Leslie Cheung's first love, Huang, and Leslie Cheung's first love, have been miserable.

On January 5th, 54-year-old Ni Shibei rarely shared her recent life on the radio program.

Since the fact that her ex-husband didn't care about her children was revealed in 217, she has been taking care of her autistic son alone for these years. In order to make a living, she had to return to the entertainment circle and find a job to do a radio show, and finally she was able to support herself and her children.

Ni Shibei, who doesn't complain about her life, seems to be in a good state, and she hopes to make a program about autistic children in the future, so that she can share her experience with you to encourage the parents of other sick children.

In addition, she invited Du Zhenzhen, a stylist friend, in this program, to recall the fun and interesting events of gathering with friends in Anita Mui, Danny Chan, Alejandro Delfino and other circles in previous holidays.

Du Zhenzhen recalled that at that time, everyone could play mahjong. Whoever lost was painted with a big face, and he had to go out to buy things and "parade the streets". Even Anita Mui could not break the rules of the game.

They took a precious photo with Anita Mui, only to see that both of them in the picture were gorgeous and moving.

after seeing this, some people may still want to ask, who is Ni Shibei? After retiring from the entertainment circle for nearly 3 years, few viewers remember this beautiful (predecessor of ATV) Hua Dan.

I'm afraid her biggest name is "Leslie Cheung's first love". When it comes to Leslie Cheung's ex-girlfriend, many people only know Teresa Mo, but they don't know that Ni Shibei is the only real girlfriend confirmed by my brother. The first love of Leslie Cheung

Ni Shibei was originally named Ni Wenjuan, and now this poetic name, combined with her early debut, is quite lethal.

at the age of 13, she was caught by Shi Yingying, the editor-in-chief of Sister, a popular magazine in Hong Kong, with her big and pure eyes, round and lovely face, doll-like face and 171 cm height, thus making her official debut.

Ni Shibei first met Leslie Cheung in the studio where the photos were taken. At that time, she was just a small model, and the other party was a promising new singer. Therefore, they just met each other, and there was no chance to make friends.

"The magazine arranged for the two of us to take photos of our clothes. We were in tune and had a good talk, and exchanged phone numbers."

It wasn't until one year passed that Ni Shibei participated in the selection of new stars program held by Li's TV, stood out from the competition, officially joined Li's TV, and transformed from a model to an actress that she had the opportunity to cooperate with her fellow brother Leslie Cheung for a long time.

In 1981, they co-starred in the TV series "Right-to-Right Paste". In this drama, Chen Xiuwen and Lin Guoxiong played another couple. The four protagonists laughed and roughed up on the set every day, and their relationship became more and more familiar.

In the same year, Ni Shibei and Leslie Cheung collaborated on the TV series Sweet 24 Flavors for the second time. The other heroine of this drama was Rosamund Kwan, a beautiful woman, but Ni Shibei still forced the other party to become the most dazzling female number one. At this time, her love affair with Leslie Cheung also changed from mutual affection to sweetness.

She later recalled in her column: "How many people remember the person they liked in the past? Probably they are all impressed! When I saw it, I felt a little flustered. I felt my face burning and my heart beat faster. This kind of feeling is hazy, wonderful and simple. I like each other, like being with each other, and I am very happy. Happy first love may not be successful, but it will never be forgotten. "

When they collaborated for the third time in the TV series "Bump Detective", their love affair was completely hidden, and there was an affair from the outside world. They simply went out for a date, ate snacks and watched movies, and were free. Tang Zhenye's pursuit of < P > Unfortunately, the happy time soon dissipated. After two years of love, Leslie Cheung realized that he was "a person with unstable emotions". He was not prepared to get married at this time to avoid dragging others down. He took the initiative to break up.

He indicated that this was "the most unforgettable period of pure love" and commented on Ni Shibei: "She is a smart and rational girl who knows how to master and arrange herself."

They broke up peacefully, and Ni Shibei, who is being praised by Li's TV, also devoted all her energy to filming.

I didn't expect that in 1985, Tang Zhenye, one of the five tiger generals of TVB, made a fierce pursuit. How untimely was this pursuit? At that time, Tang Zhenye's girlfriend Barbara Yung had just committed suicide, and the media involved Ni Shibei in this public opinion storm.

Fortunately, Ni Shibei refused to admit the scandal and ignored Tang Zhenye's pursuit, and the two ended up in discord, and the storm was calmed down.

However, she also made an unwise decision-to give up her declining TV and go to Taiwan Province for development. After that, she worked hard to make movies, release albums and give concerts, but she still couldn't stop the decline of her career.

On the other hand, ex-boyfriend Leslie Cheung's career is booming. In 1986, Leslie Cheung took the movie "The True Color of Heroes" to Taiwan Province to attend the Golden Horse Awards Ceremony. The reporter asked him if he had any contact with Ni Shibei, and he bluntly stopped contacting him for several years.

When the conversation reached Ni Shibei, she was deeply saddened. Perhaps she was reminded of her own dilemma. She committed suicide by taking medicine in her apartment. Fortunately, she was found early and sent to the hospital for emergency treatment in time, and she was saved.

The tepid first half of my life ended with an uproar in the entertainment industry. Huang Yulang

Ni Shibei, her ex-husband, spent the miserable second half of her life knowing Huang Yulang, a Hong Kong romantic painter.

In 1987, Huang Yulang had just finished his 16-year marriage with his ex-wife Ma Mengni, abandoned his two sons and one daughter, and the children went to live in Canada with their mother. He made public his love affair with Gigi Lai, who was only 16 years old.

At this time, it was also the stage when Ni Shibei first met Huang Yulang. Huang Yulang was 16 years older than her and Gigi Lai was 2 years older. Anyone with a discerning eye could see how unreliable this man was, but Ni Shibei insisted on a moth.

However, Huang Yulang is indeed a qualified expert in love. In 1991, he was sentenced to two years' imprisonment on suspicion of falsifying accounts, and his fortune suddenly turned into nothing. Before going to prison, he claimed to break up decisively in order not to implicate his little girlfriend Gigi Lai.

This caused Gigi Lai to mention him every time, and his tone was full of nostalgia.

Huang Yulang made a comeback soon after he was released from prison. Huang Baiming asked Ni Shibei to talk about film cooperation. By mistake, the three of them met. Ni Shibei and Huang Yulang became more and more happy when they talked, so they began to communicate slowly.

"He often draws some cartoon cards for me personally, which makes me proud and moved. I often turn a blind eye to the age gap between us, only remembering his romance and thoughtfulness to me. "

In 1999, they were married by default, but in fact, they didn't get a certificate or hold a wedding. Despite the strong opposition of their mother, Ni Shibei, who was blinded by love, gave birth to a son without hesitation.

"After getting pregnant, he said that the company was going to go public, and it could not be registered for marriage in these two years, because Feng Shui master said it was unfavorable, and he promised to register again two years later."

naturally, the registration of marriage has not been able to wait, but the family of three has also spent a long period of happy years, which should be the happiest time in Ni Shibei. The change of autistic son < P > occurred when his son was 3 years old. Ni Shibei found that he still could not learn to speak. She immediately took his son to see a doctor. The doctor gave the result that he was born with autism and his IQ stayed at 2 years old forever, which made Ni Shibei's eyes black.

In order to take care of the children, she had to give up all her work, but the situation was still frequent. "When she went out to eat, she ordered food that he didn't like, so she just lay on the ground, kicked her feet and lost her temper to protest."

"In order not to hurt my son, I want to hold his feet with my feet and protect his head with my hands, so as not to bump into the foot of the table when he desperately resists. Sometimes he holds on to my hair, which makes my tears flow. "

The contradiction caused by his father's absence is becoming more and more prominent. Huang Yulang is busy socializing and rarely goes home. Ni Shibei tries to contact him when he is helpless, but in return, he is sarcastic: "You are crazy, giving birth to a baby is crazy."

"I tried to get a phone call, and the other party directly said,' You'd better be careful when taking your son to see a doctor, and don't get hit by a car." At that moment, I was ready to scold back, but the other party hung up after speaking.

I just don't care about the mother and son. Huang Yulang also took the opportunity to have an affair with another woman. He even rekindled his old love and wanted to get back Gigi Lai, but Gigi Lai's relationship with Ma Tingqiang, a rich businessman's boyfriend, was very stable and ignored him.

Ni Shibei is in a state of collapse, and wants to end everything by suicide. But looking at her son's naive innocence, she decides to divorce, end her 1-year marriage relationship, and take her son away from Hong Kong for Singapore.

Once she makes a choice, she has to bear the corresponding pressure. She has a sick child to take care of, and her savings are spent quickly. How to earn money to support her family has become a big problem, so she has to regain her old job and dress up and make a living by singing and dancing on the stage.

High-intensity work caused Ni Shibei to suffer from high blood pressure, and she went to the hospital several times. The reporter asked her what to do if she was too old to jump. Ni Shibei firmly said, "If the entertainment circle doesn't want me, I'm not afraid, I can go to McDonald's to work."

In 217, every time my son went to see his father, there was always an unknown scar on his body. In a rage, Ni Shibei publicly questioned his ex-husband. Huang Yulang ignored her, but in the witness of Huang Baiming, he proposed to his girlfriend who was 36 years younger.

In less than a year, Huang Yulang came to fight for the custody of her son. Ni Shibei was so angry that she swore, but she immediately adjusted her mood and apologized to the public.

Fortunately, her ex-husband's plan failed, and she also rallied to tidy up her mood and started a program on the radio. Now the program has been successful, and the mother and son have finally come to an end. Conclusion

In 23, the news that Leslie Cheung committed suicide by jumping off a building came, and Ni Shibei couldn't believe it at all: "It's too sudden and a pity. I haven't seen Leslie Cheung for a long time, and people sometimes can't get over it in a flash. At this time, I especially need good friends to enlighten me. "

It was also the year when her son was diagnosed with autism, and she began to live a miserable life. Just like Leslie Cheung commented that she was "smart and rational, and knew how to arrange and master herself", Ni Shibei survived all the blows.

Being so optimistic and positive, she believes that her future and her son's life will be better.

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