How to make children fall in love with reading?

We all have a feeling that when we were young, we or the children around us were more talented and energetic than when we grew up, but with the growth of children, many people gradually became mediocre. Some people say that this is the fault of education, others say that it is the fault of the system, but the real problem is that we can't change the educational environment in a short time, and we can't rely entirely on immigration. So what else can we do to make our children grow more like human beings? It is an effective means for children to read good books widely from childhood, to grow up and to enlighten them. I am convinced that children who love books will gain more horizons and growth potential than their peers. The following are some gains and losses of teacher Akiba's guidance to her daughter @ Li Qiuji-"How to make children love reading since childhood?" Concise version (detailed version can be found at the end of the article), I think, such a "Parenting Heart Sutra" should benefit everyone or their children. No educated children, no regret medicine. Reading is reading, reading books that you like and reading books that you think have connotations. Reading is definitely not a popular reading comprehension in our language. What is the standard answer? In fact, most of the articles in our Chinese textbooks for primary and secondary schools are rough and shallow, with incomplete stories and broken backgrounds. It tastes like chewing wax, but it takes a long time to recite, which makes people feel embarrassed! When a person sees a book, his thoughts are naturally different; Different thoughts, different speaking temperament; The romantic style of the article is naturally different with different temperament. This is a delicate process. Read those original classics, those words that have not been processed twice, and those words that can be done in one go. Only in this way can our children benefit from reading. I always feel that parents should not give their children wealth, and children's wealth should be earned by their own hands. What our parents can give their children, besides cultivating and providing education, is the best habit that can benefit their children for life, such as sports, art, travel, photography, stamp collecting and reading. Reading is spiritual food, but reading this food is different from eating. You are not afraid to eat late. You can start at any time, in case you haven't tasted this delicious food. There is a good saying: "nothing can make us feel like reading except love, and a late start can be so beautiful." Cultivating children's reading habits has endless benefits. I think the easiest way to make children fall in love with reading is to let parents become book lovers first. If parents insist on reading a little every day, reading slowly will become a part of their lives, and then reading slowly will also become a part of your children's lives ... People need to eat for their physical growth and think about their mental growth. Reading is the most effective way to promote thinking, but many adults are willing to spend a lot of money to attend some second-hand lecturer training courses on the pretext of being busy, but they are unwilling to settle down and read a classic carefully. Most parents themselves have never realized that diversified reading outside textbooks can bring any interesting or beneficial inspiration to their lives. How can you think that something you haven't experienced may happen to your children? Good reading is pleasant reading. This is easier said than done. Modern China people don't like reading, but most of them are full of utilitarianism, which is the enemy of reading. Only thinking about utilitarian things, I am afraid that reading will lose my original happiness, and if one thing becomes unhappy, no one will really invest in it. If reading is only for exams, then children will only gradually stay away from reading. Mr. Qian Liqun said: "Reading is such a spiritual activity: with a book in your hand, you can break the boundaries of time and space, travel freely in all the cultural spaces created and owned by human beings, and relive and feel the life in the book through reading ... Primary and secondary education pays attention to classic reading, and children can talk to masters and giants who create spiritual wealth of human beings and nations". In kindergarten and primary school, learning can only stand out by talent or strengthening mechanical memory, but with the growth of age, the things to be understood become more and more complicated, and at this time complex intellectual activities are needed. Simple mechanical memory ability has been difficult to provide great help for learning and improvement. Then, by reading such mental gymnastics as a child, children with more comprehensive intellectual development will have the stamina to learn. A simple topic can naturally get full marks after training for a hundred times, but complex thinking can't get results through simple training. Reading is a good way to train complex thinking. Why sacrifice your child's future growth space for a little immediate results? Now prices are soaring and incomes are not rising, but ordinary families should not be afraid to spend money on books, clothes, cigarettes and alcohol, playing SLR and speculating in stocks and antiques. That's about three McDonald's compared with the price of buying a good book in the United States. In China, the price of a book is only worth one McDonald's. To buy books for children, we must first ensure that the total amount is enough to ensure the children's reading for one year. An author, a series of books, if not bad, especially recognized classics, children still like it, might as well add them one after another. Children often have a high degree of recognition of their favorite authors' books and will read them repeatedly. Adults can guide children to buy enough kinds of books, and they can read whatever they don't like, but don't restrict them too much. You can't say that you like "One Hundred Years of Solitude" and you can't hide that children like "Decline" comics. Children have problems with reading. Unlike adults, they consciously choose some books to supplement their knowledge and broaden their horizons. When children study, if they choose, they often read only their favorite types. In this way, their thinking will be limited to a routine. Therefore, books, whether astronomical geography, literature, history, classics and philosophy, novels, essays and comic picture books, should be eclectic, that is, they should buy enough knowledge. Every child's growing experience and interests are different, and there is no same answer to what books he likes to read. If you are eager to play chess, you may kill your nature or interest. There is a disadvantage for children to read books. How can they feel comfortable? At this time, don't turn into an emotional confrontation. He wants to lie on the sofa and read a book. You forbade him, but he insisted. You throw books. How can I study for a long time? Also, don't worry about children reading slowly. Parents should not let their children gradually emphasize reading, literacy, understanding and reading, and give them freedom. Children know how to adjust themselves. We should not consider everything for their children, but believe that they know how to adapt themselves to the environment. Parents always unconsciously expect to see their children know more words, remember a few good descriptive techniques to learn from the composition, understand some story lines, read more books and recite some wonderful paragraphs. In fact, what children hate most is the feeling of writing after reading it. Reading is a happy thing. I wish I had developed the habit of reading when I was a child. Why ask her to take this opportunity to complete too many utilitarian ideas? Some children are naturally fond of reading, but others are not. They naturally like watching TV, so it is very important for their parents to induce them to read. When my children were young, I took them to the bookstore every month, and gradually changed from pure comics, graphic comics, comics with many words and cartoons with connotations to written books. Don't worry, read more books, and your natural taste will improve. In this process, parents should read stories to their children at a fixed time as soon as possible. Although sometimes it is annoying and tiring, it is definitely worth it. Reading is naturally the best way to read classics, but the so-called classics are not necessarily good-looking books, but try to buy books that have not been deleted. Don't underestimate children's reading ability and self-study ability. When we can read some books that test our intelligence, it is difficult for books that are too shallow to stimulate our brains enough, so we can buy some relatively advanced books for our children to read. People in China are very strange. On the one hand, they want their children to excel and cultivate them with the most difficult problems in the world. On the other hand, they use the average IQ of children to evaluate their growth progress and arrange reading content. Adults' lack of confidence in their children actually comes from their own lack of confidence in themselves. Who is the biggest enemy of children's reading habits? Television, of course! After all, the computer needs some complicated operations, the TV is relatively simple, and some animation programs are non-stop all day long, which is invincible to the temptation of children. It is difficult for children to control TV addiction and computer diseases. The only purpose is to control the time allocated to watching TV and using computers. Of course, the ultimate solution is to turn off the TV directly, so that children have no idea of watching TV. Not every child can experience the happiness of reading from the beginning, so it is necessary to give children some happiness. For example, reward new books, read his articles, and post his articles to blogs or Weibo Space ... Reading won't make you rich, won't make you the focus, and won't even help you become a good student. The only benefit we can get from it is that we will never be lonely again. Reading is different from learning, it is a process of embracing one's soul. Read a good book, you can breathe with it. At that moment, your heart was relaxed and happy. Books can't talk, but they can open the world to you. People will always be confused when they grow up. A good book can make you feel confused, just like finding a door. Since then, you are not alone, and the book will tell you that there are people in this world who have been worried about the same problems as you. Embrace reading, read good books and make reading enjoyable, both for you and your children.