What if you are married and suddenly meet the person you love most in your life?

One is to restrain yourself and choose to give up.

In the movie The Bridges of Madison County, the housewife Francesca meets photographer Robert and falls in love. After countless struggles, Francesca decided to live for herself once, packed her bags and left with the photographer.

But in the end, Francesca did not choose to leave with Robert. She said, "My family can't stand gossip and will never accept this situation. And my husband. . . This will hurt his heart very much. He has never hurt anyone in his life and should not be treated like this. "

I have to say, Francesca is a peasant woman, but she is smart and knows life. At the end of the movie, she said to Robert, "I really want to love you as much as I do now, but if we leave. . . . It cannot last. "

In the end, they all chose not to see each other again, returned to their respective lives and buried this love deeply in their hearts.

There is a line in "The Grand Master":

For those who are out of date, we should restrain them and never cross the line in life.

This will bring the best ending: be gentle with your partner, accompany your children, and miss love.

The other is to pursue true love without regret.

As we all know, Grandma Qiong Yao is the originator of romance novels. She still struggled for 16 years, attacking the successful people in the third world in the main room.

She had known peaceful Tao Xin for less than a year, then she decided to divorce, waited for many years, and finally became a full member.

Qiong Yao thinks she is "true love", but her love hurts another woman.

Yun Ping, the son of Ping, commented on Ping's love like this:

"You and your father's feelings, outsiders have no right to speak, but as children, we have never forgotten what happened in those years, as well as the grievances and pains suffered by our mother.

Therefore, it takes courage to pursue true love, but this courage is based on selfishness, which hurts others and sweetens yourself.

Love is a restrained morality. Love cannot last forever. We won't just like one person in this life. Changing our minds is an instinct, but loyalty is a choice.

Please be kind, restrain yourself and choose to give up!