What are the customs of getting married in Puning?

From the beginning to the wedding, it is said that the day when the family tradition is settled is also called settling down, it is just a formality! On the day of settlement, the woman must be given four pieces of gold. The four pieces of gold purchased (earrings, rings, necklaces, and bracelets) are priced at 1,300 per qian at the current market price. (One qian is equal to 3.125 grams) The minimum cost is more than 8,000. (This article can be saved if the man has only one brother in his family and has little money. However, most people in Chaoshan area have several brothers. The woman’s parents will definitely make such a request for the benefit of their daughter.) In addition, my own ring cost more than 2,000 (already the lowest price, I saved the necklace), both of which are gold prices. 1,000 for dinner at your house at noon that day. The total on the day of settlement is: 10,000 gold money and 1,000 food money = 11,100 yuan. . .

On the day of appointment, the bride price is usually written in writing and sent with you, so just follow the minimum standard of 8888! Bridal clothing 1,200 (the bride will buy the clothes to wear on the wedding day). Red envelopes for the elderly, uncles, and aunts are equivalent to 2,000 each (usually opened by the woman’s family, and then distributed by the woman herself). Generally, 2,000 is enough). The red envelope for the lunch meal is determined according to local customs. If the two families share it equally, it will be 1,000 each, and the man will give 2,000 (no less)! Sugar money: (600 for a 100 kilogram bag of white sugar, and other candy bars cost at least more than 300 kilograms, more than ten yuan per kilogram, equivalent to more than 3,500 (the candy is distributed by the woman’s family to their relatives and friends) ! Total betrothal fee: 8888, clothing 1200, food 2000, candy 4000 = 18088 yuan.

Place eight tables, it depends on your family situation. Go to the hotel to put it on the table at home. You can hire a chef to cook it at home. You have to pay more than 600 yuan for food, cigarettes, and wine to put it on the table! 6 of them are for your relatives, the elderly, and children! . There is no red envelope, and it is usually returned. The two tables are for friends, and the red envelope is 388 per person, and the income is 7760. Haha! Friends all get a pair of classics, a pair of oranges, and some small candies! 20 cartons of cigarettes and candies are equivalent to 2,000! Relatives each get cakes, candies, chickens, and ducks, which are equivalent to about 1,000! Go to KTV and open a private room for friends to sing and have fun, which is equivalent to 3,000 yuan! There are several rooms available for friends from far away to rest, which is equivalent to 500 yuan! Total: 4,800 meals - 7,760 red envelopes and 3,000 3,500 = 3,540 yuan in return! If you don’t invite friends, you will pay 6,000 yuan! ! You can save on the KTV! If you are the eldest child in the family, you can travel and get married. You don’t need to have a drink, so you can save it! The travel wedding only costs about 500 for food and accommodation for two people! /p>

New house: Generally, people in Chaoshan area have their own houses, and they need to do some decoration and buy daily necessities such as wedding beds and electrical appliances, which is equivalent to 20,000 yuan (it can’t be lower anymore)! /p>

The dating period is 6 months from the date of getting married.

Statistics: Settlement date 11100 Offer date 18088 Wedding date 6,000 for wedding room decoration and 5,000 for date consumption! The total is 60,188 yuan.

All the above statistics are made according to the most traditional method in Chaoshan, and one step is indispensable! Of course marrying again is different from marrying two people! There is also 3,000 for wedding photos (this can be saved) and there are other unexpected things that are not included!