sometimes a foot may prove short while an inch may prove long—everybody has his strengths and weaknesses

who is stronger, man or woman? Faced with such a question, most people may answer that it is a man.

actually, this is all wet. To be precise, women should be stronger, and men are unexpectedly fragile.

In fact, there is a gap of seven years between the average life expectancy of men and women. Men live shorter and die earlier than women.

The biggest reason for thinking that men are strong is that men look exaggerated and powerful in an instant. For example, punching and beating, sword fighting, or sprinting 1 meters, lifting heavy objects, etc., men are obviously tough.

But to persistently do the same thing, that is, endurance, men are quite weak, especially lacking the ability to engage in monotonous and boring work. Textile and knitting have always been men's weaknesses. What's more, the weaver who worked for only a few hours smashed the textile machine with great anger.

men are not good at monotonous work that requires endurance, nor are they good at raising children. If the child is crying, the man may say "I'm bored to death", leave the child and run out of the room, or even hit the child in a rage.

This is also the reason why the elderly man is quick-tempered and prone to get angry. Getting angry for no reason also proves that his physical strength is declining.

So, don't rush to say, "My father has been very angry recently, and he loves to lose his temper. It's really annoying.". Instead, we should be kind to our father with an understanding heart. Is it "dad is old and weak" or "dying"?

besides being short of breath, men also lack the waiting heart. For example, if you send a text message or make a phone call, if the other party doesn't reply immediately, you will be restless and feel bad immediately.

But women won't be anxious about such trifles, they will wait forever. Not only that, women also imagine the pleasure of meeting and immerse themselves in the satisfaction brought by waiting.

It is not difficult to see that men lack single-minded endurance and endurance. All these show the fragility of its vitality.

there is a Japanese saying "one girl and two Taros", which means that it is better to have children, and it is better to have a boy, so that it is easy to take care of children.

in fact, this sentence also contains such a meaning: girls are born with good physique and easy to raise; Boys, on the other hand, wake up at the slightest movement outside, toss and turn, and can't calm down. In addition, in the past, the sanitary conditions were not very good, boys often suffered from indigestion, and there were many cases of premature death due to vomiting, diarrhea and dehydration. Boys often catch a cold, have a high fever, and get well slowly.

Look at the boy sleeping. His body is always twitching, while the girl is asleep and motionless. Boys are very sensitive and have a low sleep. A boy's sensitivity is sometimes over-sensitive, but he is weak in short. Men are just thick bones on the outside and are mistaken for strong ones.

Originally, there was a gap of seven years in the average life expectancy of men and women, and when they got married, men were three or four years older, which made a gap of ten years. Suppose the husband retires at the age of sixty, then the wife is ten years younger than him. In this case, if couples want to enjoy the trip, they have to catch up early.

"Take your time, wait until you are over seventy, and then we can go together well ..." By this day, I'm afraid my husband is too weak to make it.

there is a ready-made example. Over 7 years old, he traveled to Europe with his 65-year-old wife, and it is rare for him to move freely in Paris one day. "Then go for a walk to the castle by the Loire!" The wife excitedly pulled up her husband. "It's rare, or stroll around the hotel slowly." The husband said. I finally got dinner, or my wife knows romance: "Let the hotel waiter introduce me and go to a famous restaurant!" " After saying his word, the husband replied feebly, "Forget it, is there a noodle restaurant nearby?"

when I returned to Japan, my wife looked unhappy: "I will never travel with you again. It's a rare free activity, so I didn't go anywhere."

Since then, the wife has left her husband hanging at home and traveled with her sisters laughing and laughing.

Actually, it's not that my husband doesn't want to go, but he is too weak to walk. After all, the husband and wife have a physical gap of more than ten years, so of course, the man died first. A weak body, curiosity is weak, just want to rest quietly-the wife doesn't understand, the husband doesn't understand.

The gap in physical fitness in the past ten years has led the husband to "go first" naturally. The same is true in real life. Most husbands look at their wives and think, "Ah, I'm going to die under the eyes of my wife." But no one who is a wife wants to "die under her husband's nose". On the contrary, the wife will think, "What should I do? I have to face life for ten years alone." Therefore, the focus of life planning is completely different. It makes sense for a wife to secretly hide private money while her husband is alive. Isn't it? If the husband and wife are over 7, the wife will definitely be sad after the husband dies.

But you see, after half a year and a year, "it's really refreshing." The widow who recovered her vitality lived proudly for another ten or fifteen years. Unfortunately for the husband, according to statistics, if his wife "goes first" when he is 7 years old, the widower will live for five years at most. This gap shows that wives actually live much longer than husbands.

Of course, there are exceptions-the husband is still in good health after his wife dies. Irony? However, most of these husbands were either given a cold shoulder when their wives were alive, or were "idle" and "confined" and had to be tempered by their own independence.

It's just that those husbands who are taken care of by their wives, when they are left alone one day, they will get old immediately without exception, like chasing their wives, and soon they will "leave".

It can be seen that men, regardless of their age, always want to be served and taken care of. This "coquetry nature" is the direct cause of her husband's rapid decline after losing his wife.

In this way, men are actually very fragile. Men look strong only because of their instantaneous explosive power, but what they really lack is long-term endurance. As a husband and wife, we should deeply understand this.

however, why do men become weak? What is the biggest reason?

It can be imagined that in Japan, in order to prevent the invasion of wild animals such as wild deer and wild boar, and also to protect their homes, strong men were needed. In the Warring States period, men were also needed to fight against foreign enemies, guard against invasion and defend their homes. After Meiji, Japan launched a war and needed men more.

Men's bravery naturally attracts women's admiration and admiration.