Introduction of blind date wechat

1. Many people say "hello" when chatting with blind date, which is not conducive to the later chat progress. In fact, boys can say hello to girls like this, "You just feel a smell coming", and girls will ask "What smell". You can answer "the smell of love" and then start introducing yourself to each other. 2. Chat topics should be greeted humorously. After introducing themselves, many boys will go into a misunderstanding, that is, asking each other questions such as "Have you eaten?" This will only make your chat fall into a question-and-answer mode, so don't chat like this. Some humorous routines can be used to amuse girls, such as "If your ex-boyfriend and current boyfriend fall into the water at the same time, will you be my girlfriend?" . Isn't this much better than Q&A chat mode? 3. Avoid talking about past emotional experiences. Girls are very sensitive. If you confide your dissatisfaction with your previous feelings to each other, then girls will only think that you are stingy, thus reducing their goodwill towards you. So, if you don't mention your previous emotional experience, don't say it. She mentioned it, and you can mention it in a few words. Blind date WeChat chat raiders 2 First, how to chat with blind date? After dating, many boys will be eager to chat with each other and come up and say, "Hello, I'm xxx, who introduced me." You will soon find that the atmosphere of chatting after registration is very embarrassing, and you can't find a suitable topic to chat for a while. Girls may also feel embarrassed and find a reason to quit, so this chat becomes meaningless. When chatting with a blind date, you must be prepared in advance. We can start from the following aspects: 1. Clean up our circle of friends. After adding the girl's WeChat, we will observe her WeChat circle of friends and get a basic understanding. The same is true for girls. Many boys tend to know only girls, and it is easy to ignore things that should be deleted in the circle of friends, such as photos of ex-girlfriends and show love. So be sure to organize your circle of friends in advance before adding girl friends. 2. Have a general understanding of girls. After adding girls' WeChat, the first thing you have to do is to browse each other's circle of friends, so as to get a general understanding of each other's preferences and basic information, such as work/life circles/recent frequent activities/places to play. Then you have a general direction: what can I talk to her about? 3. Still introduce yourself and communicate with girls, such as what name/age/job, etc. You can laugh at yourself and make the other person think you are funny; For example: Hello, my name is xxx, or you can call me Xiao X. I am an IT ape with a high monthly salary and fluctuating face value. Although I look older than my age, I can still be called a piece of bacon. You can praise each other's names appropriately here, and no one will refuse to praise them, so girls will be very willing to continue to associate with you. Second, the chat skills with blind date in the above chat process just let you chat with girls normally to ensure that girls don't hate you. Next, if you want to establish a deeper connection with girls, you need to build attraction in the chat. Here, you need to learn some skills of chatting with blind date. 1. Choosing the right time to chat for the first time usually means exchanging basic information with the blind date and getting to know each other roughly. The next chat is to decide whether we can have a long-term development with girls, because we can't guarantee whether girls have time to chat with us, so according to the dynamics of girls' circle of friends, if the other party just sent one, we can take the opportunity to chat with her. Of course, girls don't necessarily make friends. They can find a relatively leisure time, preferably at 7 or 8 pm. They have plenty of time but leisure, and each has time and a desire to chat. 2, grasp the scale of the chat topic Although the blind date is getting married, don't think that girls just have a crush on you, so don't talk to girls about marriage or complain about their blind date experience. Talking about these in an unfamiliar situation is a sub-item. It should be understood that unless it is clearly defined as a relationship between men and women, the relationship between men and women is still in the stage of relative investigation. Any deviant behavior of yours will become the standard for girls to judge you, so don't take a good size. 3. Chatting topics serve girls. Many fraternities here say that chatting with girls is not to serve her. In fact, many boys here just regard chatting with girls as one thing and stay in the chat itself. This leads you to ask girls to chat, and girls will talk to you if they are interested, and they will not talk to you if they are not interested. It's entirely based on the girl's mood. This is not right. The correct way is to stimulate girls' emotions. The so-called service is to bring emotional enjoyment to girls. On the topic selection, we can start a topic according to the dynamics of girls' circle of friends or what girls like, such as food, photography, hobbies and so on. After girls are interested, they will be willing to chat with you. However, if girls like to chat with you, they need to interact with them in the chat to arouse their interest, for example: female: Yes, you like me. Male: (lead girls to share) Female: xxxx (start talking) Male: I have always been very repulsive. After hearing what you said, why do you feel so delicious? Isn't your words amazing (to arouse girls' emotions) Female: Haha, is it? M: I think there is a roasted durian nearby. Do you want to try it together? Woman: OK. 4. Chatting with girls should be timely, especially when girls are in high spirits. We should understand that in order to build attraction when chatting with girls, when girls are in high spirits, it means that attraction has been formed, and you don't need to continue to find a topic to chat. The correct way is to end the chat as soon as possible or guide the girls to start a topic. Chatting with girls is not satisfying, but wanting more, so that they will look forward to chatting with you next time and even want to see you. Blind date WeChat chat raiders 3 First, the opening remarks of WeChat greetings are your social business cards. Opening remarks are very important in the first chat with the blind date. The quality of opening remarks will directly affect your next chat, so it is necessary to master some opening remarks skills in WeChat chat. In the world of love, routines are not a long-term solution after all. Only the real release value attracts girls, so the determined relationship is the real sea dried up and the rocks crumbled. I have read a book "Picking up Girls" before-the story of Gong Bei's attack. Basically, I watch it whenever I have time, and then I go to a strange place for an internship with my sister. There are more than a hundred girls who have been dating. Now that I am married, I can't be so rough. If there are still brothers who haven't taken off the bill, I suggest you have a look. If you check online, it will be free. It's only a matter of minutes to take off the bill. 1, a boy who pays attention to details can't be wrong in the eyes of girls. You can find details from the girl's WeChat avatar, WeChat nickname, personalized signature, circle of friends and so on. And then start the topic from the details. For example, the girl's nickname on WeChat is "Flying Fish", and you can say the opening words: "Do you particularly like to eat fish, so it's called Flying Fish Cute". For example, girls' circle of friends often basks in pets. You can directly say, "Girls who like pets are very caring." Of course, everyone should be specific according to the specific situation. In short, some details can be used as the opening remarks. 2, praise the details of women is a vain creature, everyone wants to be praised and recognized by others, we know the psychological characteristics of women, we can use praise for girls as the opening remarks, of course, praise is not perfunctory and exaggerated, we must seize the details to praise, praise girls to the hearts of girls. Details can be found from girls' hairstyles, makeup, clothes, accessories, hobbies and so on. Praise for details will be sincere. For example, you can say hello to a girl like this: "Your earrings match your hairstyle and make you look small." Such praise for details will give girls a different feeling. 3. Cold reading is a term in psychology. Simply put, it is to replace interrogative sentences with declarative sentences. Many boys often take pains to ask questions when chatting, which really makes girls have no desire to chat. Then we can use the skills of cold reading to get rid of the label of low emotional intelligence and have a deep resonance with girls. The sentence pattern of cold reading is generally like this: although … but … although you are a lovely girl on the surface, there is a woman's heart in your heart. Second, the chat content chat content is how to find a topic. The prologue is just chatting with girls, and the core of chatting lies in the content of chatting. The key depends on how you find a topic, how to talk about interesting feelings through the topic, and how to connect the topic with two people. After two people are familiar with each other, they must learn to talk about the topic with ambiguous feelings. The steps to determine the relationship between two people are: stranger-friend stage-ambiguous stage-dating stage-love stage. Chatting with blind date is also such a step. Just after adding the blind date WeChat, I have a basic understanding with the other party first, and then lead the topic to the ambiguous stage step by step. You can find topics from hobbies, clothes, travel, food, work, childhood, pets, TV movies, current fashion and so on. The topic is best humorous and interesting, focusing on attracting each other in the early stage, enhancing ambiguity in the middle stage, and inviting people to meet later. Let's look at the following chat record: M: "I just went on a business trip and passed by the coffee shop where we dated last time, and I remembered our first date." (Opening the topic) Female: "You remember it so clearly" Male: "Haha, I remember that your face turned red with shyness" (recalling details) Female: "Haha, it's not the first time you have been nervous about dating" Male: "If I put it aside now, I really want to pinch your red face" (upgrading the relationship) Female: "I will pay the price if I pinch you" Male. Continue to try to improve the relationship) Female: "No, I didn't." Man: "I know a restaurant that makes Sichuan food. The food is very authentic. Don't you like spicy food? I'll take you to try it one day. " Woman: "Really?" I'm a little greedy. "Man:" That's settled, you greedy little cat "(confirmation date)