Now many young men in the countryside can't find wives. Is there any good way to deal with it?

It is not surprising that there are too many young men who can't find wives in rural areas, but the divorce rate of young people is surprisingly high. The main reasons are various. Most women have a serious comparison mentality and always feel that others are much better than her. Of course, there are many conditions that cannot be changed. Backward economic conditions, unstable income, poor housing conditions, ordinary houses do not pay attention to decoration. It's not unusual to drive a car, but it's only180 thousand, and it's common to eat coarse grains, light rice and seafood. The clothes you wear can't keep up with the development of the situation. There is no famous brand, and each packet costs tens of thousands of yuan. That sounds scary. It's hard to buy one without eating or drinking for several years. Working outside for several years, you have learned a lot. If you want to jump out of the door of agriculture, you must first learn to dress up, learn to arrange flowers and powder, and learn to paint. You are fat, hungry, flustered, and your belt is tightened. Entering high-end entertainment places, spending money like water, doing whatever you want, getting used to high consumption, the outside world is really like a fairy. When you return to the countryside, you should divorce quickly. Even if you are engaged, you should break off your marriage and dream of Prince Charming in the city, waiting for her to throw herself into her arms and enjoy the family happiness she has been dreaming of for a long time. Who in the countryside can have such superior conditions and can only resign themselves to fate and be single?

Hello, I am from the countryside. There are more men than women in the money society. There's nothing I can do. Is there any good way to deal with it? Thank you.

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In today's society, there are many leftover men and women, many in rural areas and most in cities. The imbalance between men and women in our country, many rural young people can't find wives, which is really a big problem. Simply put, young people from rural areas come to the city to do things and do anything. If you want to be strong, you need to study hard, learn skills, have a professional skill, and be the best person, so that you can know women.

Another reason is that many young men can't find wives, rural girls have gone to work in cities, and many people get married in cities. So there are many young men in rural areas, so it is not so easy to get married and find someone. Some young men are their own problems, and poor family conditions and low educational level are also a reason. Therefore, we must change ourselves and be the best ourselves so as not to be ignored by women.

In the final analysis, it is a word: because of poverty. Zhao Benshan has a private jet and won't worry about finding a wife.

Nowadays, many rural young men can't find wives, certainly because of poor conditions, mainly because the labor income is not as good as the needs of economic development. To tell the truth, the lack of money is related to the location.

In my opinion, you should build up confidence, work hard, accumulate funds and experience, don't be half-hearted, try to work in places where women work, learn to be kind to others, be good at dealing with people, learn one or two professional skills as much as possible, diligently gain true knowledge and improve your earning power. With more money in hand, you have enough confidence to find a wife.

In fact, many things happen. You have the conditions to stop worrying about spending money. Is it difficult to be a wife?

You can't even support yourself, even if you talk about a wife, she can't stay. What conditions do you use to support your family?

In other words, no matter how nice it is, the material foundation is the last word!

Children, while you are still young, work hard, as long as you really pay, there will be a return!

Thank you for inviting me! With this question, the author visited Xu, who found a woman by learning a skill, Zhao Ruyi, who found a marriage in a factory by many women, Han Chaohua, who opened cherry blossoms in winter at the age of 36, and Zhu Xiangsheng, a farmer who found love by fishing at the age of 34. . . . . . Let's talk about their success in capturing true love. ! Welcome netizens to put forward different opinions. . . . . . A, a 34-year-old farmer from Sunpolou Village, Minquan County, found the other half by fishing along the coast of Fujian. B Han Chaohua, a 36-year-old farmer from Hanlou Village, Chumiao Township, found true love in the form of tourists enjoying cherry blossoms. Zhao Shusheng, a 37-year-old villager from Zhaoba, Minquan County, works in Quanzhou wedding photography shop. Finding true love D. A 65-year-old farmer in Zhuangyuan Village found a middle-aged second-married woman on a fishing boat in the South China Sea with the kindness of a northern farmer C. A 57-year-old farmer in Qi Lin Zhenbei Village married a 35-year-old Vietnamese wife E. Liu Jianjun, a 57-year-old farmer in Shangqiu Suburb Township, cheated in a scenic spot in Guangxi on Valentine's Day, and liu village and Liu Daqiang in Chumiao Township found the true love big V in the form of a work association. Huang Changan, a 29-year-old native of Dongcun, the head of Shuangta Township, studied hairdressing in Shanghai, opened a rental shop of her own, once won the title of 1300 yuan, and soon found Cao Deyun, a working woman in Pujilian Village, Cao County, Shandong Province. In a money-oriented society, no one, whether rural or urban, will marry you without money or a house. Nowadays, girls are very realistic and their world outlook has changed. They only recognize money, not people. A man without money can only work hard, work hard. When they make money, girls will naturally marry you. If you want to marry a wife, you have to work hard to earn money. There is no other way.

If you ask me, I can also ask you a few questions.

What if many people buy lottery tickets all the year round and don't win?

Many people want to be the county party secretary, but they have never been able to do so. What should we do?

What if many people want to marry a star but can't get married?

Many people want to be billionaires, but what if they can't?

How to deal with these problems?

Young men in rural areas can't find a wife, complaining that they don't work hard and are afraid that they can't earn money. They can earn more than 10 thousand a month, but they can't get married. Every fool knows the truth. Are you playing dumb and asking if it's interesting? Are you complaining that the government didn't give each of them a wife? Are you trying to say that the government doesn't care about the countryside and doesn't attach importance to it? Say you are a farmer or a sprayer, and do something serious.

Please don't talk about rural youth. No matter the rural youth or the urban youth, it is difficult to get a wife without hard work, sense of responsibility and responsibility. Even if you are lucky enough to get a wife, your marriage will not last long. On the contrary, whether you are a rural youth or an urban youth, as long as you are diligent, hardworking, studious, enterprising, idealistic and ambitious, you won't worry about not getting a wife.