Left-handed family and baby, right-handed work sideline, 60 thousand+extra-salary income in the first quarter. How did I do it?

I wanted to be a Buddhist in May, but all my friends around me made money like chicken blood, and the Buddhist's heart was anxious again, so I got up and wrote one.

Mother's Day is coming. As a new mother, I know it is not easy to be a mother.

Working mothers should work hard with their right hands and take care of their families and children with their left hands. Almost all the year round. In the face of pressure from all sides, mothers should be kind to themselves.

As a working mother, of course, I hope that my work can be "more money, less things and close to home". It is true that some people can cope with the challenges of work calmly, and at the same time enjoy the fun of life with peace of mind.

There are countless forces behind working mothers. From falling in love to getting married, getting married to having children, many times women are subtly changing, working, taking care of children, dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, managing money and doing sideline business.

Many friends asked me how to balance my family and career. It's my first time as a mother. There is no such thing as balance. It is difficult to balance work and life. But what needs to be understood is that mom is not superman!

We are not alone. Why does mom want to be superman? As a member of the family, husband and wife share the responsibility. It is a great blessing if an old man can take good care of his children.

When I take maternity leave, I have a period of time to take care of the baby, buy food, cook, clean, write and manage money. On the surface, it seems perfect. In fact, I experienced self-tear and reconciliation. When I saw my out-of-shape figure, heard the crying of the baby, heard the pain after tearing during childbirth, or saw a lot of hair falling all over the floor due to breastfeeding, and saw the messy nursing mother in front of the mirror, I felt that the sky was going to fall, and I was no longer me.

I can't help but wonder myself: why do you say it's superman mother! I don't want to be a superman mother. But so far, I have become a superman mother, haha!

24 hours a day, many people feel that time is not enough, of course, I think so.

I started working after maternity leave. Because you want breast milk, you should bring it with you every day. It is said that breast milk is healthy, nutritious and saves money. Finally, because breast milk was not enough for 6 months, I began to feed milk powder. I still have a little time.

During working hours, the elderly at home help take care of the baby. I will use fragmented time to browse financial information, posts, forums or listen to audio, and sometimes I will think about the outline of the article to be written that day. Between work, we will share and exchange financial knowledge and various money-making projects in the financial group.

Going home from work is the time to spend with the baby. The baby will go to bed before 9 o'clock and wake up at 5 or 6 o'clock the next day. This period of time is my free time, and I will concentrate on code words. Of course, sometimes I'm too tired. I was already asleep when I put the baby to bed.

I don't concentrate on shopping and cooking with my baby during the holidays, because I can't accompany my baby, so I always start coding after my baby falls asleep. In this way, I persisted for a year, and the baby was almost one year old. The result of persistence is pleasant and unexpected. In just three months this year, my extra-salary income is 60,000+.

As a mother, these are my long-standing habits, hoping to help you:

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Make hobbies come true

Many families who have a second child are so busy that they are suffocating. A friend I know reported on the Internet that she fell in love with photography and began to learn from 0. Although she can't spare much time, as long as she can squeeze out some time to photograph the beautiful things in this world, she will be immersed in photography and full of love for life.

Now my friend has realized the interest from 0 to 1 She told me that taking orders every day is mainly about parent-child themes, and the income of taking three hours a day is in four figures. With goals, life will really be more exciting.

Friends who are familiar with me know that my interest is writing, which has been realized for a year and a half now, and my monthly income has covered my daily expenses. Go to work during the day and start code words after going to bed at night. This is my sideline. At this time, you may be playing games, brushing Tik Tok and chasing dramas ... I have begun to concentrate on making money.

In addition, some friends who like my articles will come to me to learn financial management. My financial group has been working for 2 years, and one-on-one family financial guidance has been going on for almost a year, which is also a sideline derived from my writing.

When you insist on one thing, you will find that rice, oil and salt are close, and poetry is not far away.

2

Let bookkeeping and financial management take root

Young people must learn to save money and never lose it all.

Young people must start bookkeeping, income and expenditure can be clear, and assets can be doubled.

When I was young, I had a misunderstanding about bookkeeping, thinking that the money I earned should be bought in buy buy. Now I find that buy buy's willfulness can't make me better, and sometimes it will be worse.

Financial management is not as difficult as you think.

In order to sort out the cash flow, I started to keep accounts. At present, I keep accounts for more than 1700 days, and the book records that I am single, married in love, bought a house, decorated and had children.

From debt to the first payment of 6,543,800 yuan, from financial management to becoming the signing author of various financial platforms, and now helping more zero-based partners to experience the fun of lying and making money, the growth along the way comes from bookkeeping, and bookkeeping is the cornerstone.

Before I started to manage my finances, I never thought about my financial benefits. My words can be realized. Many times, the realization of a dream will bring about the rise of many dreams.

In 20 17, in order to get rid of moonlight debt, I began to allocate assets and explore new long-term investment methods. Inadvertently opened the road of my fund's fixed investment, so I read a lot of financial books and listened to a lot of financial classes. The long-term road of fixed investment by the fund has brought me many benefits. For an ordinary person like me, choosing a fund is the best investment tool.

three

Let reading calm the mood.

Postpartum confinement should be the worst mood. If not handled properly, it is likely to lead to postpartum depression. Whenever hard work and anxiety are mixed into weakness and despair, I will take a hot bath after the baby sleeps, apply a mask to calm myself down and read a book.

I have read more books this year than I have read in the past 30 years. I never thought reading could be so beautiful before. If I can't take Wan Li Road, I should study thousands of books. I used to think that chicken soup was sometimes a lifesaver in your darkest hour.

During this time, I basically read two books every month, whether it is a parenting book or a financial management book. Now children are less than one year old and like to read books. Now think about those bad emotions at that time, it's really not worth mentioning. Real life is to face these trivial things. If not, sit down and read.

Accepting emotions is the first step to growth. When you understand the demands behind emotions, you will find that emotions need to be released, which is not bad.

Because I read more books, my thinking began to change and my knowledge of financial management became rich. I began to write my own thoughts, my own heart, which made my writing much smoother.

Life is full of chicken feathers, but I don't want to lose how tired it is to take care of the baby, because how late it is to write an article, who is not tired of taking care of the baby? Is it not difficult to make money? I hope everyone can read my article without anxiety, see the bright side, find ways to change themselves and work hard for their poems and the distance.