Do you know how to flirt with young women?

Today, I am committed to the real female literary youth, and I like the skin of "female literary youth". This kind of girl's love is not "literature and art" itself, but the bonus attribute brought by buff's literary hobby. They will fiddle with photos of concerts and plays in their circle of friends, or go to Tibet to "purify their souls" and know nothing about Buddhism. Their love for literature and art all comes from the praise of their circle of friends and the title of "goddess of literature and art", and the hacked "young women in literature and art" group refers to such people.

However, some of these girls are not ugly, but also have artistic temperament, and it is very difficult to flirt with them-fundamentally speaking, they are not "literary lovers" but "poseurs", or you have a strong poseur attribute: why so many pseudo-literary youths are willing to sleep with poor and poor wandering singers or youth travel bosses, you will know and create a compelling one for yourself.

Or, you can pretend to be better than her in your speech! Shelley Camus Heidegger, Cezanne Monet cassatt, you can also successfully win the philosophy of life from poems and songs (when talking about names, pick out little-known minorities, pseudo-intellectuals generally have never heard of these names).

In short, it is not difficult to deal with such girls, and it is relatively easy to pretend to be forced in front of them. Even if you make up a lot of stories, as long as you look good, they don't quite understand them.

In fact, the pseudo-Wen Qing is very open-there is a saying that you think you slept with a woman Wen Qing, but in fact that woman Wen Qing slept with you, and she is talking about that kind of girl. As for whether she wants to "sleep with you", it depends on whether you can force her to make friends.

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Real female Wen Qing

What is the point that my uncle has been emphasizing? If you want to seduce, you must seduce a girl with high quality, high knowledge and high education! Most true female literary youths meet this standard.

Female Wen Qing usually comes from a relatively good family background. Have you ever seen a bunch of women Wen Qing coming out of the family where their elder sister raised their younger brother in rural areas or small counties? Girls from that family won't be thrown into the hospital trash can, so it's good to have read a book. Families that can raise their daughters to be literate generally have a certain cultural background (at least respect for culture), love their daughters, and the economic conditions are not too bad (otherwise, how could they afford a piano for their daughters in the last century? )。

The pattern of female literary youth is often larger than that of "non-female literary youth", so they can better understand such things as "feelings". Ordinary girls have only Korean dramas with beautiful constellations in the world, and a good education received by female Wen Qing will make them understand things beyond these "eyes", which is what my uncle often calls "poetry and distance". Don't you need a partner with a bigger pattern if you want to be a man with a bigger pattern? Of course, there are also beautiful Korean dramas in women's world, just like high-quality men can play games. The key lies in their different proportions and meanings.

You can get a better experience by getting along with female Wen Qing. In a long-term relationship, "boredom" is a terrible thing, but young artists are inherently sensitive and poetic, which can maximize the freshness from boring life and give you more emotional value-just look at the love poems written by young artists from ancient times to the present.

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Classification of young women in literature and art

Consumption type: their fascination with literature and art stays in the perceptual "consumption" stage. They shed tears for a movie because it tells her story, and they were moved by a character because they saw their own shadow from this character, and their own emotions were pinned on literary works, so they "looked at other people's stories and shed their own tears".

The difference between them and criminals who pretend to be forced is that they really have a certain appreciation ability, really understand, and are not easy to fool.

Appreciative: They are also moved by literary and artistic works. The difference between them and the "consumer" women is that they have risen from sensibility to rationality, from "seeing themselves" to "seeing all beings" and "seeing the world". Compared with "consumer" women, their gap lies in a lot of knowledge accumulation and systematic training.

In a word, the consumption of female Wen Qing's views on literary works can usually only touch her, while the appreciation of female Wen Qing can already touch others-just like this, female Wen Qing at this level can often make money by writing film reviews.

Creativity: It is not that writing a short article at home is creative, but that the works of truly creative women will be accepted by the public and recognized by the market. This kind of girl already belongs to the top of the pyramid, which is extremely rare compared with the first two. They have their own independent and complete values and feelings, and also have certain creative ability and skills. For them, talent and accumulation are indispensable, and their works will be appreciated by discerning women and sought after by consumer women.

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Three main points of teasing female literary youth

Feel the sound of * * *:

Feeling and emotional value are the "required questions" for picking up girls, and the difficulty of this question will increase when facing female Wen Qing-the feeling that female Wen Qing wants is concentrated in * * *.

In addition to the real world, female Wen Qing often has a very beautiful spiritual world, which is isolated from most people. What you have to do is to explore through her hobbies (favorite books, movies, artistic styles, etc.) and enter her spiritual world. ) and exchange ideas and emotions with her.

However, once you satisfy her feelings, even if you have some shortcomings in other hard values, they usually don't care too much-are there too few examples of uncles with height 165 relying on poetry and picking up girls from afar to make up for their lack of height with emotional values?

Economic license:

Do you need an economic base to seduce a woman? Sure! Literary girls are not out of touch!

On the contrary, the biggest gap between female Wen Qing and ordinary girls lies in "vision" and "pattern", both of which need time and money to cultivate, as well as many elegant hobbies of female Wen Qing (painting, photography, musical instruments, etc. ) also needs a lot of material support.

Many people think that women's literacy does not have a high demand for material things. It is true that many women Wen Qing are not too obsessed with material things compared with the spirit, but the fact is that the spiritual world also needs economic conditions as a support-your girl wants to see a play, and you can pay for a week's meal as long as you check the ticket price.

Fortunately, women's family conditions are usually not too bad, and most of them do not lack the ability to make money (just write a film review to exchange money). Compared with the spirit, their requirements for men's economic conditions are not harsh, and basic viability is enough.

Three views fit:

I believe everyone knows the importance of the three views. However, many people themselves do not have three views. Their three views are basically consistent with the mainstream public opinion and the education they received as children. They never thought about why they were like this.

However, female Wen Qing must have three views.

The so-called "three views" means that you reach an agreement on big ideas, understand each other in character, respect each other in hobbies and tolerate each other in small differences. Unfortunately, most diaosi can't talk about "having three views" at all, and girls certainly can't adapt to things that don't exist.

Cultivate your own three views and know how to respect your sister's three views, and you will naturally blend in.