0 16: Stop mixing, or you will be mixed up by the days.

During the soldiers' surprise attack, Xu Sanduo was finally assigned to the most "unpopular" grassland class 5 of Xinbinglian. Before Sanduo went, several comrades in Class Five on the grassland were veterans, not like soldiers at all. He is quiet, but he practices the principles of life with his own actions: live well and do meaningful things; To do something meaningful is to live well. Under his influence, monitor Ma Lao and several other comrades-in-arms slowly found the meaning of being a soldier. On the eve of everyone's awakening, Ma Lao, the monitor of the class, wrote a discharge report and said to everyone: "Don't dawdle any more, be careful to let the days mix you up."

As I grow older, I feel more and more "time flies", as if I were the handsome guy yesterday, but today I am already greasy. I feel that just after the Spring Festival, 20 19 has passed halfway. I always whisper, time, time, slow down.

"The golden mean" is a philosophy of life flowing in the blood of China people. Everyone treats work and life with a compromise attitude. There are slang words such as "The wood in the forest is beautiful, the wind will rush it, the gun will shoot the first bird, and the rafters will rot first", reminding everyone not to aim too high, to be down-to-earth, and to be clear about their own weight. This philosophy of life has a profound influence on us to find the life we want, because some things caused by finding the life we want are "beyond the present" in the eyes of the secular.

After graduation, I found a good job and started a family. In the minds of many people in China, I was successful at that moment, but my life was basically finalized, and I started an "ordinary and great" life. Ordinary and great are clearly antonyms and opposites, but why should we say ordinary and great? Since it is an ordinary life, how can it be great? Since it is a great life, how can it be ordinary? I have always had an incomprehensible doubt about this sentence.

When I was in my twenties, I always felt that time passed slowly and I felt that I had endless light and inexhaustible energy. It should be the best time for trial and error, but time is wasted on eating, drinking, and being content with the status quo. At that time, I was just enjoying myself for a while and didn't think about my future.

Now, the future is coming, and I am at a loss.

Since I got a job, my job has been the same every day. Every time I think back to those days, I always feel a little muddled along, because I didn't know what I wanted at that time! I don't know what kind of life I want, which is different from walking dead. The infection of China's Confucianism and the particularity of parents' growing environment have deeply influenced our efforts to find the life we really want.

I want to open a homestay in a place with mountains and water.

You can do it. What's the motive? The motivation is often not really like to open a homestay, but to escape from the complicated life now. It is often with the ability and courage to open a homestay that I find that opening a homestay is not the life I want.

This is also why many people who "escaped from the North to Guangzhou" turned back. They thought that life elsewhere was my pursuit, but after they fled, they found that they didn't like it, but they just couldn't bear the pressure from Beishangguang and fled.

A small hair, skinny, dry all the year round, always gives people a feeling of trying to win him over. Every time I come home from work, I like to take pictures of myself with my camera. Although I have experienced numerous job changes, I finally found my favorite thing and became a full-time photographer.

As long as we can finally reach the finish line, then every step before counts, and we didn't walk in vain. I envy him very much. Although he is still skinny after a hard day's work, he is happy and doing his job.

People like him are so lucky that it is simply too difficult to engage in an industry that they like. This is a "restrictive belief", and before you start to act, you have told yourself that it can't be realized. Believe me, people with such restrictive beliefs don't even know what kind of job they like and what kind of life they want. They just answered the sentence "Some people died at the age of 27 and were buried at the age of 70".

In my opinion, the same day is not life, but life. It's not an allusion to people who pursue comfort. If your goal in life is stability, then the process of ease is understandable. I am afraid that I will pursue comfort in my actions and move easily in my thoughts. Living a muddled life every day, I suddenly decided to do something at a certain moment and promised myself a step-by-step plan. But I feel so troublesome in the process of planning, and restrictive beliefs appear again to tell you that it is not that easy, and I may lose my comfortable life now.

If you don't know where the destination is, there is no such thing as walking, just standing still. No end point means no direction, and walking without direction is useless or muddling along.

Life is not muddling along.

Positive performance at work, want to be promoted and raised as soon as possible; If you don't make progress in your work, be a monk for a day.

I am quite independent in my life, and I can do both leisure and exercise. Either my soul is walking (reading) or my body is walking (exercising). Go with the flow in life, eat when you are told, drink when you are told, and be free at any time.

Isn't the second one just muddling along?

A young scholar asked Hu Shi, "How do I know if what I am doing now is beneficial or harmful to the future?" .

Hu Shi said: "After you have a goal, ask yourself." .

In the student stage, the goal is to take the postgraduate entrance examination. In the evening, my roommate called to invite you to dinner. Ask yourself, will eating this meal help me to take part in the postgraduate entrance examination? Not at all! Then don't go.

At work, the goal is to win this customer and get the customer to sign the contract. But there are always emotions such as lawlessness, self-blame and anxiety. Is this mood helpful for the final signing? Not at all, then get out of this emotion and let your thinking return to rationality.

In life, the goal is to lose weight. Seeing others eating and drinking, I want to be presumptuous myself. Does eating a meal privately help to lose weight? Of course not, so don't eat it.

With a goal, we can walk better.

Big goals are good, and small goals are good. As long as you have a goal, you won't do something without substance all day, and these things are just muddling along.

Don't expect how magnificent and successful life is. But we must give life a purpose. The goal is the lighthouse, the North Star, and the source of our work and life. The target is not empty at all. As long as there is a goal in mind, it will slowly take root and sprout. Every step you take, it will thrive, and one day it will grow to shelter you from the wind and rain.