Your girlfriend is moody, how to arouse her mood?

You think you can't promote the relationship with girls because you can't mobilize girls' emotions, but when you think about how to mobilize girls' emotions, you actually regard girls as an object, not a person with their own emotions and independent thoughts.

You treat a girl as an adult, put the spotlight on her, take care of, feel, feel her emotions, have a chat, and the relationship will advance as usual.

But if you treat a girl as an object, will you take care of and feel the emotion of an object? What you are talking to girls now is love, not feelings. How to talk about feelings when treating girls as objects without feelings?

What is an object? For example, I have a computer at hand now, which is an object. When I press this button, it will give me corresponding feedback. When I press Enter, it will automatically wrap. I get along with this computer, as long as I understand its objective laws and master its usage, it can give me what I want.

Your logic for girls now is that you don't know which button to press to make girls give you the feedback and response you want and make her like you. So you want to find the right buttons and commands. You think these principles are useful to any woman at any time.

You are objectifying a girl. You think she has objective rules. As long as you understand her objective laws, you can manipulate her and solve the pain you can't get now.

But you have to understand, man, a girl is a person with thoughts and feelings. You treat her like an object, can't she feel it? Of course she can feel it. Girls' sixth sense is very accurate!

Moreover, this feeling is subconscious. She may not even know she feels it, but she just doesn't feel well. The uncomfortable emotions generated by the materialized inner feelings will make her at this moment, and she doesn't know why, but she will resist you.

If you hold her hand now, she will throw you away; If you send her a message, she will ignore you. You asked her why, but she couldn't say it. She just doesn't like you and doesn't want to talk to you. So the real reason why you can't promote the relationship with girls is not that you can't mobilize girls' emotions, but that you objectify girls and solidify their bottom thinking about you.

In love, the bottom thinking determines many things.

Your bottom thinking is wrong. No matter how good you learn the skills behind it and all kinds of attracting skills, there is no way to really attract her for a long time. Fortunately, however, the bottom thinking is something inside you, and you can control it yourself. In other words, you can change it immediately.

You can change your mind at once. When you understand that you have a problem, you can choose not to see her with this materialized female thinking from today, and then everything can be changed.

When you make a change, you will be at a higher level. What you want now, what you are confused about now, and what you are in pain now are not easy to mention when you look down at that higher level.