What if my wife has private money?

In fact, I can accept that the other half has private money, but there must be certain preconditions and foundations.

1. Are two people under great economic pressure? Whether there is foreign debt. If two people have good economic conditions, no pressure of foreign debts, no need to haggle over every ounce in life, and the quality of life can fully meet their own needs, then they can have a small surplus. In this case, it is convenient for a partner to have a certain amount of private money, and it is more convenient for him to communicate outside and spend his daily life. This kind of private money has a certain foundation, that is to say, the amount is very small. If the amount is huge, it is another matter, which is equivalent to cheating between husband and wife and will definitely affect marriage.

2. Private money is not a secret. In other words, I have a pocket money that can be used for mental activities, and I can respond freely without informing the other party when there is a relatively small probability of events. This is a common state in the harmonious relationship between husband and wife. For example, the fees charged by the school when children are in the lower grades, the parents who usually invite them to eat, smoke and drink, and the money for daily communication. For women, they don't need to know how much they need to spend on dressing, which is based on mutual trust.

3. Private money boasts the proportion of common economic income. Acceptable private money is a small amount of money that has no significant impact on a person or a person's family life. Therefore, the amount of this private money is very important. If both husband and wife think it's a large sum, they won't accept it. When two people form a family, there should be no secrets. After losing a lot, it will become a secret between two people, which will affect each other's trust and shake the foundation of marriage. Therefore, some meticulous, heartless and insignificant small money can be accepted.