How to educate children who are addicted to playing mobile phones

1. Cultivate hobbies and keep company effectively.

The reason why children are addicted to playing electronic products is that there is no one to accompany them, or their parents have little company.

Parents should spend as much time with their children as possible, and at the same time be effective, not with their children, but do their own things. You should accompany your children wholeheartedly, interact with them more and understand their thoughts.

To cultivate children's hobbies, as long as children have active and healthy hobbies, and invest time and attention to gain fun and a sense of accomplishment, the demand for mobile phones will gradually decline. Parents have the responsibility to help their children discover and cultivate all kinds of positive and healthy hobbies, especially to encourage their children to participate in activities that can interact with their peers. This is the most fundamental and effective method. The more boring and empty, the greater the dependence on mobile phones.

For example, let children read some interesting books, listen to more music, or take children to play outdoors, let children make friends, slowly cultivate children's various other interests, and divert their attention from mobile phones.

2. Make an agreement with your child.

Remember, parents should not unilaterally make rules to force their children to implement them. Parents are advised to communicate with their children first to fully understand their thoughts, and then the two sides will establish an "agreement" to let their children participate in the formulation of rules and be more active in implementation.

Both parties can reach the following agreement:

1) When can I play, for example, I can play after finishing my homework every day;

2) How long can you play the mobile phone every day, for example, after school 16:00-20: 00, you can play 1 hour;

3) What else can be played and what can't be played;

4) which scenes can't be played, such as eating and going to the toilet.

5) What reward can I get for executing the contract many times?

After the agreement is established, it must be strictly implemented. Parents should not compromise because their children are crying. When the children reach an agreement, don't forget to give them the promised rewards to cultivate their contractual spirit.

The agreement between parents and children can be relaxed and then tightened according to the actual situation, step by step.

3. Parents lead by example

Family environment is extremely important for children's growth. Parents' words and deeds will directly affect children, and children will naturally observe and imitate their parents' behavior.

Zheng, the king of fairy tales, once told parents that if they want their children to develop a good habit of reading, then parents should let their children see that they are reading every day, and even if they are pretending, they will take the initiative to pick up books and read them within three days.

It is conceivable that parents who always play mobile phones must be confused when they ask their children not to play mobile phones, and even ask their parents if you often play mobile phones. Therefore, as parents, we must try to avoid playing mobile phones in front of our children.

It is a long process for parents to educate and guide their children, so parents should have enough patience.

In fact, children play mobile phones not because they are attractive, but because time is not used better, so their attention is naturally focused on mobile phones. Therefore, if parents want to quit their children's cell phone addiction, they should accompany their children to do other things. After all, company is the best education.