Friends get married and let me be the maid of honor. Being a bridesmaid for the first time is a bit overwhelming. I don't know what to write. If an experienced friend wants to help me.

1, stay close to the couple and accompany them at any time. Especially when couples are on the stage, the best man and bridesmaid must wait at the edge of the stage. 2. Always pay attention to the image of new people. For example, help couples simply tidy up the hem of the suit, the skirt of the dress and the veil, and call a makeup artist to support them when necessary. 3. Pay close attention to the needs of newcomers. The most important thing for the best man and bridesmaid is to have a "wink": it is the best man's job to open the door for the couple, take what they have and help them maintain good manners; When the newcomer is thirsty, he will pass the water; When you see a couple crying, hand in a tissue in time. Many couples forget to rest and are hungry because they are busy or excited, so the best man and bridesmaid must remember to remind them. 4. Be familiar with the personal belongings and personnel arrangements of the newcomers, so as to better help them coordinate and share. In particular, bridesmaids should be familiar with the shoes, underwear and accessories needed for the bride's dress, and take care of the replacement. 5. Qualified bridesmaids and groomsmen should also try their best to ease and appease the new couple's nervousness.

Newcomer representative:

1, Wedding: Bridesmaids should try their best to groom and don't let him take the bride away easily. Even the bride's handkerchief should read the bride's mind and try to let her enjoy the joy and glory of marriage. The best man should "fight" for the groom together with the bridesmaids and other sister groups and help the groom fight for beautiful women. 2. When welcoming guests: The maid of honor's task is to welcome new people and pay attention to their appearance, while the best man and the best man should do most of the reception work. 3. During the dinner: When someone has a problem and the bride is slightly embarrassed, the bridesmaids should step forward and do their best. Now is not the time to be shy around the bride. It is the best man's responsibility to help the groom stop drinking, and he can't shirk it. 4. During the ceremony: bid farewell to the witness, respect the parents and elders, and bid farewell to both parents. 5, make trouble in the bridal chamber: the best man will lead the guests to make trouble from the beginning. Don't get me wrong, the bridal chamber is interesting, and the newcomers will have more face. If not, the best man will take the lead, grasp the scale after the start, and finally see the couple off as appropriate. Bridesmaids can make fun of themselves, just don't forget to observe their words and deeds, stand up for the bride when necessary or try to divert everyone's attention.

Memo for bridesmaids and groomsmen:

1. Sometimes bridesmaids will take the responsibility of keeping red envelopes. Please prepare an exquisite but bulky handbag in advance, and remember to give it to the financial supervisor or parents designated by the couple before the ceremony, and ask them to keep it properly. 2. Remind the couple not to forget the ring, or keep the ring for the couple, and make sure to give it to the designated person on the stage before the ceremony. 3, holding a ring pillow, whether it is the best man or the maid of honor to take this job, you must remember to pay attention to your position, so as not to become a "third party" in the photo, and then help the bride pick flowers and take off her gloves. If flower girl is holding a ring pillow, please ask the bridesmaid to take good care of him or her. 4. The groomsman and bridesmaid convey the new couple's voice on the wedding day. Don't hesitate to find relevant staff in time to help newcomers convey their wishes and let professionals provide services for newcomers. Never make a decision without authorization. Of course, if you plan to hire a professional wedding planner, it doesn't matter whether the best man and bridesmaid have experience. In addition to arranging all the trivial matters in the wedding, wedding planning will also guide and remind the best man and bridesmaid about their work, position and etiquette in the ceremony, and even arrange for the new secretary to perform part of the bridesmaid's work. Bridesmaids and groomsmen wear relatively formal suits or dresses. If many groomsmen adopt formal clothes (such as Chinese tops), it will have a special dramatic effect. The bridesmaid had better wear a little dress, which is both beautiful and sets off the bride. Of course, they must move easily and don't let clothes distract them. After all, their main job is to look after the bride. In addition, it should be noted that the dress of bridesmaids and groomsmen should be consistent with the main color of the wedding.

Bridesmaid workflow

1. Make an agreement with the bride on the meeting time, lodging place and hotel location (to be finalized one week before marriage).

2. Report to the bride's house on time, and prepare the missing items (such as flower arrangement on the head) with the bride, and some may arrange the venue. It is best to meet the groom and the best man. At this time, we must pay attention to more communication. The bride is already dizzy, but the bridesmaid should be awake. Ask all the things that should be prepared. Have you prepared fake wine, female guests scattering petals, male guests lighting firecrackers, champagne tables and candlesticks, tried the sound, contacted the host ... Don't think that the couple will remember everything, and treat their wedding as their own from the beginning. If you have the conditions, you must advise newcomers to practice on the spot. When they practice, imagine themselves following behind and practice in their minds. 3. Help the bride wear the wedding dress at night. First, bridesmaids are familiar with the dressing process. Second, find feelings for the bride. When wearing a wedding dress, it is best to put a piece of cloth under the wedding dress to prevent the wedding dress from electrostatically attracting dust on the ground due to friction. 4. Monitor the amount of water the bride drinks before going to bed and remind the bride to go to bed early. Call the police before going to bed and put the things you want to use in obvious places. The next morning, get up a little earlier than the bride and wash in front of her. When the bride washes, the bridesmaids should take the time to make up their own makeup (it will be much easier for the makeup artist to make up their bridesmaids, and some brides will go to the photo studio to make up their bridesmaids). Not too thick, just cover the acne pits on their faces, and forget the fake eyelashes and wigs. I don't have to do my hair specially. I just try to solve the problem at will, because it is very hot (of course, I don't have much time to do it). Then eat a lot of breakfast with the bride (this is the food of the day! 6. In the process of the bride's makeup, the bridesmaid's main task is to arrange her own clothes and makeup, and secondly, to check whether the items that the bride wants to bring, such as headdress and jewelry, are all packed. The most important thing is to convey and complete the bride's instructions, such as: the bride wants to drink water-pour water; The bride wants to find someone-call; The groom calls and answers; Makeup artists are too busy-in short, they should have the spirit of "screws"-where they can be used. 7. When the groom picks up the bride, try to stop him (time permits, you can make things difficult for him more). The harsher the questions you ask, the better. If there is no elder to accompany you, let the groom find shoes for the bride (one pair is enough), because when putting shoes on the bride, the happy expression on her face is really touching (maybe this time in my life). bridesmaid

8. After getting off the float, a lot of ribbons will be sprinkled on the newcomers, which should be cleaned up in time. Before the ceremony, check the makeup of the bride again (it's easy to have a makeup artist). Send what the bride needs to the dressing room in time. (Sometimes my parents will do it) 9. Put napkins, cosmetics and diamond rings in a small handbag and go back to prepare the bride for admission. 10. Help the bride lift her wedding dress moderately when entering the venue. It is best to raise the wedding dress and skirt slightly from the side to prevent the bride from tripping. I'm short, so I hardly have to bend over. The tall jm should sacrifice a little spirit at this time, bend his noble waist and do it for the bride even if he feels uncomfortable (no one wants the bride to fall). 1 1. After sending the new person to the stage, the best man and he will automatically retreat to both sides of the stage at any time (it is not good to steal the limelight, it is unnatural for everyone to be a green leaf, so it is better to wait). If the bride is in tears, pass the paper towel and make up her makeup. 12. After the ceremony, it is best to change clothes and make up for the bride as soon as possible, tidy things up (preferably with the help of parents), and it is best to eat something. Be sure to remind newcomers and themselves to go to wc. 13 When toasting, the best man carries the wine and the bridesmaid carries the cigarettes and candy. Remind the bride to meet the man when toasting; Peel sugar when meeting female guests; Give the red envelope to the bridesmaid for safekeeping. 14. Leave it to the best man. When they push a cup for a change, quickly find an acquaintance to send you food (be sure to say hello in advance, but pay attention to eating). When you see what the new couple has eaten that is hard to swallow, hand in a tissue (preferably steamed bread) at the right time. 15. Wait patiently until the end of the party and politely ask, "What else can I do for you?" Then explain the whereabouts of the bride's belongings, the collection and surrender of red envelopes, and say hello and goodbye to the couple's parents with a smile. Pay attention to the inventory before leaving, don't take away the new things, and don't leave your own things behind.

I wish you success ~ ~ ~ The task is arduous ~ ~-