I'm going to be a bridesmaid for the first time. I don't know anything! What do bridesmaids need to prepare? What should I do on the bride's wedding day? Great gods, help!

Matters needing attention for bridesmaids in love weddings-The responsibilities of bridesmaids-Some weddings have a "bridesmaid group", but now most weddings have only one bridesmaid. Whether you are one of the bridesmaids or the only bridesmaid, it is more important to perform the duties of "bridesmaid" and not to betray the trust of your good friends. Therefore, bridesmaids should be "proficient in all 18 martial arts" and provide the most intimate care for the bride. However, the name "servant girl" has been abolished for many years, and it happens that you don't like watching costume films, so let's see what this "servant girl" is doing. 1. Before the wedding: 1. Help the bride to make good preparations before the wedding, including understanding the local wedding customs, being familiar with the wedding ceremony process, helping the bride to prepare for the farewell party, and even participating in the bride's opinions on choosing a wedding dress and ordering cakes (if invited by the bride). 2. Ask the makeup artist and hair stylist for some tips on makeup and hair changing. You might as well do some exercises in advance, because it is very fast to use at the wedding. 3. Prepare a large and elegant satchel (there are many things to hold in it). 2. Prepare props: 1. Simple cosmetics, dry wet tissues, oil-absorbing paper, cotton swabs, hair clips, moisturizing water, large paintings: used for makeup in an emergency, as well as handling mascara or loose hair. 2. Safety pin, needle and thread, adhesive tape: ensure the perfection of new clothes. 3. Painkillers, hangover remedies and band-AIDS: in case the bride is unwell or her heels are worn out by new shoes. 4. Chewing gum: Let the bride keep her breath fresh at any time and prepare a large piece of chocolate to supplement her physical strength. 3. During the wedding: 1. Pay attention to the bride and everything around her: whether the dress is caught by the car door, whether it needs to be changed into another suit, whether it needs makeup, etc. 2. Not only keep smiling, but also remind the bride to show the sweetest smile when facing the guests. Take care of the bride's jewelry, especially the wedding ring to be exchanged with the groom. For many bridesmaids, wearing it on their thumbs is a good way. 4. Arrange some small games to make things difficult for the groom. Don't let him marry the bride too easily, but also let the guests have fun. 5. Stand where you should stand in the ceremony and be close to the bride at the wedding reception. Observe carefully whether there is anything wrong with the bride's dress. When the guests' heckling causes embarrassment to the bride, it is even smaller to stand up and save the day by stopping drinking. After the wedding: 1. Pack up the bride's things, including the packing of the dress and the collection of jewelry. Gifts are kept by special people, but special small gifts for the bride sometimes need to be kept by bridesmaids. 2. Don't forget to help the bride overcome the difficulty of "making trouble in the bridal chamber": use some small games to "steal the column" and change those programs that are too difficult when necessary, and it is not too much to mobilize the atmosphere. Generally speaking, being a good bridesmaid, that is, "the best supporting actress", is a hard job. "Think of what the bride thinks, be anxious about what the bride is anxious about", and even think of what the bride doesn't expect of her-reflecting the professionalism of "Best Supporting Actress". But don't forget to think about yourself. No matter the plot of Hollywood movies or the author's own experience, many bridesmaids were favored by little love god at the wedding, which finally made their wonderful love. The next best actress may be you. Try again. The last job you have to do is to carefully save this complete manual, and add your notes to make it your "best supporting actress"! How to be a bridesmaid and best man If you are a bridesmaid, how strong is your relationship with the bride (groom)? At this time, it is fully reflected! Anyway, you are the bridesmaid (best man) who accompanied them at his wedding. Although a little trouble is much more fun than just having a meal, you should always keep a clear head. When a gossip guest asks you to tell the bride or groom what happened in the past, you must know what the bottom line is. If it's a harmless joke, I can take it out and adjust the atmosphere appropriately, but I won't say some key questions until I die. [If you are a bridesmaid] Sometimes, bridesmaids who are particularly close to the bride will shoulder a very important new task-collecting red envelopes. As a friend's maid of honor, you should be nimble and nimble. When relatives and friends are present, you should accompany the bride to greet and thank her. Usually their red envelopes are handed in at this time. You can't let the bride in a gorgeous wedding dress pick them up. Usually either you or the mother of the bride. A small red envelope will be specially prepared for you to temporarily store the gift money. Generally speaking, because the mother of the bride has to take care of many relatives, she is extremely busy before and after running, so the bridesmaid must bear this responsibility. The wedding scene is lively and slightly chaotic, so we must always stay awake and strictly observe our duties. I lost my present because I was too busy. You can't make the same mistake! What does the maid of honor want to do? I believe many people hear these two words, and what comes to mind is the beautiful bridesmaid dress, walking in front of the long red carpet and leading the bride into the church. It's really romantic ... Wait a minute, it's entrusted by people, but it's not as simple as dressing the bridesmaids in beautiful clothes. In fact, bridesmaids are the so-called "dowry". According to the ancient ceremony in Taiwan Province Province, most bridesmaids need multiples of six. But now most people are not so particular about it. They don't even have bridesmaids. However, brides with "mobility difficulties" still need someone to look after them, so as to make good arrangements and master the size of the scene. It's time for the bridesmaids to show their talents. Do you want to dress up? Although the bridesmaid is half a bride, she can't steal the bride's style. "Must be beautiful, not too beautiful", because the wedding day must focus on the bride! So, to be honest, whether the bridesmaid is beautiful or not is not the point. It is ok to wear the same series of dresses as the bride, it depends on the bride's meaning! The role of bridesmaids in the wedding process is known to all the "staff" attending the wedding ceremony. The wedding process can only be described as "chaos". Sometimes it's not your own chaos, but the people around you are chaotic. Especially the woman, if someone is too excited to control themselves as soon as they leave the house, others crying with a runny nose and tears will definitely be infected. If you want to enter the house according to etiquette and customs, it will be even more chaotic. But who cares? Marriage is like this! The more chaotic, the more lively, and the more chaotic, the high. No matter what customs and religions are adopted in the wedding, the bridesmaid's "duty" is to know what to do in the future. Sometimes, your schedule will be disrupted in a noisy crowd, but at least you should communicate well with the bride and have a tacit understanding to avoid confusion in the ceremony. Play the bride's right-hand man. On the wedding day, the bride is the oldest. "The decision is up to the bride." The bride is responsible for talking, and everyone else has to do it. Especially when the bride wears a beautiful wedding dress, which is "bad for her behavior", the bridesmaid has to be duty-bound to assist the bride in all her actions. Precautions for bridesmaids (comments by users) You should spend the first night with the bride, and then accompany her to make up and help carry the bag in the morning! Answer the phone and arrange the trip! Take care of the bride's dress! Responsible for finding ways to deal with all kinds of difficulties! Stop drinking! Be responsible (Dragon_ Xuan) Remember to help the bride hold flowers. I have seen two colleagues take photos at home after they got married and forget to bring the bouquet to the hotel. Anyway, bridesmaids pay attention to these details! (Olive fruit) Bridesmaids don't need to drink, and the best man is in the way. The bridesmaid had a lot to worry about that day. All the jewelry changed from the bride's clothes should be carefully looked at, otherwise it will be easily lost. The bridesmaid's clothes should be ready. If you want to look better, you can rent a small dress or wear a pink skirt to make it look better. What other wedding rings, drinks, marriage certificates, when the host wants to do this, everyone should step down. The bridesmaid is very tired, and her hands on the tray will be sore. (Pictorial) I was a bridesmaid twice. I need to help the bride make up. Sometimes the bride forgets to bring something, such as a small hairpin and some matching lipstick. It's best to have it at home. Use a small bag. The bride's phone number should not be the responsibility of the bridesmaid that day. The bride just needs to find a family member to help her out. Need help to look after those replaced ornaments, marriage certificates, rings and dresses. You'd better prepare some paper towels. The groom sometimes says that the wine is served by the best man. The bridesmaid's plate is full of candy and cigarettes, which is not too heavy, but it must be placed next to the bride so that she can hold it at hand. But be careful not to block the camera to remind the bride and groom which table is not toasted, saying that the toasting speed should be fast, because if there are too many guests, sometimes some guests leave without a few tables. I don't know. I don't have time to change a few dresses when I propose a toast. Basically, only one set can be changed, and there are many sets. Therefore, the bride should first choose a beautiful one to wear after the wedding to help change clothes, pose and carry a skirt. Yes, if you eat jiaozi at the bride's house, you must eat more! ! Eat even numbers, or you will suffer. If the shoes are new, you must adapt at home first, otherwise you will suffer a lot. You'd better choose flat shoes Bridesmaids should not dress too fancy, it will steal the bride's thunder. Just put on light makeup and wear simple clothes (Lin Qing). Anyway, besides the bride and groom, the best man and bridesmaid are the hardest. You'd better eat something in the morning, or you won't have time at noon. (jd 169) I wonder if your friend's wedding was marked with a champagne pour tower? Usually, after pouring the wine, I will choose two glasses for the bride and groom to drink. I took a lot of glasses when I went to get the wine, because there was really no place to pour it. As a result, the bride and groom didn't finish a few mouthfuls, and there was still a lot left. So when choosing wine, you must choose a cup with less wine, which is just a little interesting! (Tian Zi) The bridesmaids have a lot of work to do. When they are at home, they should first stop the groom from asking questions. Help the bride prepare jewelry. Be careful not to wear long skirts, so as to follow the bride through the wine table. When I was a bridesmaid, the skirt was too long and wordy. Also, you should quickly master the skills of peeling candy. Because the bride sticks to fake nails, the bridesmaids have to do more than half of all the work done by the bride, and then let the bride finish it easily. Be careful not to confuse male card, ring and female card ring. And tell which bottle in the best man's tray is white wine and which bottle is white water. I made several mistakes, which caused the groom to drink real wine when he toasted. Eat more while waiting for the bride to make up in the dressing room. You'd better get on well with the flower girl and let them steal something delicious for you and send it to the back! ! ! (Snow between Eyebrows) The bridesmaids in Chinese weddings mainly deal with the affairs related to the bride's food, clothing, housing and transportation on the wedding day, and also entertain the toasts to see what tasks are assigned to you. It is best to be fresh, light and capable. Anyway, it will be a mess that day. If you wear heavy makeup, you have to take time to make up your makeup. Give the red envelope directly to the bride. If you give it to the cashier, you will eventually go to your husband's house to reduce the cost of the wedding. If she is your good friend, give it to her directly and write your name in the cashier's office. Otherwise, I was kicked out at the dinner table without calling the name, hehe.