Prose about the transmission and continuation of love

On the evening of October 23, 2015, my family of five drove to Hefei by car to prepare for the wedding of my younger sister and daughter the next day. We arrived at West Lake International Plaza, Huaining Road, Hefei Government District at 6:30 pm , a house full of guests is waiting for our guests from afar. That night, we dined at the "Zhang's Kitchen" near the community. The arrival of my uncle's family naturally made my uncle and relatives happy. The dinner was also very lively, and some "relatives" who had never met each other met each other, shaking hands, greetings, and clinking glasses. , there was a lot of fun, and the distance between each other suddenly became closer. It was also a "preview" for the wedding banquet the next day. That night, we stayed at the "Super 8" hotel not far from the community.

Late at night, I was thinking about how to harvest this "wedding trip". I remember that I attended a rural wedding in Pingshan County, Hebei Province, where Sister Hanmei Aoxue is based. The unique scenery and lively scenes are still fresh in my memory. Of course, I am not unfamiliar with the scenes of city weddings, but in my mind This is the first time that I have delved deeply into the situation, painted a beautiful picture of my thoughts, and traced the original meaning of "love and marriage".

There are so many different things in the world, which are dazzling, but no matter how colorful and ever-changing, they will always return to nature and return to nature. Perhaps this is the "reincarnation of yin and yang, the passing of incense." As far as human beings are concerned, there are only two people in the world, namely a man and a woman. The Creator has carved out the subtle similarities and differences, endowed the male and female with the yin and yang instincts, expressed the heart tune of yin and qing, and performed the story of love, hatred and hatred. The earth is also full of vitality because of them, the world is rich and colorful because of them, the universe is no longer boundless because of them, and leaving an endless continuation of life is the original meaning of "love and marriage". If this is If it is a poem, then this is the finishing touch of the poem.

According to the master’s arrangements. The agenda of the wedding started at 1:30 pm on October 24. The makeup artist put on "heavy makeup" for the bride in advance, and the photographer used three cameras to audition. After a while, the four bridesmaids came to the niece's boudoir. The golden flowers are in full bloom. The bride’s beautiful face, jade-white wedding dress and bright smile are particularly beautiful and lovely under the reflection of the bridesmaids’ pink skirts and happy laughter. The colorful balloons make a strange sound under the flashing lights. The light was brilliant, and the photographer went to great lengths to record it perfectly, providing a great opportunity for the girls to express themselves to the fullest on the spot.

The time was fixed at 1:50 in the afternoon. A knock was heard outside the door of her parents’ home. The groom and his groomsmen were "calling numbers" outside the door, "How can I let you appear so smoothly? "The woman's family organized a team to "resist" inside the door, so the game of "asking for betrothal gifts" and "buying money" was played in the peephole of the door. Red envelopes of five yuan, ten yuan, and one hundred yuan were difficult to pass through the peephole. "In and out". "Final resources will eventually be limited, and you will have no choice but to be impatient." At about 2:08, driven by compassion, the mother's family "let the horse pass through Tongguan" and "let them in." The groom was the first to bear the brunt and "barged in" with 99 roses in his hand. The four groomsmen surrounded the groom and squeezed open the door of his parents' house and went straight to the bride's boudoir. Although the four groomsmen were of inferior rank, He also couldn’t resist the “powerful” temptation of the best man.

The "ceremony" of marrying the bride is carried out in a civilized, interesting and enthusiastic manner in the bride's boudoir. The "problems" designed by the bridesmaids revolve around the theme of "love", and they change the tricks to make the groom To answer universal questions such as "Why do you love, how do you love, and what do you love?", in fact, where can you find a smart and clever groom? Sincerity, sincerity, love, vows, and eternal unity are the best answers. The flying of colorful balloons, unique wedding letters, lipstick-smeared lips, kissing in public, riddle-like brain teasers, all kinds of innovative jokes, all kinds of tricks, all the answers are seamless, is this culture? Is it entertainment? Is it a love story? Is it a game? All, none. Lively, happy, happy, and laughing are the real themes.

At 2:28 pm, the groom officially married the bride. He walked out of the boudoir and came to the living room. Two "ancestors" were sitting on the sofa. One was a ninety-year-old "grandma" and the other The first is an eighty-four-year-old "grandma", happily waiting for the "farewell" of her grandchildren. The next step is to "farewell" to the bride's parents. Of course, she is also performing the immortal marriage routine of "one bow to heaven and earth, two bows to heaven". , "Red envelopes" are a medium for worship, intimate blessings, and parting instructions. They are also an indispensable "connotation", and their gold content is naturally proof. At the moment when they left the house, the bride and her daughter hugged each other tightly and shed tears. With a mixture of joy and regret, they staged an emotional drama of tears of joy and farewell. Let the relatives around you be deeply affected and sigh.

At 2:38, 40,000-gun cannons blasted into the sky on the roof and downstairs, informing relatives and friends that the groom had "married" the bride away, and six beautiful black wedding cars drove out. "West Lake Song Dynasty Feiyun Garden", "October fireworks send the bride, the clouds and swallows sing auspicious songs, relatives and friends enjoy themselves, praying for the newlyweds to cross the ocean." The wedding float slowly cruised along the Swan Lake in Hefei Government District for a week, heading to the groom The cloud tower. A lively welcome ceremony was held in Yunlou, and it was natural that "a new world will be opened from now on, and love will last forever. May Yi embrace a new life, and advise you to join hands to have a baby."

The wedding banquet was held at the "Tongqing Building" Hotel in Hefei. When you walked into the corridor, you were greeted by six couples celebrating together. The banquet was held in separate halls. It was really lively. The first hall of the niece's wedding banquet was on the left and entered the corridor. First, sign and register, leaving a mark of calligraphy. When you step into the wedding banquet hall, you will see spotlights, flashlights, and spotlights lined up in order. More than twenty wine tables are placed correspondingly under the chandeliers in the hall, which is very grand. The huge "T"-shaped stage in the center of the hall is used for wedding ceremonies. The "Demonstration Area", on the side of the front stage background, is a designed pattern with the names of the bride and groom and the wedding time "2015.10.24". The beautiful photos of the bride and groom are played on the huge screen on the front stage. and film and television tapes. Relatives and friends arrived one after another. While admiring the newlyweds' nude photos, they arranged their seats, greeted each other, shook hands, and chatted. They were very busy.

At 6:58, the wedding host appeared first. He asked relatives and friends to cooperate with him in directing a comedy of "unveiling the marriage veil". "Marriage" is a sacred title. When a man and a woman know each other from acquaintance to each other, the fruit of love sprouts in their hearts, and then from falling in love to being inseparable, the love continues to sublimate in the "discharge" of you and me, and then gradually Entering the stage of mutual dependence and dependence on each other, this "destined fate" is fixed in the form of a contract, which is called "marriage". Throughout the ages, weddings at home and abroad have been a kind of "certificate of marriage" ceremony. Foreign church weddings, ancient Chinese sedan weddings, modern collective weddings, and various customs and customs are all for the purpose of informing the world and obtaining a legal name. point.

The marriage that the host wants to explain today revolves around the "bride" and shows the transmission of love between two men. He said to the bride standing on the other side of the "T" stage : "When your father took your mother's arm and got married, you came into existence, and the first man's love you received in your life was 'father's love'. When you grow up and need to get married, , you once again accept the love of the second man, then the love of your future husband. In a sense, marriage is the transfer of love between two men." He invited the bride's father and the groom. He went on stage and directed this short film simulating the "transmission of love". The brilliant performance aroused warm applause from relatives and friends at the wedding. When the groom knelt down and put the "wedding ring" on the bride, the audience once again burst into thunderous applause.

In fact, marriage is not just a matter between a man and a woman, it affects the hearts of four other people. In this sense, marriage is also the acquaintance and union of two strange families. Children are the concern of parents and the continuation of human hope. The passing of incense continues in concern, which is another meaning of marriage. The host invited both parents to the stage, and the six hands were intertwined. The misplaced communication made the six parties involved have mixed feelings and tears in their eyes. The relatives and friends present witnessed this exciting scene. Yes, from now on, you need to think in one place and work hard in one place. The two family members will become a new couple, making the "transmission and continuation of love" more powerful and poetic. The last six "sympathizers" raised their wine glasses high, thanked their relatives and friends for coming to the wedding, and wished everyone a happy mood, happiness and good health. The wedding banquet finally started amidst warm applause, and the harmony of bowls, chopsticks and pans pushed the wedding banquet to a climax.

The successful wedding held in Hefei undoubtedly increased the "width" and "length" of the couple's love, filling their hearts with warmth and joy.

On the third day, the newlyweds returned to their parents' home and held a banquet to thank relatives and friends at the "Zunrui Hotel" in Anqing. The sister-in-law gave a thank-you speech on behalf of the family. "The transmission and continuation of love" was like a melodious carol, accompanied by laughter and laughter in the banquet hall. The sky is full of excitement, like the lullaby of the angel Angel, echoing with the blessings of relatives and friends to "have a baby soon"!