What do you mean by boarding ceremony and disembarking ceremony?

Getting on and off is a local wedding custom. When the groom greets the bride, he should give the bride a red envelope before getting on the bus. They are all auspicious numbers, such as 66,88, 10 1 0,000 and so on. The ceremony of getting off the bus is that after the bride receives the groom, the groom gives the bride a red envelope before getting off the bus.

Marriage custom is the etiquette of marriage. In ancient China, there was a saying of "Six Rites", and now some areas also have this custom. Six gifts are accepting gifts, asking names, accepting gifts, accepting gifts, inviting parties and welcoming guests.

In fact, the wedding customs agreed by people in various regions are not completely restricted by these six kinds of gifts. It simplifies the process of blind date and engagement, such as the date of invitation (wedding date agreement) merged into Najib (gift engagement).

But more attention is paid to the ritual process of tying the knot (the bride and groom drink a glass of wine), making trouble in the bridal chamber and "returning to the door" after marriage.

Preparations before the wedding

1. Bride's gift: Before getting married, the man should send the bride price to the woman's house. There are different kinds of gifts in every place: Guangdong custom gives live chickens, coconuts, wedding cakes and gifts. Chicken symbolizes vitality, while coconut symbolizes old and young, enjoying family happiness. The wedding cake is used to let the woman send her relatives, and the gift money symbolizes that the bride can enjoy happiness when she gets married, thus reassuring her family.

2. Reward: The woman who receives the betrothal gift should return a gift. In some places, the woman's family will send an engagement ring, and in some places, she will send betel nuts, which means "Ichiro is in the end".

3. Bed: The night before the wedding, a man with a harmonious family, his parents and a son of the woman's family will install a wedding bed in the wedding room, and then spread walnuts, lotus seeds, red dates and peanuts on the new bed.

4. Dowry: The bride's family will prepare a dowry for the bride to take to her husband's family, and all the dowry will be put in a red box and given to the bride.

5. Above: The night before the wedding, choose an auspicious time to worship God, in order to be safe and happy, and the man should also worship God at his own home at the same time.

6. Comb your hair: When the bride dresses up, she will ask a blessed elder to comb her hair, which means it is similar to sleeping in bed.

7. Eat glutinous rice balls: glutinous rice balls mean a happy reunion and wish the couple a successful marriage.