Boredom is a person's terminal illness.

Oscar Wilde once said, "People are neither good nor bad, and they are either interesting or boring."

We have also been brainwashed by various "interesting souls". It seems that life is not cute enough without being an "interesting" person.

But who can judge what is "interesting" and what is "boring"?

Give the child a toy he likes, and he can enjoy playing all day. Adults are bored to death, and so are children?

No, for a child, there is a big world hidden in his toys. Don't you understand that he will mind?

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Boredom is the norm? ?

Whether studying or working, what you do every day is actually very different, and the timetable gradually stipulates what to do and what not to do for almost everyone.

So, time is long. Contact with old friends has become:

"What happened?"

"That's it! Very boring! "

A boring sentence seems to sum up all the experiences!

In fact, boredom is the norm. That's all you think you see in others.

The key is whether you play games or watch.

Many people want to be a unique person with an interesting soul and beautiful skin.

As Ma Weiwei said, "You want to make different fireworks in the crowd, and you find that the firecrackers on the ground are harder than you!"

Actually, everyone is unique. It's not boring to concentrate on what you do!

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"Fun" for "fun" is actually embarrassing.

Many introverts in life will be labeled as "boring" and "boring".

There are many comments from friends and relatives in the air.

"Your personality has to be changed, otherwise how can you integrate into society in the future?"

"Don't be too introverted, talk to others more."

Those who listen to these words are half weak and half strong.

Sensitive people can be strange. In order to make your personality become so-called "extroverted".

However, it is really strange to change it too deliberately. Just like a child stealing an adult's high heels.

They said things they wouldn't normally say and made inappropriate jokes, and the atmosphere became awkward for a while.

In fact, no matter what kind of personality, there is no need to lose yourself in order to adapt to others.

There's no need to mess around. Show your humor.

I remember watching a program once. In order to attract people's attention, a person asked everyone on the field again, but no one responded to him. The scene was very embarrassing.

That's not humor, that's embarrassment.

There is no need to be "interesting" for the sake of "interesting", but to enjoy boring time. Make everything beautiful.

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Enjoy boredom

Many people are very strange now. Going out for a walk is boring, going to the movies is boring, going to work is boring, a group of people is boring, and a person is boring!

You ask them, what is not boring?

They can't say why, but they are bored.

In fact, life is plain and simple, and the reason why it is colorful is only because we try our best to make ordinary life no longer ordinary.

We have heard that "life needs a sense of ceremony", but in fact, "sense of ceremony" is the embodiment of "fun"!

Once in a psychology class, the teacher asked, "What kind of opposite sex do you like?"

Kindness, sincerity, openness, generosity, loveliness, beauty and filial piety are common answers.

Indeed, people with excellent quality are of course liked by everyone.

At that time, only one girl stood up and said, "I like interesting people."

The teacher continued to ask her: "How can you be an interesting person? How do you understand? "

She said, "I just love life very much, and I can make ordinary things vivid and no longer ordinary."

In fact, this is a broad explanation of "sense of ceremony".

How can such a life be boring if you have your own attitude towards life?

We have seen too many foodies who have traveled all over the block for a delicious meal, photographers who have traveled all over the country for a few photos, fans who have saved their living expenses for their favorite star concerts for several months, and students who have worked hard for the schools they want to go to!

Those who live hard, those who work hard to do what they like, they are not bored at all!

Instead, it exudes vitality!

Therefore, it is better to get rid of the negative energy of "boredom" and look forward to everything.

Believe in the existence of beauty, can stir up a ripple in a quiet life!

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