know how to respect others and take what others do for themselves for granted. For these people, perhaps only when they lose the respect of others will they know how to respect the value of others. Last year, a department in the south made a decision: all sanitation workers have two days off. As a result, the usual cleaning ability disappeared, and piles of garbage were everywhere. Two days later, the amount of people littering decreased obviously. They all say that they usually don't respect the hard work of sanitation workers, and now they finally know the value of respect. Yes, if you don't know how to respect others, you can't gain their respect, and finally you can't move.

When we pay the taxi fare, say thank you more; Give us more applause when we finish listening to the performance; When the hotel doorman opens the door for us, smile more … learn to respect! When each of us knows how to respect others, our life will be more harmonious.

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Wende Cooney

Spring is just right, and flowers are sweet in the eyes of God. God looked down at his people from the air and couldn't help thinking, "Why not give these people some gifts to show the grace of my God?"

Soon, God elected three people from the world: a beggar who was displaced and begged on the roadside, a disabled person who was sick since childhood and stayed at the bedside all day, and the last one was the president who entered the White House, spoke with words and touched the world.

The three men were called before God, and God said, "I, the merciful God, will give each of you a gift so that you can be respected by mortals ... Well, choose your own gift!" Say what you want most. " God pointed to the beggar in rags.

Beggars haven't figured out what's going on, but a sentence has escaped from their mouths subconsciously: "Money … a lot of money!" " "God granted his wish at once. God looked at the millionaire's back in the clouds, and soon he merged into luxury. He was carried away by the clowns who flattered him. The drugs paid by his children quickly dispersed his rich family wealth, and his children were scattered into birds and beasts. Skinny beggars squatted on the edge of the original "site" begging, muttering that the gift of God was ineffective. God shook his head helplessly. "Well, sincerity is better than gold, where is the money? "

God secretly expects the next person to choose a good gift for himself. "It's your turn!" God looked up and saw the weak and disabled. The disabled quickly said, "I have been disabled since I was a child. Look at my ghost, people around me treat me like a different kind! "I want a sound body!" God was filled with joy, and with a wave of his hand, the disabled man happily bumped into someone. He finally held his head high, relying on his own strength and strength, bullying and dominating a country. As a result, he was knocked to the ground by an angry man and wanted to declare his death ... The merciful God gave him another chance. The disabled people meditated for a long time, and exchanged their sound bodies for incomparable perseverance and disappeared into the crowd. ...

At this time, I was impatient and patted my back and left. God quickly asked, "Don't you have anything you want?" Disdainfully said: "I am the captain of the United States, the sheriff of the world, and the hero in the eyes of the world. Will anyone still disrespect me? " I don't want anything! ""Then you can take one as a souvenir. " God pointed to a pile of boxes in front of him. Pick up a box casually and write "My Memory" on it, and a trace of pride crossed my face. As soon as I opened it, I saw many people denouncing themselves, and there was a curse in my ear, "Give it back to the person I love!" " "Give it back to my country! "He was overwhelmed by this avalanche of anger, unstable and fell into the clouds.

God was about to take a closer look when he saw disabled people praying to him from a distance. The disabled person said that he no longer despised himself and doubted himself. He used his tenacious medical skills to relieve the suffering of countless people, and he also won the respect of countless people. The disabled person said, "I should thank God. With perseverance, I learned to live a sincere life: love myself and love others. " . Stand on your own feet because of self-esteem, and be loved because of your lover. Now, I want to share the dignity of life and the vastness of love with you. "

God smiled knowingly.

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Talk about respect

The Book of Songs says, "Give me papaya, and I will reward Joan." This kind of reciprocity since ancient times reflects the due respect between people.

Of course, respect is not only a gift, but also a word, a look and an action can reflect our respect for others. It should be said that mutual respect is the basis of normal communication between people and one of the basic qualities that people should possess. Regardless of age, status and wealth, everyone has the right to be respected. Doesn't that beggar who would rather die than eat from scratch show how important respect is to a person? The same story happened in different times and produced different results, because people gave different respect. There was an old beggar begging from a middle-aged man. The middle-aged man searched all over his body, but found no change. Feeling guilty, he held the old beggar's hand tightly and said, "Brother, I really don't have any extra money. Sorry. " At this moment, tears have blurred the old beggar's eyes. From these clenched hands and friendly names, he felt unprecedented understanding and respect. People are the same. Don't look at things with power. We should always remember that respecting others is a virtue.

Just like the interaction of forces in mechanics, respect is mutual. Respecting others means respecting yourself, and your words and deeds are the embodiment of your connotation. When you treat others with due respect, your good quality and image will be displayed in front of people, and others will certainly give you the same respect, which is particularly important at work. As a boss, the best way to keep employees is to treat them equally except for a raise, give your employees the respect they deserve, and let them work in your office without pressure and peace of mind. Didn't Liu Bang almost lose this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity because of his insolence to Han Xin? On the contrary, Liu Bei's visit to the humble abode and worship of Zhuge Liang earned Zhuge Liang's lifelong efforts to revive the Han Dynasty, leaving a good word that he died before he could conquer it. Liu Bei's ability as a good corporal is admired by the world. It can be seen how important respect is for a person and even a country.

Respecting others and being kind to others is the foundation of your foothold in society. Respect is mutual. If you respect others, others will respect you.

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How to gain the respect of others

In life, except a few lonely or eccentric people, everyone expects to be recognized by others. And a higher level of recognition is respect. It is a wonderful process from obscurity to being respected by everyone. Some people have tried their best, but they still can't get it. Some people inadvertently gain the respect of others. In fact, respect is not unattainable, but some people pursue respect in the wrong way.

The other day, I heard what a Japanese company did for its new car. There is a sentence that impressed me deeply, "overbearing, you should respect it." I think this kind of car is probably very powerful and efficient, and it can cross the road, and other cars are avoiding it, so there is such a sentence. Such people seem to be in the minority in the real society. Or powerful, domineering over others, or relying on many buddies and friends to run amok. Seeing that people are afraid, shrinking and afraid to speak out, these people become complacent and think they have been respected. In fact, they are the most annoying and unrecognized. Did you find that once a "overbearing" car broke down and stopped at the side of the road, and the domineering person was investigated and even jailed by the public security, but the people around him enjoyed it. People who want to gain respect in this way will eventually be spurned.

Besides, there seems to be another kind of person among us. They smile every day, flatter everyone, and sometimes even grandstanding. Or punch your face and pretend to be fat, as if you know everything and have everything to do with it, and you always like to show off everywhere.

However, their evaluation among the people seems to be not high.

Like the "overbearing" people in front of them, they misinterpreted the original meaning of respect.

What people really respect is a man with real talent and learning. People will respect you only if they think you are really good at something, better than them and better than them. The range that people can respect is varied. We respect a cobbler because of his superb skills, warm service attitude and helpful spirit. We respect a scholar because of his profound knowledge, his excellent eloquence and even his excellent communication skills. Respected, powerful and polite hospitable students and well-informed travelers abound. As long as you don't show off your advantages or even bully others, you just face yourself with a normal heart and do what an ordinary person should do. Then before long, you will feel the respectful eyes of everyone around you.

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Respectful article

China is a country of etiquette, with thousands of years of cultural accumulation. "Respect" naturally has a lot of attention. Father, brother and younger brother are respected, the right is respected and the world is respected. When you invite people to dinner, you also pay attention to your position, and your priorities are clear. Even people who walk respectfully should walk in front, and the people behind will bow and scrape. There are too many customs of "respect".

Everything pays attention to the principle of moderation, and once it passes, it is difficult to accept it. The same is true of "respect". Although thousands of years of customs in China pay attention to courtesy and respect, they may go too far and distort the original intention of respect. There is such a thing that a person was promoted to assistant dragon, and everyone respected him and called him dragon. This person is uncomfortable to use, but it is not easy to refute others' faces. Just call it that. People are also difficult. Every time I go out to do business and an adult takes a bus, you have to push me to let me go. It's all your courtesy and a waste of time. Of course, in the end, the honour person comes first. It seems that China people express their respect for others through these two words-politeness. Politeness is expressed by words and actions. What about the heart? Is it true respect? We don't know.

In many cases, superficial respect is made, but in fact, jealousy is burning inside. It's not hard to understand those people who fall when they are down, who are full of honey and swords. People use respect to make masks to paralyze others, so they laugh behind the masks, stab people in the back and plot against others. So the unit is always divided into several factions, everyone has a small plan, and leaders often change (anonymous letters), which doesn't matter. The unit is stagnant, unable to produce, and getting worse, but the surface is still kind. In this way, in a few days, they all became laid-off workers. Some people can say that they have perfected this practice of honoring you as a guest of honor and scolding you behind your back, but what's the use of this practice? Who benefits and who suffers? A clear-headed person can tell at a glance.

Regarding respect, I just want to say don't always make a fuss about it on the surface. Many people in China give foreigners the first impression of hospitality. Can get along for a long time, many foreigners will send out the idea that China people are not very good. What happened? It's just that things are not what they seem. Respect, China people have done a lot on the surface, but what about inside? It should also be unified!

Respect, don't be satisfied with greeting the teacher every day, say "please" every time you do something, and don't praise others for wanting to find a plastic bag every time. Sincerely understand others, see the advantages of others, especially respect the ordinary people around them from the heart, because they have their own greatness and deserve respect.

Please sincerely respect everyone around you!

How to respect others? Don't do it deliberately.

How to respect others? Respect yourself, be polite and be honest! Treat others sincerely, that is, respect others, and others will certainly respect you!

Respecting others means respecting yourself. The author thinks that "self-esteem" and "respect for others" are more manifested in what "self-esteem" and "respect for others" are more manifested in punctuality. ?

Respecting others means respecting yourself (excerpt)

"Self-esteem" and "respect for others" are actually the same thing, because when you can't show respect for others, you will be looked down upon and hurt your self-esteem. For example, it's disrespectful to let someone push the door, regardless of someone behind, and almost hit someone's nose. After the buffet, there are only three lobsters left on the table. You were secretly happy, so you put all three pieces on the plate in one breath, regardless of the long line of people waiting behind you. Did you show your selfishness when you swaggered away with three lobsters? Similarly, people in China have rules for eating. Before adults eat, the younger generation can't eat first, and they can't be picky when eating. Have you ever wondered why? Because you choose, it means choosing the good, leaving the bad to others, even to the elders, which is not only selfish, but also disrespectful to the people at the same table.

Self-esteem and respect for others are more manifested in punctuality. Li Hsing, a famous director in Taiwan Province Province, told a story that impressed me deeply-there was a famous actor who liked to play big cards and was often unpunctual. During the day's filming, everyone arrived except the actors. The director said, "Wait for him!" Twenty minutes, thirty minutes, an hour, directors, actors, photography, lighting, field notes, field affairs, everyone be good and so on. Finally, the actor arrived. The director didn't scold him, but he didn't do it either. Instead, he stood up and said to everyone, "All right! Call it a day! " So the lights went out and everyone left, leaving only the actors standing in the middle of the field. After that, the actor never dared to be late again. Why? Because his disrespect for others hurt his self-esteem.

Therefore, respecting others is often not public morality, but private morality. Caring for the private morality of others from the deep heart is often more important than public morality.

Please respect others, okay? Respect is mutual. If you respect each other but they don't respect you, then walk away gracefully and leave a handsome back.