This method can help you attract handsome guys.

This method can help you attract handsome guys!

First of all, when we approach a boy, we must have the psychological expectation of "not falling in love together". For example, when we see a handsome guy who puts himself on top, some girls' first reaction is to get rid of him. If they can't get him, they will try their best to get him. If they can't get him, they will quietly hide it in their hearts, even as Bai Yueguang boys.

In fact, these so-called handsome guys can bring you more value than that. "Handsome boy" and "beautiful girl" have certain social use value. Suppose you have a crush on a handsome guy, you just confess. At this time, the feedback you get is nothing more than success-falling in love or failure-you can't put it together, so you can only continue to play with yourself.

However, if you approach him with the right attitude to make friends from the beginning, the battle line between the two of you to show your true self will become longer, and you may learn more about the thinking mode of so-called high-value men in this society from his perspective. Through the circle of high-value men similar to him, and even by becoming friends with him, he inspires other men's competitiveness with his handsome and excellent qualities.

For specific reference, some men like to seduce other beautiful women by calling some beautiful women out to play. Or re-examine yourself and your feelings from the observer's point of view and form a new cognition of yourself. So what should I do if I like a handsome guy? I summarized three methods for your reference.

The stupidest thing to do is to go up and confess immediately, and the probability of being rejected is very high. After that, I couldn't let it go, and I couldn't catch up. Every day, I treat each other as Bai Yueguang to add drama to myself. Don't study hard in class, do your homework, deify each other, think about why they don't like you, and so on. Because of your extreme internal friction and slow growth.

The smart thing is to go up and confess, succeed together, and put it down immediately if you don't succeed. It's not too much for a girl who can do what she should do. It's good to be able to let go without being hurt.

The smartest thing to do is to spend some spare time to get close to him, get to know him, listen to him, understand his shallow values, silently become a habitual existence, and infinitely increase the exposure in front of him but just don't confess. Let him take off his guard and disguise for you, and then examine him.

The kind with good character can become good friends and arouse the envy of other hidden male suitors, while the kind with bad character should be regarded as understanding negative materials and teaching yourself a lesson. The kind of retreat that you feel almost abandoned when your character is corrupted, the kind that you are eager to wait for him to confess, the kind that you are cold to you, please accumulate some points yourself and slowly douse the seeds of love.

In this process, learn to treat men's colors with a correct attitude, and don't be an anthomaniac who can't walk by looking at his face and muscles. If there are so-called handsome guys who are both inside and outside at this stage to make you feel in love, this time it is worth your coquetry and warmth. And these operations have more growth value and possibility than you directly confess coquetry and refuse in one breath.

As for other people's hints: grabbing skirts, rustic love stories, physical contact, baking cookies, believe me, these things are oily and difficult for you to control. Including tea art, delicate and touching coquetry and weakness, boys don't like tea art as much as you think, and the better green tea, the more boys watch it.

Whether you are a royal elder sister or Otome, lively or weak. Boys always like to know how to advance and retreat, know how to be polite, and have a woman who is self-aware, self-sustaining, appropriately restricted and constantly improving herself. In fact, if you ask him out in your spare time, smile more, guide him to talk, and be as natural and graceful as a friend.

Let's talk about how to chat with a boy and treat him as an ordinary friend. First of all, you should locate your relationship and what stage your relationship is in. If you are really just ordinary friends, then you should grasp your own scale, and you should also look at each other's chat style. If they are lukewarm, then you can't attack too hard. If people are humorous and cheerful hip-hop type, then you can just chat with them.

Generally speaking, the first one is more difficult to talk about and tease, but if we really talk deeply, people's sincerity will be greater than the second one. Because he is like this to everyone, he has a sense of boundaries in interpersonal relationships, and no one really opens his heart.

You can expand the scope of your chat, you can think more about what he is interested in, you can also think about the people or experiences you have contacted, regard the protagonist of the chat as him, and learn to arouse his desire to chat. Don't take the protagonist of the chat as yourself. When the relationship is not so good, you always talk about your own affairs.

Chatting is not the end. Chatting is to get to know each other better and give you a process of getting to know each other. At the same time, it is also the process for the other party to get to know you, so it is very important to show your value and talent and attract the other party.