Boyfriend cares about himself, but he is generous to his brother. What is this? Should we break up?

When women are in love, they all want to get the attention and attention of their boyfriends, but often we feel disappointed more than hope, feel wronged, and always feel that our boyfriends don't know themselves and don't care about themselves. In terms of spending money, if a boy is not very poor and unwilling to spend a penny for a girl, it shows that he is not concerned about his girlfriend and has insufficient emotional investment.

Although falling in love is a true feeling, saying money is very cliche, but it is true. If a boy doesn't want to spend money on girls, there are two main reasons. On the one hand, this boy is really poor and really has no money. Maybe even his own food is a problem and he can't express his love. On the other hand, boys don't care about their girlfriends at all, and they don't mean to give them gifts, so their EQ is too low. In either case, such a boyfriend is not a suitable boyfriend.

Most boys love face, pretend to be generous to their brothers, and many will not hide it from their girlfriends for many years, which will be embarrassing. This is fundamentally a cognitive problem. It is a bit rash to say goodbye to such a question. You need to know the reason in detail and find the root cause before making a decision. You can choose a place, communicate deeply, and talk about your psychological feelings and grievances.

In the process of communicating with your boyfriend, you should pay attention to your methods and show your wronged and soft side. Don't be too emotional, blindly blame and blame your boyfriend, and don't quarrel. Try your best to speak slowly and gently, and guide your boyfriend to reflect. It's best to impress him, make him feel sad and wronged for you, and realize the bad influence of his behavior on you.