How can I feel less lonely when I am working alone in a first-tier city?

It is true that it is not easy for a person to work hard in a first-tier city alone in a foreign land, especially if he does not have a boyfriend or girlfriend. In the dead of night, he will feel inexplicably homesick or lonely. So, what can we do to fill this loneliness and make ourselves live a happier and more fulfilling life?

1. Participate in local activities

Let me tell you a way to pass the time. You can participate in local activities, that is to say, activities held in the city where you are.

How to participate: Everyone generally has a QQ group, just any one. If not, you can create one yourself, then open the chat dialog box, click on activities, and find the activities closest to you that you are interested in. , the time is displayed on it, then click to register and participate.

I participated once and thought it was pretty good. At that time, I just started working in the society and I didn’t know many people. Traveling alone was not interesting. I accidentally discovered such an activity and took part in it with a lucky heart. Yes, the harvest is not bad.

Through such an activity, I can not only play with them to entertain my body and mind, but also make some friends with similar interests. If I have friends, I will not be lonely in the future. I will play with them whenever I have free time.

2. Attend a hometown gathering

A hometown gathering is a gathering of people from the same hometown. This is often seen in advertisements, and there is also a cross-link, and Specifically, if you feel lonely in other places, you might as well attend this kind of gathering so that you can feel the warmth of your fellow villagers and taste the taste of your hometown.

I have never participated in this, but my classmate has. He told me that an event like the hometown gathering makes him feel that he is no longer alone, and at the gathering, he can speak freely without worrying about saying the wrong thing. talk.

He also told me that he met a girl at a party and later became boyfriend and girlfriend. They came from the same hometown, the same language, and the customs were similar. He just felt that he got a share in the cold. The most precious warmth.

3. Attend training classes that interest you

If you are introverted and you don’t like any of the above, but you like music, then I suggest you attend training classes that interest you. You can find ***Ming's classmates and teachers who have the same hobbies. Even if you don't like to talk, by being with them, you will have many topics to talk about, and you can also improve your own interests and hobbies. When can it be used one day? At the same time, the content of knowledge has also been improved.

These methods are quite good. They can exercise your body and make more friends. Not only will you not feel lonely, but you can also add fun to your life. However, a warm reminder: Girls should be worried and vigilant when participating in the first two activities, because bad guys are everywhere, but don’t be afraid, no one dares to hurt you in public, just don’t trust others too much.