Are there big and small orders for engagement in Wenzhou?

Make a small order first to let everyone know that you two are already getting married. The ceremony is very simple, that is, the parents of both sides have dinner with several close relatives, and the man gives the woman a red envelope (usually 20 thousand). Then place a big order, usually a few months before marriage. In addition to giving candy to relatives and friends, you also need to hold a banquet. When getting married, some Wenzhou people put the big order and marriage together closely, so they are divided. In view of the fact that many young people don't understand the present situation of engagement and marriage in Wenzhou (downtown), we will introduce them to you according to the preparations before engagement and the situation on the wedding day: engagement: 1: Parents of both parties attend the banquet to negotiate engagement matters, mainly to determine the amount of the yellow calendar and the man's dowry. The amount of the gift depends on the family conditions of both parties. If both parties are ordinary families (ordinary families here mean that the annual income of both parties is about 654.38+10,000 RMB), the current standard is about 88888- 10.8 million RMB. There must be a long time before the engagement date. In the meantime, it is necessary to get what they need for their engagement. Let's talk about what the man gave the woman first. A set of gold ornaments includes earrings, bracelets, anklets, necklaces, a pair of rings and a diamond ring (the price of a diamond ring is about 15000). In fact, you can also go to the goldsmith shop to buy a bare diamond and choose your favorite style to make it. The price varies greatly, which can save about 35%. Note: If you ask your parents first, some parents like to buy 24K pure gold, thinking that it can preserve the value, but young people don't like it. Wenzhou wedding candy has different sizes. The man is responsible for all the wedding candy the woman needs, including the red envelope in the wedding candy, except some friends of her parents. (At present, the 50- 100 red envelope is given by the woman, depending on the conditions of both parties and the number of wedding candy). What the woman wants to buy is a suit, two shirts, two ties, two pairs of shoes (one pair of casual shoes), two sets of casual clothes, a dozen socks, a gold bracelet, a necklace (if the red envelope for the best man is less than 580, you need to buy another shirt for the best man), and a set of dishes has 88 pieces, 98 pieces, 108 pieces to choose from. Then return the candied apricots sent by the man to the man, and the money received will be returned according to the economic conditions. If the woman's condition is generally 88888, it will be returned to the man, ranging from 38888 to 58888. The rest of the money will be used to buy things for the man and buy a new house later. If the woman's conditions are good, she will accept all the gifts and buy a car for the man. 3. Engagement Day: Wenzhou people now have two kinds of engagement parties. One is a banquet at the woman's house at noon, attended by the man's parents and best man, and the man invites the woman back at night. The other is that both parents and close relatives and friends hold a banquet in the hotel to get engaged. Generally, there are more people who choose the latter in urban areas. In the afternoon, the man drove to the woman's house to meet her and her parents, and gave the woman's brother or sister suitcase money (suitcase money means that the woman's brother or sister won't leave until she lets her sister get married, and he won't let people go until you give him money, which is the explanation of the older generation. ) The suitcase is about 5800- 10800. After arriving at the hotel, give tea to both parents and toast to friends and relatives to witness your love. In a word, engagement requires both parties' wishes, savings and time.