What if no one praises himself? Ask for it.

Everyone wants to be praised by others, but few people praise themselves in life. What are we going to do? Take the initiative.

How do you want the other person to praise himself? Speak louder.

For example, tell your husband:

I can go to work to take care of the children. Is it great? Come and praise me.

Is this braised fish I cooked delicious? Come and praise me.

Does this dress look good on me? Come and praise me.

Does the hairstyle I just cut suit me? Come and praise me.

You can also say this to your daughter:

Mom likes to hear you praise me;

Mother likes to hear you praise me as a good mother.

Colleagues can also say this:

I am very reliable, come and praise me;

Did I do well? Come and praise me.

Am I good? Come and praise me.

Everyone wants to be praised by others, maybe the other person is not good at expressing, maybe the other person doesn't see the advantages he wants, but he can be guided to "praise me quickly" and let him turn his attention to his own advantages.

We taught others how to treat us. If we don't deliberately teach, then unconsciously, we have done our duty of "teaching" in many small things.

Anyway, everyone is "recruited", so you can teach whatever you want.

Inspired by Zhou Fan's book "When you begin to love yourself, the whole world will love you", the article recommends this book to more people who want to live a good life.

* After the author was born in 1985, his ideal is to be a writer, writing 3000 words a day, paying attention to it and taking you to travel more life experiences every day. *