Zhengzhou No.1 Middle School Photography Teacher

In high school, I had many classmates. They are ignorant at school. Sleep in class, have several girlfriends (because they are basically boys, maybe boys really have higher IQ than girls), and don't do their homework. . . But when it comes to exams, they always do better than us serious students.

I really believe what the math tutor outside said. Because, at school, there are many rules and regulations, and the teachers of the school always let the students abide by them. If you can't satisfy them, invite your parents at every turn.

However, primary school and junior high school are a period of cultivating children's personality and other aspects. We shouldn't impose our own way on them so early.

In fact, when we think about the American education model, we will understand that China's school education model is actually flawed. We should not restrict their free development. They are still polygons and polygons. During this period, communication and education are better. Never mind what the school teacher says, give him a pair of good eyes and there is nothing to worry about sitting in the back.

In fact, in many classes, tall boys sit at the back, and many people wear glasses.

However, you must communicate well. I know how you feel. After all, you and your lover are working hard for the children. You are often asked by the teacher to say so, and you will certainly have a little hatred for iron not to produce.

But you are a parent, you should tolerate him, love him and understand him. No matter how wronged and angry you are, don't scold or yell at him in front of him and show an unhappy and dissatisfied expression. Otherwise, although children don't say anything in their hearts, the generation gap is so inadvertently formed.

You should encourage him more, praise him more, and say, son, you have done well recently. Best, sometimes, stay with him and sleep with him. Two people were whispering in the dark. He can listen to you when he is in the most comfortable mood. But don't always talk about grades, schools and the like. Talk more about your experience and tell him your experience through your story. Teach him the truth of dealing with people.

Subscribe him to some magazines, such as Yangzi Evening News and Sports Daily. At least this will give the family something to discuss after dinner.

Also, limit his online time and let him watch TV instead of indulging in the internet. Network is a double-edged sword.

Don't buy him anything that will make him addicted and hurt his eyes. Such as MP3/MP4/MP5.

If you want to play games (generally boys of this age like to play games), it is best to play games together. For example, inserting a game card in TV can help to cultivate feelings.

Let him do more sports, especially playing table tennis, which will help to restore his vision. As for basketball, it depends on his own interests. Also, take him out for a walk and travel from time to time (it is best not to follow the tour group, and arrange everything on the Internet by yourself, so that the family can take this opportunity to broaden their horizons and appreciate the local customs). This helps Tao cultivate sentiment. Moreover, it will also keep him away from those electronic products. When he appreciates the charm of nature, he will not indulge in the products of industrial society.

Cultivate and encourage his hobbies, such as photography, painting and musical instruments.

That's all I thought of. This is my personal thinking. Everything should proceed from reality. I hope it works.

One more thing, cherish the people in front of you. Bless you!