Photographic mourning

Children are not satisfied with undertaker's side.

If Confucius sits next to Dai Xiao and eats, he will never get enough to eat.

Confucius went to a funeral. If he eats next to undertaker, he will never get enough to eat. In The Analects of Confucius, descriptions of funerals often appear. There is a simple reason. At that time, people's average life expectancy was short, the population changed rapidly, and funerals were frequent. Attending a funeral is a very important social activity, which can reflect a person's inner cultivation.

Confucius believes that love is one of the most important reasons for respecting "ceremony". If you really care about others, attending a funeral is a sincere mourning, not going through the motions, sitting there and eating a little, and expressing your inner grief and sympathy with actions. This is the application of "Li" in concrete things.

If you cry every day, you won't sing.

If he cried because of something sad that day (such as the death of someone), Confucius would not sing on this day to show his respect.

If one day Confucius cried at a funeral, he would stop singing and spend the whole day quietly. This is because Confucius felt sad, which also reflected his cherish of life.

On the contrary, as long as Confucius didn't attend the funeral, he might be singing and playing music every day, and he was very happy inside. This can reflect that Confucius' love for music comes from the depths of his soul, and he can find happiness through music.

The son said to Yan Yuan, "If you use it, you can do it; if you discard it, you can hide it. Only you and I are husbands. " Lutz said, "If you join the three armed forces, who will join you?" Confucius said, "I don't think so if you die without regrets." I am also afraid of things, and people who are good at it will succeed. "

Confucius said to Yan Yuan: "When you are reused, you show your talents;" When you are not reused, you will hide your strength and bide your time. Only you and I can do this! " Lutz said, "If you lead troops to fight, who will help you?" Confucius said, "I don't need to fight tigers with my bare hands and wade in deep rivers barefoot until I die." What I need is a man who knows how to be awe-inspiring, cautious and win with ingenuity. "

"Just use it." If the monarch wants me to be an official, I can take office immediately without any problem. Give up and hide. If you are not appointed, you can go home to practice and study hard with an open mind.

"Die without regret", never feel how important your life is.

Confucius believes that human life is very important, and one can't easily dispose of his own life. What Confucius appreciates is "fearless in times of crisis, taking your time." This is not cowardice, but an attitude full of wisdom and taking things seriously. Some young people often talk about what they "did" and "played". For example, "learning photography" is called "playing photography" What's more, when interviewing, introducing your past experience is simply "playing". A person calls his past work a game, and starts a business and works with an attitude towards the game. Without fear in his heart, it is difficult to do things well, let alone pursue self-transcendence.

To do something, you must know the responsibility and difficulty of doing it, and then you can plan carefully according to the actual situation, think clearly about all the details you can think of and try your best to do it.

Feeling: You should take everything seriously, especially your life plan. If you want to live a wonderful life, you must work hard, be afraid of urgency and be good at it.