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The troubles in many stages of life are actually for yourself.

We always hope that we can be strong and independent, be a little sun that warms everyone and be a proud example for our parents. But many times, it often backfires.

The harder you try to be a perfect person, the more you expose your shortcomings.

In fact, on the road of growth, you can live better by recognizing yourself!

Don't worry about everything,

It is important not to be tired.

After decades of life, it is inevitable that some people will say right and wrong. People who don't like you, no matter how good you are, they still won't like you; And people who like you, no matter how bad you are, they still like you.

After being said a few words, you will be unhappy for several days. After being scolded loudly, you will feel wronged and want to cry. An unpleasant thing that you can't let go for a long time will only immerse you in depressed emotions.

The past, good or bad, should stay in the past. People always have to move forward, always stand in the same place and recall sad things, which will only make them more and more helpless. A lot of things, don't worry. Let the past go, let yourself go. Life is not easy, why bother to make yourself so tired?

You don't have to be nice to anyone,

Your kindness should be sharp.

People say, "Take a step back, and be calm for a while." . In fact, sometimes, to take a step back and be patient, you can't get the desired results.

We don't have to be kind to those who are unreasonable, narrow-minded, hopeless and haggle over every ounce. Because of your kindness, you will not be appreciated by them at all, and you will even push your luck.

"Give me a peach, give me a plum" should be made for people who understand you. For those who don't understand you, your kindness should be sharp. People respect you one foot, and you respect them ten feet, which is the traditional virtue of China.

You don't have to be perfect,

Accept who you really are

Everyone wants to be a perfect person. However, no one is perfect.

No matter how polite people are, they will also have some small habits that others don't like; No matter how careful you are, you will be negligent. It is difficult for us not to make mistakes all our lives. Life is ups and downs, taking pains and having fun. What's the fun of life if you have to discipline yourself strictly?

Imperfection is the normal state of life. Demanding perfection does not make people really perfect. The only thing we can do is to accept our imperfections. After all, regret is also a part of life.

Life is nothing but three meals a day and four seasons. Giving yourself too much pressure will only make life worse.

Everyone is unique, good or bad is you. Knowing who you really are and accepting your shortcomings will make life better!

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Ji Rumu: A Romantic with a poem in his heart. This article was first published in Baicaoyuan Bookstore. Please reply "Reprint" in the background.

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Haiyun, member of Shandong Recitation Association, director of Qingdao Recitation Association, executive director of Qingdao Recitation Art Center and director of Qingdao Speech and Singing Association.

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Feifei, an amateur photographer

From: Baicaoyuan Bookstore