What have you learned recently?

Recently, I came into contact with some family members and things during my holiday, which made me understand some truths that I can't learn from books. If I hadn't experienced it personally, I might never have realized it, or even settled down to think and reflect.

1. Never try to imagine that you can successfully persuade others to do something, or completely change others' views or ideas. Because those who try their best to convince others from the perspective of others can only be in vain and can only be regarded as self-moving. What others should be depressed about is to continue to be depressed, which goes in one ear and out the other. After all, they are neither senior scholars nor experts, and they have no time to experience it at the same time. No wonder people never listen, just say "be a simple person, don't cross others."

2. People's heart and stomach are separated, so it is indispensable to harm people's air defense. A seemingly good friend, in fact, I don't know how many knives have been inserted in his back, so don't use his success to change the views of people who don't like you. This example is that after several months of hard work, I successfully went to school and landed. Because I have only a handful of hair bands, I simply made a circle of friends. To tell the truth, I also want to prove to others that I also have two brushes. As a result, it is conceivable that people who seem to be friends often praise your friends, but when they have better conditions and abilities than them, there is no praise or comment, and then the circle of friends simply blocks themselves. It can be seen that people who don't like you will not change no matter what you do. Life is your own, and how you live it is your own business. Your sincerity and kindness are only worth giving to those who understand you and know you. Even if you do nothing, they will still like you.

Everything happens for a reason. It wants you to learn and understand something. At the same time, the influence of these things is not the event itself, but how you look at it. It will give you feedback, which is equivalent to the "echo effect". For example, if you lose something important, it may want you to let go of some people and things, put down some obsessions, and pack up your mood before you go. Seriously, once life begins to take the place of everything that will make you learn, you will magically find that many things that have happened are nothing, and your psychological endurance will become stronger day by day. I believe this will pass, who is afraid of who!