Ni Hongjie, who has been criticized by Chen Kaige many times, still looks like a "silly elder sister" at the age of 43.

After taking part in Actor in Place, Ni Hongjie got the promotion card and was eliminated.

She also didn't care, twist a head to say talk show, careless poking fun at yourself on the stage, said:

"On the day I left Actor in Place, the director took my hand and cried and said, Sister, what about our ratings when you left? Who else can offend everyone! "

Then, Ni Hongjie continued to perform with exaggerated expressions: "I asked the director strangely, huh?" Did I offend anyone on the show? "

Just as everyone was laughing, she added a joke: "If life slaps you, then I will give you a pair of scissors and win." When he speaks, he compares himself to a scissorhand.

In this performance, it's hard to see Ni Hongjie's 40-year-old shadow. If you wear a 20-year-old shell, it may not destroy the peace.

People who don't know Ni Hongjie may think that this woman is a bit exaggerated. People in their forties are not sad to be eliminated, and they don't know if they have won a crime, so they have no pity since the blackout.

Ruthless to this extent? Isn't it a deliberate performance?

However, if you look at Ni Hongjie's 20-year career, you will find that she is indeed like this. In the entertainment circle such as Gong Dou Opera House, Ni Hongjie is a unique "wonderful flower".

1997 One day, Ni Hongjie, a sophomore, and her companions went to audition for an advertisement. Unexpectedly, Ni Hongjie was selected successfully because of her beautiful appearance.

Ni Hongjie grew up in a traditional family, and she never wanted to take the road of entertainment.

However, fate is sometimes so funny. The harder you fight, the less you get. You didn't expect it. It hit you right on the head.

This is the case with Ni Hongjie, who made an advertisement. After several group performances, once the person in charge of the group performance saw her and quietly said to her, "Your phone number belongs to me alone. Don't give it to others. You can only call me if you have anything in the future."

Soon, the turning point of Ni Hongjie suddenly came.

The team leader helped Ni Hongjie match an advertisement. Ni Hongjie hesitated when he learned that the advertisement was to model for Mei Ting brand.

On the same day in the studio, Ni Hongjie saw one tall and beautiful woman after another, walking around without scruple, and Ni Hongjie's eyes widened. This scene made her wonder for the first time whether she thought it was too complicated. In fact, it was just an advertisement.

After ideological struggle, Ni Hongjie finally accepted the list. However, it was not until the broadcast that she knew how she appeared in front of the national audience.

At that time, the social atmosphere was not so open. When Ni Hongjie appeared frequently on TV in Mei Ting, Ni Hongjie didn't expect that such advertisements brought her the opportunity to become an actress, but also brought her confidence and pain for 20 years. Until now, she even shed tears when she mentioned it.

At that time, as long as there was an advertisement for her wearing underwear on TV, the whole family would fall silent at the dinner table. No one looked at it, no one talked about it, and even they never asked it.

This deliberate avoidance made Ni Hongjie feel very hurt, and the whole person didn't know what to do, which seriously damaged his self-confidence.

Then, in this hazy growth, Ni Hongjie was admitted to the information management major of Tongji University.

At that time, even though she became famous, Ni Hongjie never considered a career as an actress. In her own words, "I have no such thing as an ideal in my mind, and I don't know where my hobbies are." I don't have a firm goal of being an actor, and I can't figure out what I want to do. "

Ignorant adolescence made Ni Hongjie miss a good opportunity to exercise.

Just imagine, if her family had given her some positive feedback, maybe the development of Ni Hongjie would be much better than now.

But although she was hurt emotionally, Ni Hongjie never regretted her choice. She is a person who lives in the present. In other words, as long as I am happy now, nothing else matters.

Such a character makes Ni Hongjie always unable to grasp good opportunities again and again.

For example, when I was in college, many people still followed the advertisement of "being a good woman" and asked her to film. But she doesn't cherish every role and every job. She thinks very shallowly. Most of the reasons are that you need to earn some money because of lack of money, or you just want to shoot a drama during this time to relax.

Even during that time, the more she filmed, the more she felt that this line was not suitable for her, for the simple reason. She is unhappy.

She can't figure out why a person can become another person in front of the camera. She clearly knew what kind of person this person was in private, but when she got to the camera, she cried and smiled as soon as the phone was connected.

She can't understand and adapt, which makes her out of place on the set. So she never lets her family visit her class.

Once my mother came without telling me in advance. Ni Hongjie was so nervous that he couldn't speak his lines clearly. She felt that her mother must feel fake when she saw herself like this.

It was not until more than ten years later that she finally realized that she was really naive. If she can switch moods so easily, that's a real cow.

But she really won't. Can't hide, can't pretend. One equals one, and two equals two.

If there was someone like her in Gong Dou's plays, the first episode would probably be a cannon fodder box lunch.

Ni Hongjie is a person who "can't take on great responsibilities". In 2005, a phenomenal TV series "Legend of Wulin" was born.

The film quickly spread all over the country and became a drama for many people.

The Legend of Wulin has won the popularity of Yan Ni, Sha Yi, Sebrina and especially Sebrina, and seized the opportunity in time to take over many high-quality film and television works such as Latent. Because she is good at managing Weibo, she is also known as Queen Weibo, and her career is getting more and more prosperous.

It is such a drama that Zhu, who was originally only a small role, has also been welcomed by many people. If she follows the wind, she will make more movies and make more appearances, which may be promising.

But she won't. While others were eager to take advantage of the heat from the explosion, Ni Hongjie did the opposite and actually quit the circle.

Why did she go after retirement?

Ni Hongjie went to Yunnan and Tibet, where he felt the sunshine, grassland and bluestone road.

She enjoys life willfully.

Then on impulse, I opened an inn in Yunnan and raised cats and dogs.

Many people shout "live in the present", and Ni Hongjie is the one who thoroughly implements this slogan.

However, ideal is one thing, and reality is another. She thinks opening an inn in Yunnan is romantic, lazy and comfortable.

But in fact, she repairs the toilet and TV set countless times every day.

Besides, check-in and check-out are boring.

These days lasted for some time, and Ni Hongjie finally realized that he couldn't go on like this.

20 13. She is back in the public eye.

For the stagnation of these years, someone has been asking her why she stopped at that time. No regrets?

Ni Hongjie simply explained: I just don't want to play, and I don't want to be popular.

One more thing, Ni Hongjie is not going to continue to go up after filming The Legend of Wulin. If a blockbuster or a drama had fallen on her, she might not have been able to bear it.

Let's lower our self-requirements, live such a plain life, and let Ni Hongjie feel the rare freedom of this era. Yes, she's free. Nobody cares about her. However, the negative is also obvious.

When 20 13 came back, she had already been left behind by the rapidly changing entertainment circle.

At the age of 35, Ni Hongjie finally realized that he wanted to be a real actor.

On 20 10, Ni Hongjie filmed the film "Blue Bones" directed by Cui Jian, which was her first role. It is this drama that completely inspired Ni Hongjie's enterprising spirit. For the first time in filming, she thought I could do it so well.

In one scene, after his son was robbed, Ni Hongjie cried by the river and blinded himself.

At that time, she cried and put on all the recorded wheat because it was too loud.

Later, the sound engineer said to her, how can you make such a loud noise when you speak so softly?

Through this role, Ni Hongjie felt the heartbreak for the first time, and she really integrated with this role.

This experience made Ni Hongjie feel incredible. "I just found out that people have a lot of emotions. As an ordinary person, you can't experience everything, but as an actor, you can even bring this into play. I think it's amazing that your little body can have such an experience. "

For the first time, she knew that acting would make people so happy and had a particularly great sense of satisfaction and honor.

Compared with some people who can make plans for their lives at the age of seventeen or eighteen, Ni Hongjie really matured late enough.

This also led to her finally being ready, but there was no place for her in the market.

After filming Blue Bones, Ni Hongjie started filming crazily, but in fact, she didn't receive all kinds of invitations as expected. Even if there is, there are often results that cannot be broadcast after filming.

At first, Ni Hongjie was too anxious. She often asks herself, at my age, will I starve to death if I still do this job?

Even some directors don't think highly of her. When she was filming, the director asked Ni Hongjie: Where is your aura? Why are you so stupid now?

It was the most painful period in Ni Hongjie's life for more than 30 years, and he always had to pay back when he came out to mix. She was indulgent when she was young, so she could only start over at the age of 35.

However, Ni Hongjie also has an advantage, that is, he has a strong self-healing ability. No matter what situation she is in, she can face everything optimistically.

Without a role, she lowered her requirements and acted in everything. Once, the role she received was rejected by others and no one wanted to play it. She took it and had to force herself to like it.

She is like Ah Q, who is criticized by life and compares herself to "Yee".

In this way, filming continued intermittently for many years, until she participated in "Actor in Place 2".

In fact, Ni Hongjie's performance in Actor in Place 2 is remarkable. However, I don't know whether it is for the needs of the program or the needs of the rules. Ni Hongjie was questioned by Chen Kaige several times.

In addition, while actors her age are still playing young women, Ni Hongjie has already played other people's mothers.

So later, Ni Hongjie added a name "Mom Professional Household".

Many actresses find it hard to accept that they can only play their mother in their early forties.

However, Ni Hongjie's Ah Q spirit played a role again.

She has a clear understanding of herself, for example, she said, "I don't think I will have much traffic, really, it has already happened." But I will keep acting, and if you don't choose a role and don't have such high requirements, you can play anything, but you will never starve to death. Grandma, I played, it's okay, I played, and I was quite happy. "

So, Ni Hongjie got the pass as he wished. She also has to thank Chen Kaige and the program team for giving her the opportunity to go to Weibo.

Ni Hongjie has always been unpopular. Besides taking the initiative to escape, there is another reason, that is, it is too silly.

God gave her a goddess' body, but embedded a female neurotic soul.

She is as naive as a child, but she has just revealed what she should and shouldn't say.

When I was on the show, I didn't have the poise and reserve that a 43-year-old woman should have. There are a lot of little moves and exaggerated expressions.

In the program, she was assigned to Class B, and she was a little depressed. But when she suddenly saw Loura sitting in Class S, she suddenly pointed at the other party and exclaimed loudly: Loura, are you from Class S? !

This tone is unbelievable. If it was Loura, I would have thought for 800 times: "Why, not satisfied?"

However, Ni Hongjie didn't mean to offend people at all. After he sat down, he continued to mend the knife and said, "Everyone who can act is sitting here.

What she thinks of humor may be stupidity in the eyes of others.

Therefore, offending people is not self-ridicule. She has no talent. She may have offended people in the real world.

In fact, from 20 10 to now, when Ni Hongjie decided to become an actress, she made unremitting efforts.

But she is not a talented player, nor is she from an ordinary class, so she must pay more than others.

If she meets someone who can tap her potential, she can shoot a vivid role like Blue Bone. If you don't know her, you may always be a grandiose "Zhu".

Now she is 43 years old, but she is still jumping around, as naive as a child.

Looking back on Ni Hongjie's past, we will find that even today, she has to bear some responsibility for her willfulness. At one time, she had a high starting point and a bright moment, but she didn't grasp it and couldn't handle complicated interpersonal relationships well.

But the reason why I want to write an article about Ni Hongjie is that actresses like her are more like us ordinary people.

None of us has a pair of eyes that can predict the future. Most of us follow our feelings, so we will miss many opportunities in the wandering of youth.

Because I can't play with my mind, I have become a silly elder sister in the eyes of others.

Full of enthusiasm, but always criticized and hit, the ceiling is there, and even the latecomers surpass you, but you can only accept it and have to smile.

So, isn't such a person worthy of respect?

No, I have experienced a confused life, a critical attack of life, and contempt from others. Like Ni Hongjie, I can smile and make fun of myself without any burden. No matter what the result is, I can accept it calmly and live with a smile.

Such a person is just every ordinary and hardworking person.

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