Is it because most people in fear of marriage have no money?

I think most people are "pseudo-singles", who are eager to get married or fall in love, but are temporarily single for various reasons.

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When you are single, you are free to eat, drink and have fun. If you are in love, there will be one more dating expense; After marriage, cars, houses, children, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea ...

The more economically developed the region, the more obvious the pressure

It's all money.

just one item is enough to crush you.

if you don't believe me, let's make an account.

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A netizen in Shenzhen calculated this:

Wedding: A wedding costs nearly 25, yuan on average. Among them, the wedding banquet cost 1, yuan, the wedding service cost 5, yuan, the honeymoon tour cost 25, yuan, the jewelry cost 25, yuan, the wedding dress cost 2, yuan, and the wedding photography cost 8, yuan.

buying a house: buying a wedding room is 5 million yuan (enough to live in), which is only a down payment of 1.5 million yuan;

renovation: the renovation of the new house is 15, yuan; Add home appliances and furniture, 5, yuan;

car, according to the standard of scooter, 1, yuan.

so, at least 2 million.

that is to say, if you don't crave the old, even if your annual income is 15,, you have to struggle for more than ten or twenty years.

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You may think that this is just an algorithm in first-tier cities, but other places will be better? Not necessarily!

For the man, the bride price is also a major expense for marriage. A few years ago, a "national bride price map" was circulated on the Internet. In Xinjiang, Inner Mongolia and other regions, the highest bride price can reach 2,, and there are not a few more than 1,.

Nandu Weekly also conducted a questionnaire survey. According to the survey, about half of the male respondents spent more than 6, yuan on bride price.

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More than 4% of the female respondents have a dowry of more than 6, yuan.

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I barely got here and finally entered the marriage hall. You thought it was the end, but this is actually the beginning of spending money.

As soon as prenatal education, early education and interest classes ... landed, they started the mode of upgrading and fighting monsters.

In Hong Kong, a primary school student has to attend six cram schools on average, and the average cost per person from primary school to university is close to $13,.

is it much? That's not much!

In p>218, a "ranking of birth costs in first-tier cities" published by Sina Finance showed that it would cost 2.76 million yuan to raise a child to go to college in Beijing.

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From pregnancy, nursing, diet, education, play ... Every step a child takes, he has to burn a sum of money.

If you don't have money, you can't enjoy good educational resources. It's cruel to watch your children lose at the starting line ...

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it's reality!

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There was an old multiple-choice question: which do you choose, bread or love?

when we were young and naive, most of us would choose love.

when I grow up, I find that love without bread is simply vulnerable.

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Maybe you are a potential stock, but who believes in the future! Even Jack Ma, the founder of Alibaba, and Ma Huateng, the founder of Tencent, who would believe today that you expect an enlightened parent? ! Then I can only say good wishes!

in the real marriage, money is always there.

Only by thinking carefully can we have a future for ourselves and each other, otherwise it will be a burden to everyone!

Let's still wish everyone who has the right object and is sure to step into the marriage hall happiness ~