Mother's "lies"

"This is a very touching story: after school, the child bounced home, solemnly handed a letter to his mother and told him," The teacher only lets his mother read it! "Mother took the letter in bewilderment, opened it, watched it, and burst into tears. When the child saw it, he was puzzled and asked, "Mom, what did the teacher say? "Mother wiped her tears and choked up and said," The teacher said, madam, your child is a genius. This school is too small for anyone to teach him. Please be clever. "After hearing this, the child was extremely happy. A loving mother saved a child's face with a white lie, showing her love and respect for the child.

many years later, the child invented the phonograph, movie camera, electric light and so on, as his mother said. He made more than 2, inventions and held more than 1, patents in his life. He made great contributions to the society, so he was awarded the ninth place of "1 people who influenced America" in the authoritative American journal Atlantic Moon. He is the world-famous Thomas Alva Edison.

After his mother died, his son came across this letter while sorting out his mother's belongings. The familiar envelope aroused his curiosity. He carefully opened the envelope and unfolded the stationery, only to see that it said: Your child has mental retardation, so he can't stay in school, so he can only drop out. Seeing this, Edison burst into tears and sobbed, and wrote: Edison was a child with mental retardation, but his mother turned him into a genius.

No kiss is the driving force of the world, and its greatness is unparalleled. Especially in educating children, mothers are the first life mentors. Coincidentally, one day, a middle-aged black taxi driver picked up a white mother and son. When the child saw that the driver's face was dark and different from his own, he was puzzled and asked his mother, "Why is the driver's skin different from ours? "Mother replied kindly," God created people of different colors in order to make the world colorful. "At the destination, the black driver resolutely refused to accept money and said gratefully," When I was a child, I asked my mother the same question, but my mother said, "We are black, and we are born to be inferior. If she changed to your answer, I might be different today. "This is no longer" one sentence makes people laugh, one sentence makes people jump ",but one sentence" makes a person, one sentence destroys a person ".

A mother's greatness lies not in her life, but in her instinct. It lies in education, and education is a skill, which is extraordinary. Meng Mu's immortal fame and household name is precisely due to his extraordinary "education" ability.

this post is very educated after reading, yes! The hand that shakes the cradle can shake the whole world. This is mother!

My mother's "lies" is a short article I read on the Internet. I met all kinds of parents when I resumed classes these two days. I heard some mother's "lies" rather than some wonderful flowers. Of course, the "lies" I met were essentially different from the "lies" in this article.

In the following passage, Edison's loving mother saved a child's face with a white lie, showing her love and respect for the child. It also changed Edison from "a child with mental retardation" in the teacher's mouth to a "genius". A white mother used image metaphor to guide her children to respect black drivers, touched others and educated her children.

There is also the "Three Movements to Meng Mu" mentioned in the text. Meng Mu moved three times for the sake of her son's growing environment, just to meet better neighbors, because she deeply understands the influence of the environment on her children.

I thought of this story not only because I met too many incomprehensible parents at work, but also because of an incident I met today.

Today, when I went to buy food after work, the vegetable supermarket was packed as usual during the rush hour. All the food racks and checkout counters were dark, and even the corridor in the middle of the food racks was filled with people serving food and walking.

In such a crowded and chaotic place, I saw two children, the older one was a boy, the younger one was a girl, about three or four years old. The two children were chasing after each other in the crowded shopping crowd, and no one asked, and the children were running around screaming. Suddenly, the little girl was put on the cart for serving food. Fortunately, the big sister who pushed the vegetables came to a sudden stop with her eyes moving quickly, and the little girl

After such a thing happened, the elder sister and little girl serving food, as well as the people who were picking vegetables around, obviously everyone was frightened. In a flash, the vegetable supermarket showed an abnormal silence, followed by a scream from the child, followed by a big cry, followed by everyone's exclamation and inquiry. After the accident, someone rushed over to pick up the child and asked loudly whose child it was, but no one said a word. Only the little boy looked at the little girl with a surprised face and shouted "Mom".

It took a long time before a woman in her thirties came out of the crowd. She looked depressed, didn't rush to the child as I expected, but immediately turned into a bitch, grabbed the elder sister who pushed the food and cursed.

foul-mouthed, unsightly, saying that you are blind? How to push the car? I talked a lot until someone in the crowd said, "Don't curse first, let's see if the child is well?" Only when a woman wakes up like a dream, she rushes to the child, picks up the child and looks at it. When she sees nothing serious, she leaves swearing.

I was shocked by this incident. The mother took her child to this place where she shouldn't have come, leaving her child running around and not worrying about what happened to her child. It is incredible to find fault with others regardless of the willy-nilly.

Some people say that behind every Xiong Haizi, there are a lot of bear parents. It's true. An inactive mother only loses her children.

I once met a parent. Every time I called her, she couldn't answer the phone in time, return the phone, and WeChat didn't return it. But when the exam comes, she will put all the responsibility on the teacher.

I remember that her children's homework was never uploaded during the online class. After I had a lot of trouble, she finally answered my WeChat voice. As soon as I started talking about the children's homework, she said that I was in the countryside with my children, and there was no internet, so I couldn't upload my homework.

I had to say, "Then upload it at your convenience."

just after saying this sentence, I suddenly remembered that we were making a smooth voice call, how could there be no internet? Just remind her: "We are WeChat voice, which seems to be quite smooth." (Well, I admit my directness and exposed a person's mother's lie to her face.) She added, "I'm in the countryside, and my children are in the city, so I can't upload my homework."

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To be honest, I really can't listen to it anymore. It is true that "one lie needs countless lies to make it round".

I just feel sad for my child. Should I give up or give up?

Mother is the first teacher in life. What kind of mother there is, what kind of life there is for children. This is the most profound feeling I have gained from teaching in recent years. A mother who is full of lies and overbearing and powerful can't cultivate an educated and excellent child.