Qian Zhongshu's quotations

1, looking far away, everything is sad.

2. I hope that when my feelings are exhausted, the deeper my feelings are.

The prosperity outside the door is not my prosperity.

Theories are always formulated by people who don't practice.

It is cruel for ugly people to look at it carefully.

6. Where there are people, there is politics.

7. If you want to get married, travel first.

8. You don't have to choose any good songs to play the piano for cows.

9. I didn't expect that your knowledge was so mediocre that you could be an editor.

10, from now on, we will only die, and there will be no separation.

1 1. I have no ambition. I hope to devote my life to study.

12, beautiful things don't need to be remembered, they will leave a deep impression.

13, in front of the beloved man, every woman has the stunt of rejuvenation.

14, thinking of this long and difficult night, I have a fear of being alone in the wilderness at night.

15. Marriage is a besieged city. People outside the city want to go in, and people in the city want to come out.

16, a really smart woman never tries to be a talented woman, she is just smart and lazy.

17, no dreams, no feelings, the most primitive sleep in life is also a sample of death.

18, a house with windows is like a human body with a soul. Windows can be opened and closed, so can people's hearts.

19, at first, make an appointment to meet, which can make the days before and after meeting a little brighter and become a beautiful day.

20, introspection can examine people, people have self-knowledge. Birds' wings are a double-edged sword, and both are indispensable.

2 1, the thorn of life, is here, you don't want to leave, you don't want to leave.

22. All the enjoyment of happiness belongs to the spirit, although the reason for happiness is the physical stimulation.

23. For grapes that can't be picked, we will not only imagine that they are sour, but also imagine that they are exceptionally sweet.

24. Turning patience into enjoyment is the greatest victory of spirit over matter. The soul can be independent or deceive itself.

25. God will regret that he didn't give people a wagging tail, thus reducing the effect of many expressions.

A wife's little obligation to her husband depends on whether she likes that man or not.

27. Love is mostly unsuccessful, either suffering from the boredom of finally getting married or suffering from the sadness of not getting married.

28. Science is very different from scientists. Scientists are like wine. The older you get, the more valuable you are. Science is like a woman. When they are old, they will be worthless.

29, uneducated people, because they can't read, are taken in by others; Educated people will be fooled by printed matter because they can read.

30. There is no greater evil in the world than cruelty, and most of them are done by people with real moral ideals.

3 1, the person I love, I hope to occupy his life. Before he met me, he had no past and left me a blank.

32. When you put your mouth together, I will tell you that this word will always get into your heart, so as not to take a long way and turn a corner to get into your ear.

33. Imagination is a psychological function, which is like a pure and polished crystal, reflecting the image of concrete things obtained through feeling.

34. Prejudice can be said to be a festival of thoughts. It is the daily life of people without thoughts and the Sunday entertainment of people with thoughts.

35. Some people will lose sleep if they think about it a little before going to bed. Also, when you think when you are awake, you will fall asleep.

36. Many people talk about marriage, and the tone seems to be gay. They are not interested in the girl herself, but envious of her father or her brother.

37. Therefore, we have compensation for each defect. Misery is called saving, stupidity is called honesty, meanness is called flexibility, and no talent is called virtue.

38. It is vanity of human nature to let people know that they have secrets, but not what they are. When they ask and let them guess.

39. Do the opposite. If you look at the world from another angle, you will get something different, and the world will be presented to you in another way.

40. Marriage is like a golden birdcage. The birds outside the cage want to live in, and the birds inside the cage want to fly out, so they go away. There is no game.

4 1, China is the most science-oriented country in the world, and no country is willing to do it for scientists. With the progress of foreign science, scientists in China have been promoted.

42. Traveling is the most tiring and troublesome, and it is also the time when people will appear. Only those who have gone through a long and arduous journey without hating each other can become friends.

43. Useful things can only be used by people, so they exist, while useless things will employ people, cover people, defend people and avoid being abandoned.

44. Most things in the world can be disposed of casually, but little things can't be borrowed at all. For example, corrupt officials take tens of millions of bribes, but they will never steal other people's money.

45. Rumors spread faster than flu, have more energy than meteors, are more vicious than hooligans, and are more tiring than abortion.

46. At first, an appointment can brighten the days before and after the meeting and make it a beautiful day. Gradually I hate not seeing each other every day; Later, I hope I can't meet you at any time.

47. This diploma seems to have the function of the leaf in Adam and Eve's lower body, which can cover up shame and ugliness; A small square paper can cover up a person's emptiness and stupidity.

48. There are many precocious women who have been installed by city girl. They are not children; There are many girls who are just confused and stupid children without sex, let alone women.

49. The thorn in life lies here. What you don't want to leave is what you don't want to leave Contradiction is the price of wisdom and a joke of life on outlook on life.

50. A diploma seems to have the function of the leaf in Adam and Eve's lower body, which can cover up shame and ugliness; A small piece of paper can cover up a person's emptiness, ignorance and stupidity.

5 1, eating is sometimes like getting married. Nominally, the most important thing is often accessories. Eating a good meal is actually just eating vegetables, just like begging a rich woman, the purpose is not for women.

52. It is said that the girlfriend is the scientific name of the lover, which is more solemn, just like the rose is biologically called the woody compound leaf plant of Rosaceae, or the legal term for divorce is-divorce by agreement?

53. It is the last place for colleagues to get married, because no one can fool who is the expert on each other's affairs. A husband will not worship his wife mysteriously and blindly, and the foundation of marriage will not be solid.

54. China people are as ugly as the creator's result of cutting corners. The ugliness of westerners is a malicious expression of the creator, who deliberately jokes about the five senses on his face, so it is planned and effective.

55. In our creation, our imagination is often poor and pitiful, but when it comes to memories, whether a few days ago or decades ago, they are all about ourselves or others, and the imagination is suddenly so rich that it is shocking, comforting and terrible.

56. If someone is lovelorn, they will immediately show their sadness like a beggar's rotten leg in a bloody public exhibition, which will make people feel pity, or things have changed, like a soldier's golden sore, which makes people dumbfounded.

57. Between us, any pretense and bad temper can be; The closer you smile, the more polite you are, and the deeper your mutual suspicion or resentment. In a quarrel, the one who speaks first may not have the upper hand, and then the one who keeps silent is the winner.

58. This kind of spiritual self-pity made him write an autobiography and a diary, just like a woman wearing Chinese and western clothes in spring, summer, autumn and winter, making various postures of standing up and sitting up with her neck propped up and taking pictures as a souvenir.

59. Happy forever? This sentence is not only too slim to be realized, but also too absurd to be established. Fast will never last; When we say that we are always happy, it is like saying that the circular motion of a square is as contradictory as the static motion.

60. We often compare flame to love, and this metaphor is more appropriate than we think. Love is as greedy as fire, spreads like fire, and is as cruel as fire, destroying solid fertilizer and turning ashes into light and warmth.

6 1, it seems that it is always easy for us to ignore the present life and many good times. And when all the time is wasted after disappointment, we can take out a certain paragraph from our memory, pat the dust deposited on it and sigh that it is the best.

62. Classical scholars will wonder why poets at all times and all over the world are willing to be women's hairpins, belts around their waists, sleeping mats on their bodies, and even shoes and socks trampled under their feet, but they never expect to be her toothbrushes.

63. Women are political animals by nature. Virtual reality, retreat for progress, these political skills, women are born with. Women don't have to study politics, but politicians nowadays must learn from women if they want to succeed. Dramas on the political stage are all cross-linked.

64. Many women will smile so sweetly, but their smiles are just facial muscle exercises, as if a coach is calling a password: "One!" Suddenly grinning, "two!" Suddenly I disappeared with a smile, leaving only an empty face, like the curtain before the opening of the movie.

65. Pure purposes may have complex motives. The cry of righteous words is sometimes a cover-up of the decline of literary creativity, sometimes a desperate anger at life, sometimes a temptation to change careers, and sometimes a jealousy of middle-aged people when they see others or teenagers.

66. It is found that happiness is determined by spirit, and human culture goes further. Finding this truth is as important as finding out that right and wrong, good and evil depend on justice rather than violence. After the discovery of justice, no one in the world can be completely surrendered by force.

67. Farewell does not mean death, but at least you become strange. Going home is like putting half-baked things back into the pot. It takes a while to cook them. Sleep has a strange temper. You don't want it, it will come. Invite it, coax it, and try every means to seduce it. It hid its identity and disappeared.

A lovely woman says that you are like her fiance, which means that if she is not engaged, you are entitled to her love. The villain may explain it this way. She has another fiance, and you can enjoy the rights of her fiance without fulfilling the obligation to marry her.

69. Life is to stay at home, go out and go home. All our emotional, rational and will pursuits or attempts are nothing but homesickness in the soul. Want to find a person, a thing, a position, let our body and mind have a stable home in this vast world.

70. The humor produced by advocacy must be man-made humor. This mechanized smile, like the teeth of a skeleton, is not a smart gesture of the living. Bergson's "On Laughter" says that all absurdity begins with flexible things becoming rigid and vivid behaviors becoming mechanical.

7 1, take a bath, look at flowers and have a meal. If you feel happy, it's not all because the bath is clean, the flowers are blooming well, or the food is to your taste. It's mainly because there is nothing in your mind, so a relaxed soul can focus on the feeling of the body to appreciate and examine.

72. In order to study, we must always study history. Otherwise, hearsay says that the East will wipe the West one day. It is inevitable to make friends with COSCO, such as Yan Daodao and Lin Qinnan, and to be close to Mao Hege. A few are naval students and should not be harsh.

Lying is often a manifestation of happiness, and it can also be regarded as a kind of creation, just like self-deception in children's games. A person is physically and mentally comfortable and energetic, and will not put tenacious facts in his eyes and feel that he has the ability to make jokes about the status quo. When you are really poor, people are poor and lack wisdom, and lies will be bad.

74. Women are as smart as women and as light and lively as actions. Compared with this cleverness, learning is nothing more than depositing dross. Saying that a woman is talented is like praising a flower, saying that it is as heavy as cabbage and sweet potato on the balance. A really smart woman never tries to be a talented woman, she is just smart and lazy.

75. Happiness in life is like a cube of sugar that lures children to take medicine, more like an electric rabbit that lures dogs to race in a dog farm. A few minutes or days of happiness bought us a lifetime and made us endure a lot of pain. We hope it will come, we hope it will stay, and we hope it will come again? These three sentences sum up the whole history of human efforts.

76. If you want to be permanent, you must find it in pain. If nothing else, just a sleepless night, or an afternoon when you can't keep an appointment, or a boring lecture, is more effective than all religious beliefs and can give you a taste of eternal life. The thorn in life is here, and you don't want to leave.

77. Really, the difference between civilized human beings and savage beasts lies in the fact that human beings have the concept of superego. So he can separate the truth from his own interests, the good, the evil and the ugly from his love and hate. He is not inextricably linked with daily life, but tries to criticize himself by jumping out of his mortal bones.

78. Mr. Wang satirizes the world through the devil's mouth. Finally, the devil said that most people in the world now have no souls, and even a few people with souls have been chosen by God. Although there are bad people in contemporary times, those who have no spirituality and personality are all bad people. How many people have spirituality and personality now? Alas.

79. The more popular education is, the fewer people write letters. That's not the point of business. People are still afraid of writing letters and prefer to make phone calls. I think this is because writing letters is easy to make a fool of yourself, and people with high status and decent speech often can't write. However, the telephone can save the visits of those who look disgusting, and the letter writing of those who are ignorant of arts and sciences can be regarded as an invention with infinite merits.

80. Shanghai is an outbreak city, and there is no landscape willow as a place to stay in spring. The vegetation in parks and community gardens, like wild animals in cages in zoos, is introverted and lonely, so it is not enough to vent freely in spring. When spring comes, we have to lodge in people's bodies and minds, increasing cases of diseases and infections, adultery and drinking and fighting, as well as pregnant women.

8 1. In universities, science students look down on liberal arts students, foreign language students look down on China literature students, China literature students look down on philosophy students, philosophy students look down on social students, social students look down on education students, and education students can only look down on their husbands.

82. Many people think that smart people will succeed, but they are not. Many smart people are unsuccessful in doing things for two reasons: first, they will not work hard; Second, they didn't find the most important thing to do in their own value system, but did something less important in his value system. So they lack the motivation to go all out.

83. Born as a human being, it is inevitable that you will do a few stupid things, eat fruits that you shouldn't eat, and love people who are not worthy of love; But (civilized people) have their own balance in their hearts, and refuse to reverse right and wrong and kill good and evil to defend themselves. He knows that what he should do is not necessarily what he loves to do. This kind of self-division, deviation from knowing and doing, produces tragedy when nervous, and turns into irony when loose.

But the spring outside is too cheap! There is sunshine everywhere, not as bright as the darkness in the room; There is a lazy wind in the sun everywhere, which is not as lively as stirring a dull room. Even the birds' songs are trivial and thin, which needs the silence in the room to set off. Therefore, we understand that we should look at it in the window in spring, just like drawing with a picture frame.

85. It seems to me that the prisoners in the dark prison are fumbling for matches. When I lit it, the match went out, and everything I couldn't see clearly slipped back into the darkness. For example, in the dark, two ships passed by. One of them caught a glimpse of his dream face in the light of the opposite cabin. They were far away before they called. This moment is close, but it is slim and can't see the gap.

86. Happy forever? This sentence is not only too slim to be realized, but also too absurd to be established. Fast will never last; When we say that we are always happy, it is like saying that the circular motion of a square is as contradictory as the static motion. When we are happy, we shout at the fleeting time: "Stay a little longer!" " ! You are so beautiful! "What's the use? If you want to be permanent, you must find it in pain.

There are only two kinds of people in the world. For example, if you get a bunch of grapes, one person chooses the best to eat first, and the other person saves the best for last. The first person should be optimistic as usual, because every grape he eats is the best grape left over; The second person should be pessimistic, because every grape he eats is the worst grape left. But the opposite is true, because the second kind of people still have hope, and the first kind of people only have memories.

88. Medicine needs people to live and save their bodies; Religion saves people's souls, and people are not afraid of death. So the patient was afraid of death and had to ask the doctor to take medicine; If the medicine doesn't work and you can't escape death, find a priest and the priest will die. Studying medicine and believing in religion means: if I can't teach the patient to live well, at least I can teach him to die well. He can't be wrong to invite me anyway. It's like a drugstore shopkeeper holding a coffin shop. It's so cheap!

89. The story of the crow: God wants to choose the most beautiful bird as the king of poultry. The crow put the peacock's long hair on his body and tail, and went to God to choose, so he was chosen by God. The other birds were furious and tore off all their feathers, still showing the true colors of crows. In other words, it is not necessarily an artist who has long hair; On the other hand, bald people are certainly not scholars and thinkers.

90. Miss you or miss you? We have to think of countless people, relatives, friends, enemies and irrelevant people we have met in one day. It is rare to really miss someone, miss him and hope to be close to him. Personnel are too busy to allow us to focus on one person without interruption. I'm afraid we miss our closest relatives all our lives, which adds up to less than a little. Besides, I just caught a glimpse and thought of him.

9 1. According to several literary historians, the development of poetry is epic, drama and lyricism. China's poems are different. China has no epic, and China people lack Voltaire's so-called epic mind? China's best dramatic poems came into being after the most perfect lyric poems. Pure lyricism, the essence and peak of poetry, appeared very early in China's poems. So China's poems are precocious. The price of precocity is premature aging.

92. If the sound outside the window is too noisy, close the window and let the soul explore freely and meditate quietly. Sometimes, closing the window is also related to closing your eyes. You feel that the world outside the window, like you, can't give you any satisfaction. If you want to go back to your hometown, you must meet your lost relatives and friends. You want to sleep, close your eyes and look for it in your dreams, so you get up and close the window first. Because it's only spring, it's still cold, and the windows can't be closed at night.

93. Human nature cannot be improved, and it is extremely intriguing that someone is still responsible for teaching. There is nothing strange about teaching others when you have morality; You can teach moral people without morality. That's the skill. The greatest sin and cruelty in the world? There is no greater evil than cruelty? Most of them are made by people with real moral ideals. People without morality know that it is a crime anyway; A truly moral person has done something that hurts others and thinks it is the price that morality should pay.

94. Shanghai is a region with advanced civilization. Middle school girls have painted facades to attract men, which is rare abroad. But the girl's face is fake and honest, because no one believes that the pancakes stuck on her face will be her true colors. A girl who dresses up deliberately, or has a boyfriend, has a new interest in her body, finds new value, or needs a boyfriend, and hangs a bright cover to avoid being ignored by men.

95. Strangely, people who take literature as their profession seem to be more illiterate. Many literary researchers have no ability to appreciate and distinguish the beauty and ugliness of poetry. However, as long as we enlarge our horizons, we will know that it is not worth seeing. Reading literary books without appreciating them is like watching the harem in the emperor's era. It happened that a eunuch hangs out with women every day. Although he has the opportunity, he is incompetent! No mistakes, no words. If there were no enemies, there would be no comedy of life.

96. Color-blind people never learn to draw, but illiterate people sometimes talk about literature and are particularly keen on it. Then there is impressionist literary criticism, also called self-expression or creation. Of course, literary appreciation is inseparable from impression, but why impression is self-expression is beyond our understanding. According to common sense, impression can only be said to be the expression of the appreciated work, not the expression of the connoisseur's self, but the gift of the work, not the creation of the connoisseur. Impressionists talk about writing, which is really lively.

97. The great evil and cruelty in the world-there is no greater evil than cruelty-are mostly done by people with real moral ideals. People who have no morality commit crimes, and they know it is a crime; A truly moral person has done something that hurts others and thinks it is the price that morality should pay. God wants to punish mankind, sometimes for a famine, sometimes for a plague or a war, and sometimes for a moralist, with lofty ideals that ordinary people can't achieve, accompanied by self-confidence and incitement proportional to his ideals, and merged into unconscious pride.

98. Eating has many social functions, such as connecting feelings and talking about business. That's "treat to dinner". Although the types of social eating are complex, their nature is extremely simple. It is a pleasure to give food to people who have their own food; It is shameful to eat other people's food when there is food. The subtlety of communication is nothing more than this. On the other hand, to give food to people who have no food is to give food; If you eat other people's food because you have no food, you will lose face while enjoying it. This is charity, not communication.

99. The stars in the sky are dense and busy. They are silent, but it seems that they only feel the excitement in the sky. The moon-like comb describes a young girl, but she is not ashamed to see people. The light and outline are fresh and dewy, which can gradually set off the night scene. Insects on the grass in the small garden talk in trivial ways at night. I don't know where the frog Qi Xin Qi Xin worked together to blow the bugle, like the sound of a boiling fire. A few fireflies swam around, not like flying, but like floating in thick air; In the darkness beyond the reach of moonlight, a little firefly flashes like a little green eye on a summer night.

100, Chen San's original poem, I don't like it. Every poem must be read and understood before it can be circulated. Scattered original works, people who dare not ask questions after decades. Early writing also has a sad, lonely and angry meaning, but monotonous and self-loathing. It is not difficult or impossible to retire when you are old. In order to disperse the original body, there is a shortcut, and so is the so-called avoidance of cooking and customs. It is said that the vegetation is not bright, the flowers are high and the willows are big; Birds don't say purple swallows and orioles, only crows and owls; It is said that beasts avoid tigers, leopards and bears, but it is hard to say about horses and cattle, so we have to consult the dog's ears. 10 1. There is a swagger man. He refuses to accept your compliments, as if you had paid his debts, and he only hates you for not paying interest. Another kind of pretentious modesty is praised by others. His face was full of shame, as if the boss had accepted a bribe, and the amount was too small, so he returned to the original wall and asked his subordinates to double it. No matter the creditor or the boss, they finally believe that there are still commendable good people in the world, at least themselves. Of course, there are bad people in modern times, but they are so bad that they have no spirit and personality, as quiet as an organism and as efficient as a machine.

102, people younger than us can be roughly divided into two categories. The first is the younger generation who are far from our age; We can tolerate such people, like them and protect them; We can sell our old age to them. Our old age will only increase our strictness. There is also a young man much younger than us. Such people will only make us hate, even envy. They have lost the concept of respecting the elderly, and our age is not enough to arouse their pity for the old and the weak; It is better to catch up with them and learn less than to sell out our old age, which will make us miserable.

103, prejudice can be said to be a festival of thought. It is not the daily life of people without thoughts, but the Sunday entertainment of people with thoughts. If we can't be biased, we should be objective, fair and serious at any time and anywhere. It's like building a house with only a living room but no bedroom. It's like looking in the mirror in the bathroom and posing for the camera. In the 27th sentence of Dante's Hell, the devil claims: "Our devil has the best reason in his life." It can be seen that the establishment of hell is for this generation; In this world, words and actions do not need to be reasonable. Of course, the so-called right axiom is also prejudice.

104, the western proverb says: "A friend who is in need or sleepy is a true friend", which is inevitably superficial. When we are in urgent need, we need friends the least. A friend has money, and we need his money; Our friend has rice, but what we lack is his rice. That friend, who is always the most knowledgeable and interesting, has no intention to appreciate his humor, his hug and his charm when we are in a hurry. Try to see how many friendships there are in the world, because there are barriers to success; Similarly, if we look down on the people who are most out of step on weekdays, we will be more concerned than our friends on weekdays if we can save the emergency at this time.

105, bats pretend to be birds when they meet birds, and pretend to be beasts when they meet beasts. People are much smarter than bats. He will use the bat method in the opposite direction: among birds, he insists on being a beast, which shows that he is down to earth; In mammals, pretending to be a bird is superb. Show off elegance to soldiers and be a hero to literati; In the upper class, he is a poor and hard-working civilian, but among the civilians, he is a condescending cultural figure: this is certainly not a bat, this is just an ordinary person. Whether children should read fables depends on what kind of world and society we adults are creating for children to grow and live.

106, people who think they are clean always feel that others are dirty, even that they are dirty, and they feel better than clean people. They often stink of sweat and refuse to borrow other people's used toothbrushes and towels? In this way, we do not love cleanliness, but love ourselves. Live an honest and clean life. That idiom contains profound psychological observation. To tell the truth, the difference between right and wrong, evil and righteousness in the world is sometimes just the difference between people and me, just like the filth of the body. Therefore, if you want to be a good person, you always say that everyone in the world is a bad person first; If you want to be a Taoist, you must first look straight and tell others how not to be a Taoist.