Life is a journey with no turning back.

Zhang Yadong's present Weibo is basically his photography works, and occasionally his new music works are exposed. There are few essays, but for a long time, I will send them, hug them and have a good night. This attitude is piety to life, an undercurrent, warm but not inflated. He spent all the money he earned from music on photography. A few years ago, a new book, Parting at First Sight, was published. It was a photo taken and written during a trip.

Fortunately, in an independent bookstore in Beijing, I heard him talk about his mental journey of publishing a book. He feels that driving all the way on the American highway is very open, but he is very sad, because everything you see now may only exist at this moment in your life, but it was gone in the past.

Sitting in the corner of the audience, I feel that he is the kind of person with light. Even if you are dressed in black, your voice is not very loud. You have your own aura and are as warm as jade.

He and Faye Wong are the strange fate of mutual achievement. Some people say that Zhang Yadong was able to show his talents because he knew Faye Wong and got a relaxed creative environment and trust without pressure. It was also said that it was because Faye Wong met Zhang Yadong and created music that was different from the mainstream at that time, full of energy and with a little gloomy electronic style that Wang Fei was reborn and had his own unique temperament. Then, it was difficult all the way, and until today, he is still an indispensable diva in Chinese music.

He also said that they had been dating for several months. When Zhang Yadong first arrived in Beijing at the age of 22, no one appreciated his works. In order to survive, he sang in various bars. At that time, he met Dou Wei of a band. Because of Dou Wei, I met Faye Wong who fell in love with him. Dou Wei was a playboy, which made Faye Wong lose. During this period, it was Zhang Yadong's encouragement that kept Faye Wong alive.

When Faye Wong returned to Beijing, he must have been accompanied by Zhang Yadong. There are also rumors that during the breakup with Dou Wei, Faye Wong fell in love with the new producer, and Zhang Yadong, who looks introverted, often makes Wang Fei laugh. Before long, Faye Wong married Dou Wei and Zhang Yadong married Dou Ying.

Zhang Yadong and Dou Ying got to know each other and fell in love because they helped Dou Wei make an album together. Dou Ying is Dou Wei's sister, and she has a good relationship with Faye Wong. She also formed bands and choirs.

However, her relationship with Zhang Yadong did not last long. After marrying Dou Ying, Zhang Yadong fell in love with Gao Yuanyuan and divorced immediately. Maybe it's personality. Even after the divorce, I still have a good relationship with Dou Yingbao.

At that time, Gao Yuanyuan was in his early twenties, and his favorite song was the lover of a wandering singer. Zhang Yadong, on the other hand, knew all about musical instruments. Guitar, drum set and piano ... learning the staff in three days is a legend. When Gao Yuanyuan went to Cannes for the exhibition, he even said that he would stay with him forever. This five-year relationship itself is anxious to get married.

However, at the beginning of the following year, Zhang Yadong was photographed with Xu, and Gao Yuanyuan broke up by default. But the two separated not because of the intervention of a third party, but because Zhang Yadong, who had two failed marriages, insisted on the principle of non-marriage. Everyone familiar with Gao Yuanyuan knew that she was very filial and traditional.

Even after two years, some reporters still photographed them together. At that time, Gao Yuanyuan was very frank, saying that they would be good friends for life and meet occasionally, but they would never get back together.

The relationship between Zhang Yadong and Xu is also a mystery. Some people say that it is because an acquaintance at a cocktail party, Xu Cainv, expressed her love for Zhang Yadong and brought them together. However, apart from holding hands once, there is no more. We don't know whether this is a friendship or a short-lived relationship.

On the contrary, it was Qu Ying who came into Zhang Yadong's life. After falling in love for more than ten years, Qu Ying occasionally posted a photo of Zhang Yadong playing guitar in Weibo to show her sweetness.

From the beginning to the music field, today, Zhang Yadong not only accompanied his girlfriends along the way, but also pursued music constantly.

From Faye Wong in the beginning, to Long Kuan in the middle period, and now to Chris Lee, the singers he created are not only constantly trying to innovate in music, but also famous for their individuality. He didn't force them to change, but helped them find better self-expression.

I remember Zhang Yadong said that he likes to stay at home alone and wait for McDonald's takeout. Why make music and take photos? Because life can't just lie in bed and wait for death. Recently, I met a master who made handmade leather shoes. I like what he made very much. It has texture, and there won't be the same second pair. ...

Life is a journey without reward. This is not a matter of seizing the day, but also a matter of thinking about the past. It is easy for us to fall into a strange circle. After all, no one in the world can copy another person's life track. All we want is a kind of inner comfort and true love.