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1. Leave some personal living space for my husband.

Women have a dependence and like to be with others; Married women, this dependence will be strengthened, and they always hope that their husbands can stay with them. And men have a game mentality. After marriage, I also hope to associate with my past friends and keep my past hobbies. Some wives lose their temper when their husbands go out, causing small family conflicts. In addition, due to the limitation of the current cultural environment, work and career are still important links in men's sexual life. Even if career is a means to make a living, it is also an important way to establish personal social image and reflect personal value. In order to gain this value, husbands often spend some spare time to arrange their own work. This is also easy for the wife to have a cold feeling. A good wife should be considerate of her husband's psychological characteristics and not lock him up. But leave each other a little free space. Women sometimes coquetry around their husbands to make them narrow-minded and relax themselves. Men are interested in playing chess, playing cards and taking pictures. If you don't leave your husband the necessary living space, asking him to stay with you all day will make him lose his distinctive personality and rich life color; The incompetence of the husband's career is also the misfortune of the wife. Therefore, only intimate and independent husband and wife life can be harmonious and perfect.

2. Don't transform your husband all day.

What a husband can't stand most is that his wife is always finding fault with herself. What stubborn temper, laziness, clumsy mouth and tongue ... This endless criticism and transformation has become the fuse of many small families' quarrels. Many husbands had no choice but to avoid it with silence, but it soon broke out in silence. Just as a husband hates his wife's wordiness, a wife hates her husband's silence the most. As a result, this kind of family is always shrouded in a dull and tense atmosphere. There are few sweet and relaxed laughter. Psychologists tell us that it is not so easy to transform people's character and temperament. Even the reform depends mainly on the initiative of one's own will and the encouragement of others. Constant accusations will only hurt each other's self-esteem and produce disgust and disgust. A wife is the spiritual pillar in her husband's life, and a good wife knows how to safeguard her husband's personal dignity in various ways. The humiliation of others can be understood as a reflection of the sense of competition in life. The public humiliation of his wife will make his personality and dignity explode and collapse in the spiritual core, leading to a double rift between family and personality.

3. Don't doubt it.

Doubt is a distrust attitude caused by fear of being hurt. If you are worried that your situation is unsafe, you will be suspicious and worried. A sense of security depends on two conditions, one is self-confidence and the other is trust. After marriage, for the needs of family, women tend to shrink their lives, focus on love, and are skeptical about their husbands' behind-the-scenes activities.

The western philosopher Heraclitus once said: The sun is new every day. As the sun in the family, the wife has great ability to keep the family warm. As long as the husband and wife work together, can't your life be new every day?