What if there is no ambition?

If you don't want to be self-motivated, you should cultivate your own self-motivated, instead of always thinking about the past days. If you plan everything day by day, but always put it off until tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, and then the day after tomorrow, it will never come true.

Now that you have realized that you are a self-motivated person, you have to make changes yourself. First, you should know what you want, what kind of life you want and what kind of goals you want to achieve. It's definitely impossible to plan around these things at first. You have to do it step by step. Maybe the process will be very difficult, which is better than doing nothing for a lifetime.

My friend, now a second-born mother, is only 27 years old and has already started to show off. Her husband earns five or six thousand yuan a month, and she takes care of two children at home. Dabao has gone to kindergarten, and Bauer is only eight months old, which is equivalent to her husband's fixed salary to support three or four people. But her husband and wife are completely complacent, thinking that the money is enough now and they don't want to increase their income.

I asked her why she didn't let your husband find a job with a higher salary. She said that her husband thinks the present job is quite good, but she just wants to bring up two children. Maybe children have a bright future in the future, and hopes are pinned on them. I am really speechless. I don't want to be self-motivated at a young age. Do you want to rely on children without hard work? The key is how old the child is, and it's beautiful to think about it.

When you are not self-motivated, compare yourself with other excellent people, so that you will be self-motivated. Every time I want to screw up, I feel that others are working harder, richer and better off than me. Why am I bored here? This mediocre life is so boring.