[Written conversation between a movie fan and a TV reporter] Caiyun Photographer

Sacrifice Complex A good person shines a bright starlight above my head, and I thought it would caress me. But the flying, flashing prints and electromagnetic waves kept transmitting the curved reflections of the victims to me. They hung high in the gilded sky, as if for me to weep, for me to peer into: the final fate of good men.

Fragments of stars - I use these fragments to build a world

A young man named Xi Gui wrote a letter claiming that he particularly liked CCTV’s “Focus Interview” program and would watch it every day look. He hoped that the editorial department would help him create an opportunity to talk to the TV reporter. We forwarded his letter to Sun Jie from the "Focus Interview" crew. The following is their written conversation.

Xi Gui:

I love watching TV, and I love watching "Focus Interview" even more. But I don't like reports on heroes and role models. I know they are good people and role models for the country. But I always feel that they are in heaven and I am on earth, so there is no way to learn. The most important thing is that all heroes must die, and all role models must abandon their families and careers and become sick from overwork. Every time I see reports like this, I wonder, did our parents give us birth just to send us to sacrifice? Several times, when the whole family watched this kind of report together, my mother always expressed her resentment towards the gangsters, and at the same time told me: "Stay away from this kind of thing in the future. Those desperadoes are ruthless. ”

There is another thing I don’t understand. When I first saw the reports of “trafficking women and children”, I was shocked and hated the criminals for trafficking. There are also people like Yang Xiaoxia who are sick and have no money to treat them. ; Or when a poor child cannot go to school, I will be sad and cry, and sometimes I am willing to use my small salary to contribute a little. But later, these things were everywhere. As soon as I turned on the TV, I could see people crying and people dying. My feelings were different. One time, the TV seemed to be broadcasting a live report of heroes and models. An audience member on the camera was crying and wiping his nose. I chuckled, turned to my mother and said, "Look, why did she cry like that?" My mother glared at me and said, "Weren't you like this before?" Yes, but why can't I do it now? Since when did I become so difficult to be moved? What caused my conscience to grow a thick callus?

There was a program called "Approaching Good People" in the previous focus interview. It was very good. These ordinary good people should be reported more and make them shine. But after seeing it later, I didn't understand anymore. My respect for good people was shattered by their tragic fate and poor life; their glory also dimmed. Especially Yu Ge, the plumber at the Harbin Gear Factory, is really a kind-hearted person who is willing to help others. He has done so many good things for others, but what about himself? His thin, sallow face and short figure made it impossible for me to imagine where the sunshine of his personal life was. The scene of him dying in the sewer on a snowy night on the second day of the Lunar New Year chilled me. Could it be that the only way for the people he helped to treat him kindly was to say kind words and shed some tears after he died of exhaustion? They stood aside and pointed as if they were saying: "Hey, Brother Yu is dead, and no one will do these dirty jobs."

To be honest, if a good person It's like this, I'm really afraid of being a good person. Now I just want to be the kind of person the lyrics say: "I am not the bad person that good people say, nor the good person that bad people say."

Sun Jie:

I also grew up under the education of "being a good person". But when I was asked to go on my way to be interviewed on the program "Approaching Good People", I still didn't fully understand what kind of people were good people. What kind of good people should we promote?

Xi Gui is right, there shouldn’t be too many moral demands on good people. No matter how many earth-shattering things a good man does, he is first and foremost a person who needs to eat, drink, sleep, and has all kinds of emotions. In fact, it is not difficult to be a good person. You don’t have to make sacrifices or make your life a mess. A bright smile from the salesperson and a warm greeting from the clerk are enough to make people excited and leave them with a long aftertaste. A taxi driver returning a found object, a hospital doctor struggling to save a critically ill patient, or a mother defying rape to protect her child can all become good people and good deeds in the newspapers.

Good people are ordinary people: ordinary people, ordinary things.

A good man is not a great man: great achievements are earth-shattering.

The "Focus Interview" and "Meeting Good People" series focus on such good people. The memorial service for Dr. Wen in Fuzhou was arranged as usual, but unexpectedly the number of people attending the memorial exceeded the planned number by more than ten times. Only then did he discover the good deeds he had done during his lifetime. Most of Dr. Wen's deeds did not exceed his job, but what he did was closer to the requirements of professional ethics. Speaking of Brother Yu, everyone who has come into contact with him is moved. But upon closer inspection, he is just an enthusiastic person who likes to meddle in "nosy" matters. Helping others is a joy that everyone can have in life.

My colleagues and I completed this program very peacefully, and even the interviewees were not very passionate. However, the social response after the program was broadcast was unexpected and quite disappointing to me. calm.

We also received a lot of letters from viewers. These letters can become moral polls. When I read them, I also had a very strange feeling. A person just did what he should do, but he gained There are so many praises from the society and being hyped up by the press. Can’t you explain how exciting it is? Or does it make people sad?