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Your loneliness, though defeated, is glorious.
Although your loneliness is defeated, it is still glorious. After reading 1, I first met Liu Tong from Your Loneliness Is Still Brilliant. At that time, I thought the title was good literature and art, and the content was probably some melodramatic youth literature. One sunny afternoon, I turned over a few pages, but it was out of control.
After reading this book, you have to ask me about it. I can only say that there are many stories about loneliness. I am not a scholar, and I have a bad memory. I forgot after reading it, but I still want to write out my feelings after reading this book.
In the final analysis, loneliness is self-imposed. I'm not afraid to say that I do often feel lonely. When you are alone, when others can't understand you, sitting there quietly will suddenly make you fall into a lonely mood, and then your heart will be wronged. I always feel generous and unpretentious to my friends. I don't like people playing touching dramas with me. People who don't know me well will think I'm unfriendly because I won't smile at them. Of course, I think that's how they see me. ) Many people will think that I am a heartless person with a relaxed attitude towards things. Even if I say that I will be moved to tears by a picture and a sentence, no one will believe me, because everyone who knows me thinks that I am not that kind of person. I can only say that this is just me that I am willing to show to others. Because even if I am moved to death, I don't want to cry in front of people for so many years. Students who were not familiar with oral class before wrote that I used extroversion, which probably affirmed my way of showing myself. I also hope to live as I show, so that I won't feel tired occasionally.
I don't have many friends. As far as I can tell the truth, only my own sister is left, and there are two friends for more than ten years. I won't choose to tell others what I have hidden, not now and not in the future. My growth has no influence on my life. Maybe I was born with an inferiority complex. Inferiority and sensitivity. I am so sensitive that I want to slap myself. Why bother for a look and a detail? I don't want to pay too much for my friends. I will treat you less as you treat me, so I will be more comfortable not to contact you in the future. As the book says, some words can only be said to yourself, and others are processed and willing to tell you. That's it. Some things, even the question of who you like, are easy for girls to ask. I just sit in it, but I will never say it. Ask me for a year, but I still won't say. Not that I'm artificial. I just can't say it. There are some things I'm really insecure about. I won't talk about it, because I'm afraid that the castle I built for my previous memories will be blown down by jokes. For example, someone asked me to comment on her clothes, even if I felt ugly, I wouldn't say ugly; Her behavior may make me sick, so I won't say it. That's it, so it won't be easily hated.
I like this book very much, too. Life has only one end, but a person's real life starts from the day you want to work hard. My ideal is only known to myself, and my dear "brother" also knows Mix. I hope to start working hard one day, not with the ridicule of my friends, but with support. In fact, the most shameful thing between friends is ridicule. Some jokes can be played. Some, about life and dreams, will only make me feel that you really don't want me to get better.
Finally, I just want to say sorry to the friends who appear in my life. I can't be honest, and I can't be as close as my sisters and brothers. Because my character has suffered a lot, most of which you don't know or understand at all. Maybe you don't care at all, but I will. I can't change my personality at present, and from your evaluation of me, I also know that the personality I don't want to show has not had much influence on you. Forgive me for not being as kind to you as you are to me, forgive me for not comforting you, forgive me, please understand me.
I hope that with the growth of age, I will learn to be happy and not think too much, and learn to enjoy a person's loneliness.
Although your loneliness is defeated, it is still glorious. If you want to go far, you must first go to learn to be lonely. -inscription
On the long road of life, there is always a moment when you walk alone. A lonely figure is stretched by street lamps, lonely-the true colors are revealed.
When I was a child, I liked to go together. I think those lonely people are strange. Yes, no one wants to be excluded. Later, my friends around me gradually left, leaving me alone on my way home, waving goodbye to the air.
As time goes on, I'm used to it. I am used to riding a bike alone, eating alone, climbing mountains alone and watching the scenery ... I was seen in the noise, gentle breathing and gaps between leaves. When you close your eyes, you realize that loneliness is not terrible. Even sometimes, it brings you great warmth.
Seeing that the tape was taken away, the photographer was injured, and dozens of people kept threatening, her perseverance was surprisingly calm. After being rescued, a word to take her home broke all her senses, burying her face and turning around, crying like a child.
Later, she said, "Only then did I feel what it meant to have a gentle dagger in my heart."
This is the most touching text in the book, and I have an impulse to cry.
I think she will be moved by herself when she thinks of this day in the future. That kind of helpless but strong loneliness has never been lost to this world.
Each of us will experience loneliness, frustration of failure, loneliness of success, loneliness of eating alone in the canteen, boredom of being in a daze when insomnia, boredom of standing in the street and waiting for people ... loneliness is a landscape, and knowing how to appreciate it means lakes and mountains, and the shallowest fears will eventually subside. Don't feel like a person.
Maybe even Liu Tong didn't know what the students in mountainous areas were afraid of until a white note wrote a secret from the heart: I am afraid of loneliness.
Yes, everyone is hiding, afraid of being illuminated by the sun and being seen by others. When you quietly raise your hand and admit to the world that it belongs to you, you see that people around you are hesitant to raise their hands. At that moment, we looked at each other in amazement.
Ah, it turns out that he is also lonely, and we all feel inferior.
We are always so sensitive that we feel out of place in this world and are the loneliest in the crowd. But in the end, you will find that the whole crowd is made up of lonely people. This is the little alienation of "group loneliness", and it is my dream to pretend to be calm again and again. Yes, we are all lonely. Why can't we be friends?
"Maybe you will feel sorry for so many lonely people in the world, but please don't be lost for your loneliness." A person can spend a lot of things.
One day, when you look back on these things, the things that worried you for several days at that time made you panic that everything armed to your teeth seemed very small.
When you have experienced all kinds of loneliness, you can still face the world with a smile. Perhaps this is also an honor despite failure.
It has been more than a year since I joined the book club. During this year, I enjoyed many books, which greatly enriched my inner world. After reading your loneliness, I learned a lot of knowledge, "drank" some chicken soup for the soul, and got strong spiritual strength to support me to move forward.
Gorky once said that "books are the ladder of human progress". Yes, good books can really make us progress. It spreads knowledge to us, teaches us many truths and broadens our horizons. Let's talk about my feelings after reading the book.
This book touched me a lot. As written in the book, I am a lonely person. After entering high school, I feel very confused, I don't know what I want, and I don't know what the future will be like. Loneliness is a noun with a clear answer, a manifestation of various emotions, and a lot of things that a person must face. The loneliness we are experiencing is called confusion. After those loneliness, we call it growth.
The first chapter of this book is about friendship and loneliness. Seeing this, I can't help but recall my friends who I once thought were very close. Some left because they moved, and some went to other schools after graduation or halfway. In the later days, I gradually lost their news and contact. In this way, the people around me have changed from primary school to junior high school and then to high school. Friends who used to be good friends, but now their friendship has faded because of lack of contact. We are all depressed by losing or missing someone. But you know, although everyone appeared in front of us in human form at the beginning, when fate ended, some people could only become photos, words or just leave their names. They are willing, but unable, but they can accompany them to their old age.
Entering the high school stage, the results are not ideal, and it is difficult to adapt to high school study. I am so desperate about studying that I want to give up studying several times. After getting this book, I read this passage: "When you are desperate for one thing, you can give up trust in others, you can give up external evaluation of yourself, you can give up expectation of the result, but you can't give up inner peace. Only by returning to calm, being willing to be lonely and not afraid of being upset can you listen to your heartbeat again. Whether you are in chaos or lost in the future, keeping peace of mind and calm is the biggest weapon to break any dilemma. " After reading this, I understand that if you can't see the future clearly, you must grasp the present. So in the later days, I gradually learned to look at things with a normal heart, keep my heart calm and reassure myself.
These are my feelings about this book. I appreciate the opportunity to read this book. Thank the team leader for providing us with such reading conditions. Thank you. Finally, I want to say: "Our life has just begun. We should study hard and explore this world with too many new things in the future. "
Although your loneliness is defeated, it is still glorious. Liu Tong, the author of four books, used his 33-year-old life to describe loneliness. 33 kinds of warmth, 33 growth stages and 33 feelings make readers and authors sing * * *. Everyone is lonely, and everyone has his own lonely way.
People like to do the same thing with someone. Among girls, it is common for them to go to the toilet to fetch water together. People are probably afraid of loneliness. But in reality, many things need to be done by one person. Slowly, I got used to being alone, taking the bus, eating, watching movies and studying in the library. A person can walk well and not go with the flow. People, too, are used to loneliness, which is hidden in their hearts. After reading this book, generate came out in an instant.
There is a kind of loneliness when you suddenly think of someone, only to find that you don't have the contact information of the other person. From immature primary school students, ignorant junior high school students to young high school students, countless people have passed by us. It seems that the way of life has never changed, but the people around you are constantly changing. Many friends who once said that they would stay together all the time have no contact information now. I just often think of it in the dead of night and then ask myself why it's gone.
I met my primary school classmate in the shopping mall the other day. He approached me from a distance, and I felt very familiar with him. My intuition tells me that I know him. "Wei ... Hao?" I remember his name, but even I can't explain why I hesitated so long when I said his name. Afraid of saying the wrong thing or remembering the wrong thing, or … afraid of not knowing what to say after meeting. He also recognized me and called my name, but then there was a moment of silence. "Then I walked first. My dad is waiting for me! " "Oh, great." I broke the peace and hurried to see you.
Maybe sometimes, saying goodbye is not really urgent, but you don't know what to say, or I don't know where to start. So I chose not to talk, not to talk, to be lonely.
There is a kind of loneliness, when you need to rely on it, you find that there is no one around you, only yourself, and you can only be forced to grow up. In the process of growing up, we will pass by countless people, and the people or things you depend on will disappear one day. We can only watch them drift away in your life, and then turn around and tell ourselves that it's your turn to go next.
What I rely on is probably my parents. With the departure of my grandmother and some older predecessors, I gradually understand that there are always some dark and quiet roads, and I want to walk alone, and no one can accompany me. Maybe this road is full of thorns or cliffs, but when you walk through this road and look back, you will say to yourself, it's nothing, it's all over. It is in this loneliness that we keep growing.
When we walk in the annual rings of time again and again, the busy life surrounds us, and the overwhelmed people or things make us lose ourselves constantly. Only in the dead of night can we recall our past and our once ordinary and great dreams in an almost silent way. Loneliness is a way for us to know ourselves.
When you are tired and look back, you will find that you came alone on the road that was once full of thorns, that's all. May you be more afraid of loneliness than others. May you be moved by yourself when you talk about it in the future.
Despite your failure, your loneliness is glorious. After reading it, I read the book "Although your loneliness is defeated, it is glorious" under the recommendation of a member. Actually, I started traveling with some friends in early July, and I learned to drive immediately after I came back. I am very nervous when I see the emails sent by everyone. I haven't read or written them yet. I finally finished reading it today, so I began to write and write some of my own opinions.
Looking at the front part is more touching. At first, I saw Guo Qingchun's performance of Midian, and suddenly I thought of the youth travel in Xining in July. That night, a boy with a beard was singing with a guitar, one of which was Midian, and everyone sat next to him and sang along. At first, my best friend and I heard the song Nan Shan Nan from downstairs in our room. We looked at each other in surprise, then put on the shawl bought by Qinghai Lake and rushed downstairs together, because it was our favorite song. It was the happiest night in that youth hostel. Maybe there will be no such opportunity in the future, and some memories may always be just memories. Just like some people are only in memory forever.
I used to read very fast, but I read this book slowly, because I can't do anything if I read it too fast. Loneliness, in fact, I am afraid of loneliness. Everything likes to hold the other half, and it is always strange to be alone. Looking at the book, I suddenly heard a song on my mobile phone, which was very familiar, and I remembered that it was my mobile phone ringtone a few years ago. This feeling is very strange, just like suddenly meeting a friend I haven't seen for years, surprised and happy, and a little strange.
Maybe I can become a better person when I can accept loneliness and won't feel bad because of loneliness.
Although your loneliness is defeated, it is still glorious. After reading 6, the green leather car disappeared.
I have heard this news for many years, but there are still one or several mottled dark green trains going from here to there. Some poets ride it to a poetic country, and some poor people ride it back to their warm hometown.
I read Liu Tong's Your Loneliness, Though Defeated, I think every sentence can be copied down and treasured in my notebook. But it suddenly occurred to me that I have passed that age and I no longer need words to encourage and comfort. The reason why I like this book, even crazy infatuation, can only be explained by kindness. Yes, every word of his can arouse my * * *, every story of his is the past I experienced, and every memory of his is the future I predicted.
He talked about returning to his alma mater for ten years after graduation. One is successful, the other is glamorous, but the old classmates look in the mirror and more or less think of your past. Have you ever been asked to be speechless in Professor Yang's class? Have you ever been scolded by a boy you like when you quit the court? Have you ever been scolded by your sister in the student union for making a wrong form? That is our past, an indelible shame, but it is our youth that we can never go back. See here, I cried, Liu Tong said don't freeze to death before dawn, even if the youth can't stay, don't be too sad. However, I suddenly realized why we should be so sentimental. Is life really so miserable? Is fate really so unfair?
I don't think so, nor is it. We are only 20 years old, less than a quarter of our lives, our childishness has faded, we have just realized, and we have just reached a new floor in this world. There is no qualification at all, to hurt the spring and cry in autumn. Liu Tong's loneliness, as he said, is that he is in a foreign land and can't ask his parents for a penny. He really doesn't have a dollar in his pocket to buy a bag of instant noodles to fill his stomach. He got nothing, was short of money, knew all the facts, but could only deceive himself. He was full of wine and meat but had no friends. That kind of loneliness, we have never experienced.
But we can be called loneliness. My roommate is discussing the newly released movie, which I can't understand; I can't hear the teacher's evaluation of Lu Xun on the podium. I don't understand my parents' chatter about the world; Beautiful women in flesh-colored tights on the street at MINUS 10 degrees also give me goose bumps. These are all loneliness. Everyone is an independent individual. There are 6 billion people who can't find another self. Is this loneliness?
Loneliness is not afraid at all, but admirable. I once saw a saying in Yilin: People who dare to be alone will become extraordinary people. My friend told me about a girl in her roommate, which gave me a deeper understanding of this sentence. That girl, lovely and kind, has her own creed from the first day of school. In the morning, when her roommates were still sleeping, she began to read by the lake. At night, her roommates were asleep and she had not come back from the study room. I don't know whether he will succeed in many years, but I know that she can hold her head high in those successes or failures. There is no doubt that no one eats, studies and discusses entertainment and state affairs with her. She is lonely, but she shines in the depths of thousands of people.
Another kind of loneliness makes people feel sad. I remember reading such a news when I was in the third year of high school, and I was very entangled at that time. A professor in a university sweated profusely in a classroom with only one person. I couldn't understand it at that time. But now, after reading this book, I have a little understanding. If I were his student, I would like to be his only student. Even if his lesson plan hasn't changed for more than ten years, maybe he is so stubborn that he has to call the roll in every class. Maybe he accidentally asked me to retake the exam, but I have no strength in the face of his efforts. I also long for the loneliness with this elder in the empty classroom.
We are all lonely, because no one really walks into our hearts. But we are not alone, because there is always a smile or a hug in the distance or around us. Liu Tong said, your loneliness, although the defeat is glorious, but I promise, you still have me, you won't be lonely.
Although your loneliness is defeated, it is still glorious. When I feel too noisy at home, I want to find a book that can calm me down instinctively. When I saw the word' loneliness' in this book, I decisively added it to the bookshelf. But when I really got in touch with it, I found that it was not like this at all.
Loneliness is an emotional experience that expresses people's inner feelings. As far as today's society is concerned, there are many people who feel lonely, but not many people are really lonely. Loneliness means that we have a choice, but we don't want to open the window of our hearts.
When a quiet night, we will feel lonely; However, when we are in the noise, we also feel lonely. Loneliness arises spontaneously. When we can't open our hearts, get in touch with others and get spiritual comfort, we naturally feel lonely. Just like when Mr. Liu gave a speech in a vocational school, most students in a class felt lonely. Loneliness is often not a unique temperament of a person, but a characteristic of a group of people. So when you think you have no friends, look at the people around you. Maybe they are as depressed, bored and lonely as you.
There are always many people who are worried because they have no friends and always envy other people's colorful lives. What we don't know is that happiness often hides sadness, but others don't show it. Nine times out of ten, life is unhappy, so in social groups, those who really need care and care are those who take happiness as their skin. The distress of many people is obvious, and it is easy to win the care and support of others. Some people just wear good skins, keep a straight face, disguise themselves and stick to the bottom line of loneliness.
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